Many women often have nothing to say when they are with friends or talking to strangers, so they complain and sigh that they are not eloquent or are too timid. In fact, this idea is one-sided. Good eloquence is not innate, nor does it mean that you are brave enough. Good eloquence is based on sufficient background.
Who has seen an illiterate woman who can spit lotus flowers? Good eloquence is based on profound knowledge. Without this foundation, speech will become "water without a source, wood without a root" and tasteless. Where can I convince others?
If you have a bucket of water, it is the easiest thing to give it to others, and if there is no water in your bucket, how can you give it to others? The same is true of speaking. First of all, you should have knowledge and connotation, so that you can say wonderful things. Although speaking requires certain skills, it is also closely related to a person's knowledge. As the saying goes, "There is poetry in the belly." Knowledge is not wide enough, even if you learn eloquence well and master more skills, you can't convince others.
Connotation, cultivation and wisdom will make women exude infinite charm in life. It is an inexhaustible wealth for a lifetime. A cultured woman will not lose her luster with the passage of time, but will become more dazzling and charming. Wisdom is an indispensable nutrient for a woman's beauty, a confident and capable person, an emotional independence and a psychological balance of gain and loss.