And various electrical appliances, reducing the economic and mental burden of the parties. Although this phenomenon is primitive, it is pure and pure, which can better reflect the harmony and friendship between people and the mutual support between people.
Of course, there are also some people with relatively rich economic conditions. While accepting the help of their neighbors, they bought some extra delicacies to add a few days of delicacies to their neighbors.
Thank neighboring countries for their assistance and friendship.
But now the appearance is that there is no love, no pure feelings, and every time it reflects the so-called face problem, ignoring the pure love adjacent to each other. Some people even borrow good cigarettes and wine to help with their work, so as to compare with others, showing their ability and career success. Unfortunately, the people invited to the door are not really honest enough to help. I don't know whether it is the evolution of cognition or the reality of matter. Now it is hard to see the love that ancestors supported each other and shared with difficulties.
The basic operation in White Stone is the inheritance of cultural customs handed down for thousands of years, a way of emotional sustenance, a farewell ceremony to remember the deceased at the end of fate, and a farewell ceremony to pay the highest respect to the deceased.
Doing great things in vain is a manifestation, and feelings have little to do with filial piety.
Filial piety is not a big exercise in white matter, but a daily life, a call before bed, a feeling of spending some time with you when you are free, and a tolerance and miss that you keep in mind when you are dumb!
There is a saying in the countryside: rich people can marry "cheap" relatives, but poor people can marry "cheap" graves.
When the old man died, he squandered hundreds of thousands, which was caused by comparison!
Everyone needs to live up to his conscience: as for those who say that the old man died without wasting hundreds of thousands and that he is unfilial, that is ignorance!
"Do what you can" and don't compare!
This is a bad phenomenon, which should be contained and managed by the state and must not be allowed to spread.
This kind of atmosphere is really undesirable, it is a kind of extravagance and waste, and it is a comparison mentality.
It doesn't matter if the rich spend 65,438+10,000 yuan or 200,000 yuan. It's a big mistake for those who have no money to borrow money to talk about ostentation and extravagance.
We should advocate changing customs and doing funerals diligently. If you do something big, you will end up with both money and people.
The dead are gone, carefree, and the living are heavily in debt. 10 They can't turn it over for 20 years, and they can't get enough knowledge.
This is actually a kind of filial piety, for the living and for the world. Buying a face for hundreds of thousands is really killing people and losing a lot.
Long-term mourning, blowing, rolling, jumping and singing have made the whole village restless and the neighbors miserable.
Living is unfilial, and dying is cat urine. If there is so much spare money, why not give them more money when their parents are alive to make them live better? They fell ill and were sent to hospital for treatment.
What everyone showed was prevarication and indifference. Some old people don't even have the most basic life guarantee, and some even beg outside.
Some people make a living by picking up garbage, and some rural elderly people, who are 70 or 80 years old, are still working hard to support themselves.
Everyone who is a child should be sober-minded and reflect on how to arrange the birth, support and burial of his parents reasonably.
After the old man died, it was purely to attract the attention of the living.
If the old man is unfilial when he is alive and spends a lot of money after his death, relatives and friends will not only say that he is filial, but also scold him for being happy for the old man's departure.
A dutiful son is to give money to the elderly when they are alive and need it, accompany them when they need it, and comfort them when they need spiritual comfort.
I'm not bragging, I really think my brother is a great dutiful son.
My parents are farmers to the core. They face the loess all their lives, and the black water sweats like rain. When they were old, they didn't save any money.
However, my brother did not let his parents suffer in his later years, and the neighbors enjoyed it.
My parents are ill in hospital, and my brother never asks his brothers and sisters for money to treat his parents.
When the father died, the younger brother and children went to work, and the funeral was just so-so, but there were more condolences.
After his father died, his younger brother regretted that he was busy with his work and took care of his parents too little. Therefore, in the eight years when my mother was alone, my brother retired and had time, and occasionally took my mother out to travel.
On my mother's ninety-third birthday, my brother took her to a scenic spot 200 kilometers away.
I usually go home and chat with my mother to make her happy.
My mother died on the 22nd of the twelfth lunar month at the age of 95 without any pain. After washing her body, she washed her hair and feet and went to sleep peacefully.
Mother's funeral is relatively simple, because near the end of the year, it snows heavily and it is inconvenient to live in the countryside, so everything is simple, but neighbors say that mother enjoys her old age.
If it costs hundreds of thousands to organize a funeral, it is better to give the money to the deceased while they are alive and let them spend it as they please.
Filial piety does not lie in doing great things after death. It should give the elderly emotional and material happiness and spiritual needs when they are alive. When they die, they don't need anything, just do it solemnly. Do great things for your own extravagance and waste.
Some people say this because they want to get some benefits from it. Filial piety is not for others to see after death Better take good care of it before you die. Filial piety and caring and attentive are more important. What's the use of filial piety after death? Even if the scenery is buried, it is only a hollow reputation.
This kind of "face-saving" thing is not uncommon. The shackles of tradition and custom are hard to earn. Operators spend money to buy punishment, and participants are unwilling to spend money. This is the power of tradition and custom. I think only with the progress of society, the continuous improvement of civilization and the continuous improvement of social atmosphere will it get better.
These are all old ideas. Filial piety is universal, not how much money is spent on the elderly after death. Being unfilial, the elderly living in poverty, not having enough to eat and put on clothes, being abused, etc. are all manifestations of unfilial. Therefore, we should always respect and care for the elderly and let them spend their lives happily.