Everyone likes to get along with people who don't care. People who don't care seem to have lost at first, but they have gained in the long run. People who love to take advantage of others seem to get it at first, but they lose it after a long time.
The world is a big stage and everyone is a book. Reading people is more difficult than reading books written in other languages. Some people are willing to lend you their umbrellas on sunny days, but when it rains, they leave quietly with umbrellas. Don't blame him when you read him, because he doesn't want to get wet. He is someone else's umbrella and he doesn't want to share other people's difficulties. What can you say? Keep an umbrella for yourself.
Some people, when you have power and influence, run around you, you leave your job, or you have no power and influence, but he hides far away. When you read him, you must understand him, because he once praised you for a certain need. Since you don't have that ability, there is no need to sing any hymns for you. Here, you need to calm down and think about whether you trusted others too much in the past.
Some people, in the face of your affection, the expression of language is like a clear and sweet river, but there is a dirty undercurrent under the riverbed. When reading him, don't hate him, because anyone who deceives others with hypocrisy as a mask will live a hard life, and maybe he will be punished by the same hypocrisy. You should understand his lifestyle and wait for his humanity to return and reflect.
Some people, when you sow hard, stand by and refuse to shed a drop of sweat, but when you harvest, they share your fruit shamelessly for various reasons. Don't be disgusted when reading him, because someone is willing to share the sweetness of harvest with you, no matter what kind of psychology he is, he should be welcomed. You have made a little sacrifice, but you have fulfilled a person's "desire to perform". Slowly, he will learn some self-esteem and self-love.
Some people pay attention to the decoration of appearance, and their clothes show a luxury, but their hearts are full of emptiness, ignorance and ignorance. The form of that culture is often unconsciously revealed in his speech and behavior. When you read him, don't despise him, because he doesn't understand that clothes are made by tailors and are only a sign of money, but knowledge, morality and temperament are a person's real life value. For vulgar people, we should compare our behaviors in time.
The most important thing in reading is to know what kind of person he is. Reading people is to be a real person. Therefore, when reading people, we should learn to be tolerant and generous, so that we can read something beneficial to ourselves, noble, happy and happy.
People need more understanding and trust to get along with each other. Get close to all the positive aspects, and you will feel that life is not as bad as we thought. Be more tolerant of others, and you will find more surprises waiting for you in this life.
Life is a lifetime, write yourself to others, and you can't let go; Read others against yourself, see the truth, goodness and beauty of others with a magnifying glass, absorb nutrition and improve yourself; Look at others' falsehood, evil, ugliness, fuzziness and fuzziness with reading glasses. Write yourself carefully. Because the writing of life has not been modified or deleted; Read others, might as well from the outside to the inside, to discard the false and retain the true!
The world is a big stage and everyone is a book. I like reading those good books. Good books are friends, and friends are good books. There are as many books as there are friends. Some books are beautifully bound and some books are unpretentious; Some books have only a few chapters, and some books are voluminous; Some books teach us to live, while others teach us to be human. Some books give us temporary happiness, while others benefit us for life. Some books can arouse feelings, while others can inspire people.
No matter how good others are, they are others, and no matter how unbearable they are, they are themselves.
1, in the world of love, no one is sorry for who, only who doesn't know how to cherish who.
2, love is extremely complicated but simple to death, but just: I love you, I'm sorry, it doesn't matter, thank you.
3. A weak person can't find strong reasons, only weak reasons; And strong people don't need strong reasons.
4, wait for an hour, too long, if you love, just after that. Waiting for 10 thousand years is not long, if there is love, it is only as compensation.
5, feelings are sometimes a person's business, has nothing to do with anyone. Love or not, you can only end it yourself.
6. Sometimes, only a tear can make us see the person in front of us and the road under our feet.
7. Don't give up what belongs to you; Don't be jealous of what others get.
8. Life is bitter and sweet, which is called integrity; Love is fun when there is trouble and harmony; What feels sad and happy is called experience; It is natural to have cloudy and sunny days; Sometimes it's precious to keep in touch.
9. When I decide to leave you, if you still love me then, please don't tell me, because I don't want to be hurt again. If you don't love me at that time, please don't tell me, because I don't want to cry and leave.
10, if two people still care about each other, no matter how hard it is, they must find a way out for love.
1 1, if you give your heart, you will get it, but it may also be completely hurt; Keep your distance, you can protect yourself, but you are doomed to be lonely forever.
12, only wish: the world is peaceful and the years are quiet.
13, sadly, although it is difficult, it will always pass.
14, like death, love is overbearing.
15, only 5% of a person's life is wonderful, only 5% is painful, and the other 90% is dull; People are often tempted by 5% excitement, endure 5% pain, and waste 90% plain time.
16, I cried for the first time because you weren't there, I laughed for the first time because I met you, and I cried for the first time because I couldn't have you!
17, people have only one heart, but two atria. One lives in happiness, and the other lives in sadness. Don't laugh too loudly, or you will wake up the sadness next to you.
18, the best way for a man to love a woman is not to make his woman feel bored.
19. How long have we lost contact? You never look back, but I always smile at you.
20. The people we love have the most power to hurt us.
2 1, others are others no matter how good they are. No matter how miserable you are, you are yourself, your unique self. As long as you try to be yourself, life is enough.
22. In a spoony day, who can tell what is sweet and what is bitter? All I know is that if I'm sure, I'll never look back. If you want to lose, you will lose to pursuit, and if you want to marry, you will marry happiness.
23. Many times, if you look too deep, you will be unhappy. It's better to be naive and heartless.
24. There is only one kind of heroism in life, and that is to love life after recognizing the truth of life.
25, busy is a kind of happiness, so that we have no time to experience pain; Running around is a kind of happiness, which makes us truly feel life; Fatigue is a kind of enjoyment, which leaves us no time to be empty.
26. The grass is bearing seeds and the wind is shaking its leaves. It's beautiful that we stand without talking.
27, about the past, about you, come to an end. About the future, about me, so stay tuned.
28. Be gentle, but don't compromise. We should be calm and calm.
To tell the truth, I have no time to hate those who hate me, because I am busy loving those who love me.
30. If you don't pursue what you want, you will never have it. If you don't ask, the answer is alwaysno. If you don't move forward, you will stay forever.
3 1, if you insist on something that doesn't belong to you, how lucky you are if you miss something that doesn't belong to you.
Socializing is tiring, because everyone tries to show qualities that they don't actually have.
33. People will not suffer for a lifetime, but they will always suffer for a while. Many people have suffered all their lives in order to escape the temporary suffering.
Don't, for one failure, forget the distance you want to reach. If you are confused and miserable, please think about why you started.
35. Falling in love with someone at that time was not because you had a car and a house, but because it was a sunny afternoon and you were wearing a white shirt.
We must accept disappointment because it is limited, but we must never lose hope because it is infinite.
37. Sometimes I really want to kill you. What about other times? Other times, I want to love you forever.
38. Sometimes women are unreasonable, basically because they love you.
The heaviest burden in life is not work, but boredom.
40. Don't envy other people's superficial scenery. In fact, everyone has their own inner sufferings.
Beautiful emotional story: actually, I care about you.
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When I was in college, I used the speed of returning information to measure a relationship. Friendship and love are the same. I am paranoid that if a person cares about me, he should reply to me as soon as he sees my news. Even then, he was very busy. Otherwise he just doesn't care about me. It is conceivable that people who get along with me under such bad conditions must have a hard time. Once the reply is late, I will think about it and then doubt the other person's character. This has caused many misunderstandings and caused many disputes. I never knew that I had a very appropriate adjective for this mentality, called blx.
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I didn't realize I was a little stupid before. I thought I cared about those details because I valued my feelings. I like to eat original potato chips and only drink matcha in milk tea. Next time you go to a restaurant you have been to, order the same dish. Waste electronic products will stay even if they are broken. The long-awaited TV series suddenly ended and was about to be lost. Cats and dogs that have been kept for a long time will cry when they die. Colleagues who have worked together will be reluctant to give up when they leave. People who have been together, who suddenly say they want to leave, will be so sad that they want to cry. I remember a very good female friend in junior high school, and we would go home together after school every day. Then suddenly one day, she stopped accompanying me. The reason is that she likes a boy in the next class. And that boy happens to live in a building opposite her house. I was very sad when she told me about it. That kind of loss is like when I was unprepared, a big hole suddenly opened in the ground, and I just fell in and panicked. Later, I went home alone for a whole semester. Until one day, we were divided into classes, and we were no longer classmates. Every time I think about it, I still feel sad.
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It was about that time that I discovered my hidden attributes. Deeply dependent on others and disgusted with separation. Therefore, in every relationship, I am trying to pay, one is to win the sense of existence, the other is to monopolize this sense of existence, and the third is to make the state of the relationship as vivid and vivid as I expected. However, maybe I used the wrong method, maybe my initial idea was wrong. Everyone I used to be with ran away, and I caused myself a lot of trouble. At that time, I always wanted to be unique in others' hearts, but I forgot that my expectations were so heavy that people I got along with felt that I was running with heavy loads every day. Over time, they will be afraid, stay away, and then stop coming near me. This may be a mistake that everyone makes when they are young. Too much expectation and care will often backfire in the end.
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I met such a girl who left me a message online. I didn't reply to her for a second, and she became nervous in front of me. She doesn't know. I was recording when she left me a message. How can I see the private message she sent me in the software when the telephone line at home is unplugged? In addition, there are so many people looking for me every day and the information is so messy. You must give me some time to sort it out. Obviously, she has no patience to wait. The next day, when I opened the dialogue window to reply to her, she had blacked me out and added: Hehe, I didn't expect you to be such a big name. Who do you think you are? What's the big deal? When my heart tightened, I suddenly felt pale and powerless. I have met more than one such person. Most of them are children, spoiled and extremely loveless, and feel that the whole world revolves around themselves. They think that if you don't cooperate with me properly, you just don't respect me. If you don't respect me, I don't have to consider your feelings. Anyway, it is you who are wrong, not me. Looking back many years ago, I also accidentally hurt people around me in this way, and it has always been so disgusting. Because others don't have a second to reply to the information, they are angry and suspicious, and think that I am the most devoted to my subordinates all day. However, it turns out that those who don't call me back in seconds are really harmless. It's not that you don't care, it's just that sometimes you happen to be busy, thinking or doing something very important.
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I have been running for a living every day since I graduated from college. Go to work during the day, find time to write articles at noon, and go home at night to record typesetting. I used to think that if a person really cared, he would immediately drop what he was doing and contact you. But ah, that's what I thought when I was young. Entering the society, I don't have so much leisure time to ponder these little thoughts. I only know that people who really care about me, even if they didn't see my news at that time, or didn't reply at that time, will definitely reply to me when they are free. There is no need to care about so many details. Many times, people you care about may have seen your news, but they just haven't organized how to reply to you. In other words, they don't want to divert their attention for the time being, just want to finish what they are doing as soon as possible. Or, they want to get back to you when they are finished. Or, they don't know what to reply, they are upset and don't want to chat, and their mobile phone is dead and they haven't seen your news. In short, there are many reasons why they don't reply every second.
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Later, I gradually realized that getting along with others doesn't have to use my own set of standards to expect respect from others. It's tiring to associate with blx people all day. You have to give someone else a break. Sometimes, thinking too much is equivalent to being melodramatic. In fact, whether there is a second time has nothing to do with whether that person cares about you. If you are friends and lovers, and the relationship is very close, you should trust him or her. Don't exaggerate small things, and then use your affectation to ignite some unnecessary disputes. Fin. I know you care about me. But that doesn't mean I don't care about you. Really.
2020 Aestheticism Emotional Story
1, life is a fallen leaf in the water, floating at every swift ferry, and it has no choice to fall, but it has no choice to complain or stop. It still bumps left and right in the river, and even if it finally breaks into a little clear vein, it still shows the wonderful life without saying a word.
2. I have countless dreams, and you are in every dream; I have countless ideals, and you are in every ideal; I prayed hundreds of times, and you were there every time I prayed. May fortune let me see you, hear you and lose you.
3, in fact, only two lonely encounters, each lamenting the sorrow of the fleeting time. Together, just to melt loneliness. However, we sometimes don't understand that some people are more lonely together than not together. Being a pair of lonely lovers, the bitterness of tasting all falls on the lonely road.
4. If you are chilling, I am spring; If your heart is bitter, I am sweet; If you are sad, I am smiling. Maybe I am not everything to you, every day, but I am by no means a burden to your life.
5, the breeze blows, sparkling, fragrant, exquisite and graceful. Lotus leaves roll with the wind, lotus flowers dance, delicate and elegant charm and delicate posture, shy and shy, just like a virgin, eyebrows and almond eyes, which makes people feel pity and gives birth to some tenderness.
6. I think we will meet again and again, just like inadvertently coming together at the beginning. I think we will remember each other tenderly and deeply, just like the imprint of time in our hearts.
7. Don't be a prisoner. Don't replace the freedom of others for your own comfort. Worried and worried. It's not that I can't move, it's that I can't run, and I love forever. Light love is intense at first, but passionate love will calm down and fade after a long time.
8. In Me Before You, the world is a wasteland. After meeting you, the world became a paradise. The past many years have been like a wisp of smoke to me, and my future life is endless because of you.
9. One frog after another in the field outside the window. When I was young, I walked through the green bridge slate countless times, but now I have gradually drifted away. On the night of light summer, accompanied by familiar songs, I returned to the bottom of my pen, missed the light summer countless times, reversed the fleeting time and loved the tranquility of the night. Long time no see, old times, long time no see, the peace in June.
10, it's too sweet. In retrospect, I always feel full and bitter. I often feel that the sea of suffering is endless, too sour, and I can't help gnashing my teeth. It's too spicy and spicy. It's too salty to swallow.
1 1, time flies, time flies. Mamba River has a long history. There is also the mossy water mill, which is covered with stars, Dai Yue, wind and frost, rain and snow. In the course of time, we watched the river flow away. It was as beautiful as a little darling, as beautiful as warm spring, as light as Xia Feng, as quiet as autumn and as pure as flying snow.
12. Classical and graceful words are pulling the vines of thoughts, stirring my tenderness, forcing me to walk into the wet long road on this blurred moonlit night, softly calling for the beauty of the water side, and looking for a freshness in the misty rain in the south of the Yangtze River in the depths of drunken dreams.
13, the intoxicating evening breeze turned to the depiction of the heart door in a cycle of day and night, and the sadness of tears floated by, expressing condolences to the once sad heart. Because of this, the dream falls and the rain falls, which hurts the body for the New Year. This fate is doomed to be hurt. After the storm, my heart will not hesitate, tears will reappear, and dreams will float in my heart.
14, getting lost is an attitude, not an excessive pursuit. Whether it's fame and wealth or youth, it will come. With life, see the calm of a section of water, with the freedom of blooming and flowing a section of flowers.
15, fragrant and poetic. Like the lotus of water, it has the nature of nature. A faint word explains the heart. Being in Holland is as quiet as a lotus. The glitz of the world and the disturbance of the world are all outside the world of mortals, leaving only the purity, calmness, serenity and fragrance of the lotus in my heart.
16, the tears of the breeze and the deep affection of acacia buried the drunkenness in the heart, and the feeling of knowing hurt the drunkenness even more, so that the tasteless confession was in the corner of heartache, and the wandering in love began to describe the warmth of missing, smelling the parting, getting drunk, and sensing the tears before missing. Geometric autumn rain and winter shadows can't protect the present encounter.
17, sitting on the hill, watching the kitchen smoke, my restless heart fluttered in the air with the kitchen smoke, all my worries and snobbery fled without a trace under the spread of the kitchen smoke, and my soul no longer had philistinism and hypocrisy, and gradually returned to calm.
18, heart like lotus, quiet inside. Driving a canoe, playing a flute, from the depths of the pond, holding a lotus flower in my arms, like a pink girl, crystal clear, slim, charming, happy, loving, pitying, floral fragrance into my heart, tender feelings at the end.
19, someone doesn't care about you, but you cherish it; Someone is hurting you, but you are forgiving. Love can be priceless, but it is not cheap; The bottom line can be relaxed, but trampling is not allowed. You can give up everything for love, but you can't give up self-esteem.
20. People who are sincere to you will care about you and will never ignore it because they are busy; Really care about your feelings, I will hold you in my hand, and I will never let you guess your feelings.
2 1, don't humiliate yourself. It is better to give up proudly than to be humble. Don't look back, you can find your eternity.
22, not everyone you care about has to fight for it, it depends on whether it is worth it; But everyone who cares about you should cherish it, because it is not easy for anyone to do it! No matter what kind of feelings, I can't keep the person who is leaving. Waiting for care, waiting until the heart door is closed; Looking forward to having it, looking forward to not looking back.
23, life is so short, why let people who don't value you affect their mood; People's hearts are so precious, why let people who don't have your eyes desecrate your feelings? Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
24. Don't mistakenly think that people who can't let you go can't let you go. Testing promises with lies must be cheating. You'd rather be arrogant and moldy than compromise. Show some attitude: I can spoil you or change you!
The so-called letting go is not really losing, but knowing the pain. Some people want to give up because they are full of concern and get a stingy response.
25. Sitting in the most expensive position in your heart, you are exhausted physically and mentally; Earn the most valuable tears in your eyes, but insist on no turning back. Love and being loved are not necessarily in direct proportion. The more you want to persist, the easier it is to lose. The emotional world is multiplication, one of which is zero and the result is always zero.
It is often the ending that changes people, but people can't change the ending; Some are far away from you, but you can't choose not to be far away. Sometimes you pay too much, but you are looked down upon by humble people; I have been active for a long time, but I have no position at all.
26. The most sad thing is not perfunctory, but being looked down upon; The saddest thing is not the loss, but the face after the loss. Keep an honor for yourself. If you can't get it, you just don't want it Without dependence, you still have pride. In fact, daring to give up a relationship requires not only courage, but also self-confidence.
27. You can control your expression, but you can't control your mood. You can convince others, but you can't comfort yourself. If you can control yourself, how can you miss the vicious circle? If the heart is in your own hands, how can the memory come to your eyes? Some forgiveness seems easy, but when you trust again, it is not so easy; Some feelings are unforgettable and do not belong to you. You can't continue if you're out.
In fact, caring for a person gives him the right to hurt you. Let time tell the truth, although I am afraid! But people are never satisfied. What you want to fight for is what you dream of; What is always overlooked has already been possessed.
29. Nothing is wanted, nothing is cherished, nothing is understood until it is lost, and nothing is understood and can be redeemed. What you can't get seems to be the best forever, just out of reach; The companies around you seem insignificant, but they are actually within reach.
30. How worried are you about asking? It is wrong to get it at all costs, how much you have lost; Cherish what you have is rich, but you are not poor. Don't be too greedy, it is the final winner to manage the present!