When people reach middle age, they don't want to talk, don't want to go out, just want to be alone. Is this a common phenomenon?

Is a common phenomenon. Because people are not interested in many things when they are old, they like to stay alone quietly at this time, and they don't want to go out or talk, but they don't feel lonely when they are alone, and their families don't have to worry too much.

1. People who are lonely have stories. "I don't want to talk, I don't want to go out, I just want to be alone." In this case, I can use the phrase "loneliness is not lonely, because there is loneliness as a companion" to describe my mood. And having such a mentality is also because life has experienced too many ups and downs in the past, whether emotionally or professionally.

Being lonely is a reward. This kind of "return" can be described by Yuan Zhen's poem "Once the sea was difficult for water, it will always be amber", and it can also be expressed by Zhu Ziqing's Moonlight on the Lotus Pond: the noise is theirs, and I have nothing.

If there is, it is also lonely, because it is too dull to be noisy, breaking through the world and returning to yourself, isn't it? After the Wutai Poetry Case, Su Shi, a great writer in the Northern Song Dynasty, returned to himself and left a famous sentence: "Looking back at the bleak place, there is no rain or shine."

Loneliness is not decadence, but a struggle of life, in order to live the rest of my life. In middle age, although people have experienced ups and downs and tasted ups and downs, there is still a long way to go in life. As far as reality is concerned, they still bear a heavy burden of life. Elderly parents need filial piety, have no independent children, and need to make more efforts by themselves.

The family is stable and the children are adults. No burden in my heart, naturally relaxed. It's safe to do your own thing well without nagging your children about their study life.

The career has passed the peak, whether it is fame or profit, but if we can reach the end steadily on the downhill road of life, it is the best ending.

With a certain economic foundation, you don't have to rush about. Stay at home when you have time, quietly, just like Grandpa Ge slumped on the sofa and brushed the TV with the remote control, which is also very useful.

I don't want to participate in useless social activities, I won't be intrigued, and I hate hypocrisy and shamelessness. Stay away from the wine table, don't gossip, don't comment on personnel. Especially satisfied, you can choose to do what you like. For example, fishing in the wild, sitting alone by the river, away from the noise, free from distractions, refreshing.

"Don't be confused at forty, but know your destiny at fifty". If you are lonely, you can reflect on yourself, know yourself, or relax yourself, let yourself have a good rest, and then continue to struggle. Many middle-aged people live like this, right?