1. Civilized and polite quotes and aphorisms
1. Politeness brings civilization, warmth and happiness to everyone. - No. 1 Van Peale
2. A person's courtesy is a mirror that reflects his portrait. ——Goethe
3. Being polite is not always a sign of wisdom, but being impolite always makes people suspicious of stupidity. —— Randall
4. It is not difficult for a person with good intentions to express his courtesy to others. ——Rousseau
5. There is an inner courtesy that is connected with love: it produces the most pleasant courtesy in the appearance of behavior. ——Goethe
6. Etiquette is a subtle thing. It is indispensable for people’s communication, and it cannot be overly careless. ——Bacon
7. I firmly believe that only moral citizens can pay an acceptable salute to their motherland. ——Rousseau
8. The most appetizing thing at a banquet is the host’s etiquette. ——Shakespeare 2. Poems about "Rites"
"Qu Li" says: "Don't be disrespectful, look like you are thinking, and be calm." Peace to the people!
Ao cannot be long, desires cannot be followed, aspirations cannot be fulfilled, and happiness cannot be extreme.
A wise man respects him, fears him and loves him. Love and know its evil, hate and know its good. Accumulation can be dispersed, peace can be moved. Don't be reluctant to get wealth when you are facing it, and don't be reluctant to avoid difficulties when faced with it. There is no need to seek victory, and no need to seek more points. When in doubt, don’t question it; be honest and don’t have any questions.
Ruofu, sit like a corpse and stand like a corpse. Follow the appropriate etiquette and follow the customs. The reason for husband's ceremony is to determine relatives and distance, to resolve suspicions, to distinguish similarities and differences, and to clarify right and wrong. Etiquette, don't talk nonsense about people, don't refuse to pay. Etiquette, don't overdo the festival, don't intrude, don't be rude. Cultivating one's character and practicing one's words are called good deeds. Practicing and cultivating words is the essence of etiquette. The etiquette and hearing come from people, but the non-hearing comes from others. If you hear the etiquette, you will learn it; if you don’t hear it, you will learn it.
Disputes and lawsuits will not be decided if it is inappropriate. The king and his ministers, fathers, sons and brothers, are always indecent. The official is a scholar and a teacher, and he is not polite and does not want to be intimate with him. When the Ban Dynasty governs the army and visits officials to enforce the law, it cannot be done without courtesy and majesty. Praying in a temple to offer sacrifices to ghosts and gods is considered disrespectful and dishonest. Therefore, a gentleman should be respectful, temperate and make concessions in order to show propriety. Parrots can speak and are inseparable from birds; orangutans can speak and are inseparable from beasts. People today are rude. Although they can speak well, don't they have the mentality of animals? The husband is a beast and has no manners, so the father and son gather together. This is why the saints made it as a ritual to teach people. Make people behave politely and know that they are different from animals.
The most important thing is to value virtue, and the second most important thing is to repay it. Reciprocity. It is impolite to go but not come; it is impolite to come but not go. If people are polite, they will be safe; if they are rude, they will be in danger. Therefore, it is said: One must learn etiquette. Those who are respectful to their husbands humble themselves but respect others. Even if you are a peddler, you must be respected, how about being rich and noble? If you are rich and know how to be polite, you will not be arrogant or lewd; if you are poor or lowly, if you know how to be polite, your ambition will not be deterred. If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up. ”
——— "The Analects of Confucius. Ji Shi"
A gentleman has benevolence in his heart and etiquette in his heart: a benevolent person loves others, a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always love them, and those who respect others will always love them.
——Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia"
It is not polite to go back and forth; it is not polite to go back and forth. < /p>
——— "Book of Rites. Qu Li Part 1" 3. A collection of poems about civilization
Quietness cultivates one's character, frugality cultivates virtue. —— Zhuge Liang
A gentleman is concerned about the Tao but not about poverty. —— Confucius
Be poor without flattery, rich without arrogance. —— Zigong
If you strengthen your foundation and use it sparingly, then there will be no poverty in heaven. —— Xun Kuang
Those who are extravagant and lazy will be poor, while those who are thrifty and capable will be rich. —— Han Fei
The conduct of a gentleman is to cultivate one's morality through tranquility and cultivate one's virtue through frugality. Being indifferent can make one's ambitions clear, and without tranquility, one cannot go far. —— Zhuge Liang
Those who are extravagant are in a mess, while those who are frugal are at peace. One bad thing and the other good are in front of you. —— Bai Juyi
Don't think about danger in times of peace, and be careful. Extravagance comes from frugality; cutting down the roots in order to grow trees, blocking the source in order to have a long history. —— Wei Zheng
Looking at the virtuous countries and families in the past, success was caused by diligence and frugality, and failure was caused by extravagance. ——Li Shangyin
p>The overlord took Erjiang alone, and many of his descendants surrendered with hundreds of cities. After the success of all the luxury, will happiness and peace be harmed? ——Wang Anshi
Extravagance leads to many desires. A gentleman has many desires. If you yearn for wealth and honor, you will end up in vain. - Sima Guang There are great brave men in the world who are not surprised when faced with a sudden attack, and are not angry when they are attacked without reason. - Su Shi Those who are more noble than animals must be polite. - "Yan Zi Chun Qiu"
Do not do evil because it is small, and do not do good because it is small. 4. Ancient poems about politeness
There are many poems related to politeness, many of which are classic and wonderful. The following is a selection of poems about the moon, which are the best poems related to politeness in all dynasties.
1. A gentleman is benevolent. Be mindful, be courteous: benevolent people love others, and polite people respect others. Those who love others will always love them, and those who respect others will always respect them.
——Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia"
2. Courtesy should be reciprocated. It is impolite to go but not come; it is impolite to come but not go. ——"Book of Rites. Qu Li 1"
3. A gentleman is ashamed of his words and goes beyond his actions.
4. Isn’t it a gentleman who doesn’t know something but doesn’t feel embarrassed?
5. The beauty of a gentleman is not the evil of a man. The villain is on the contrary.
6. A gentleman seeks everything from himself, while a villain seeks everything from others.
7. Confucius said: "If a gentleman is not serious, he will not have authority. If he learns, he will not be solid. He will be loyal and trustworthy. If he has no friends, he will not be as good as himself. Don't be afraid to correct his mistakes."
8. Confucius said: "A gentleman has nothing to fight for, so he will definitely shoot! He bows and gives way to rise and drink. This is how a gentleman fights."
9. Confucius said: "A gentleman has no need to be satisfied with food and no need for shelter. An, if you are sensitive to things and careful in your words, you will be righteous and right, and you can be said to be eager to learn."
10. Confucius said: "A gentleman cherishes virtue, while a villain cherishes earth; a gentleman cherishes punishment, and a villain cherishes punishment. "
11. Confucius said: "A gentleman wants to be slow in words but quick in action. "Etiquette can also be ignored."
13. Confucius said: "A gentleman is magnanimous, but a villain has a lot of worries."
14. Confucius said: "A gentleman is calm but not calm." Arrogance, the villain is arrogant but not peaceful."
15. A kind word warms the winter, but a bad word hurts the cold in the month of June. 5. Poems about politeness
"If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up."
———"The Analects of Confucius. Ji Shi"
A gentleman has benevolence in his heart. Be polite and considerate: A benevolent person loves others, a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always be loved by others, and those who respect others will always be respected by others.
———Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia"
Courtesy should be reciprocated. It is impolite to go but not come; it is impolite to come but not go.
——— "Book of Rites. Qu Li Part 1"
Behavior is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image.
——Goethe: "Affinity"
One of the most important tasks of civilization is to make man be dominated by form in his purely material life, and to make him beautiful in beauty. Become an aesthetic person within the realm of what the kingdom can achieve.
———Schiller: "Books on Aesthetic Education"
Politeness is the art of choosing from one's own true thoughts.
——A. Stevens: "Mrs. de Steele"
Politeness makes polite people happy, and it also makes those who are treated politely People rejoice.
——Montesquieu: "The Spirit of the Laws"
Nothing is lost by being polite, but everything is gained.
——Mar. W. Montague: "Letters"
Etiquette is the smallest but most stable norm among all norms.
———La Rochefoucauld: "Moral Proverbs"
Politeness is the flower of fraternity. People who are not polite cannot be said to have philanthropic thoughts.
——Joubert: "Collection of Quotes"
What makes a person great does not lie in wealth and family status, but in valuable behavior and noble character.
————Ovie: "Famous Quotes"
There are two types of bad etiquette: the first is shyness; the second is indiscretion and contempt; to avoid In these two situations, the only thing you can do is to abide by the following rule, that is, don't look down on yourself or others.
———John Locke: "Education Essays 6. Sentences about Being Polite in the Analects"
Confucius said: "Being courteous without courtesy will lead to fatigue; being prudent and disrespectful will lead to failure." , Brave but rude will lead to chaos, straight and rude will lead to strife. Dancing in the court is tolerable, but who is intolerable? "
Youzi said: "The purpose of etiquette is that harmony is the most valuable. This is the beauty of the way of the ancient kings; the small and the great follow it. If there is something that cannot be done, it is impossible to be harmonious and to be harmonious without following etiquette. ”
Confucius said: Prosperity comes from poetry. Establishment comes from etiquette. Success comes from music.
Confucius said: Ma Mian is etiquette. Today is also pure frugality. I follow the crowd. Bow down, Ritual. Now I bow to you, Taiye. Although it goes against everyone, I will follow the lower class.
The Master said: If you are advanced in ritual and music, you are a savage; if you are late in ritual and music, you are a gentleman. I follow the lead.
Confucius said: "Can a country be governed by courtesy? Why? If the country cannot be governed by courtesy, then what is the use of courtesy? ”
Confucius said: “A gentleman is knowledgeable in literature, and if he makes an appointment with courtesy, he can also be with you!” "
Duke Ding asked: "How is it that the king envoys the ministers and the ministers serve the king? Confucius said: "The king treats his ministers with courtesy, and the ministers serve the king with loyalty." "
Confucius said: If you don't know destiny, you can't be a gentleman. If you don't know etiquette, you can't stand up. If you don't know words, you can't understand people.
Confucius said: The etiquette clouds the etiquette clouds! What a cloud of jade and silk! What a cloud of music and drums! 7. Poems about etiquette
"Quli" says: "Don't be disrespectful, be thoughtful, and be calm."
"Anminzai!"
Ao cannot be long, desires cannot be followed, aspirations cannot be fulfilled, and happiness cannot be extreme.
A wise man respects him, fears him and loves him. Love and know its evil, hate and know its good. Accumulation can be dispersed, peace can be moved. Don't be reluctant to get wealth when you are facing it, and don't be reluctant to avoid difficulties when faced with it. There is no need to seek victory, and no need to seek more points. When in doubt, don’t question it; be honest and don’t have any questions.
Ruofu, sit like a corpse and stand like a corpse. Follow the appropriate etiquette and follow the customs. The reason for husband's ceremony is to determine relatives and distance, to resolve suspicions, to distinguish similarities and differences, and to clarify right and wrong. Etiquette, don't talk nonsense about people, don't refuse to pay. Etiquette, don't overdo the festival, don't intrude, don't be rude. Cultivating one's character and practicing one's words are called good deeds. Practicing and cultivating words is the essence of etiquette. The etiquette and hearing come from people, but the non-hearing comes from others. If you hear the etiquette, you will learn it; if you don’t hear it, you will learn it.
Morality, benevolence, and righteousness are not allowed to be inappropriate; teachings are upright and moral, and inappropriate teachings are not allowed to occur. Disputes and lawsuits will not be decided if it is inappropriate. The king and his ministers, fathers, sons and brothers, are always indecent. The official is a scholar and a teacher, and he is not polite and does not want to be intimate with him. When the Ban Dynasty governs the army and visits officials to enforce the law, it cannot be done without courtesy and majesty. Praying at the temple to offer sacrifices to ghosts and gods is disrespectful and dishonest. Therefore, a gentleman should be respectful, temperate and make concessions in order to show propriety. Parrots can speak and are inseparable from birds; orangutans can speak and are inseparable from beasts. People today are rude. Although they can speak well, don't they have the mentality of animals? The husband is a beast and has no manners, so the father and son gather together. This is why the saints made it as a ritual to teach people. Make people behave politely and know that they are different from animals.
The most important thing is to value virtue, and the second most important thing is to repay it. Reciprocity. It is impolite to go but not come; it is impolite to come but not go. If people are polite, they will be safe; if they are rude, they will be in danger. Therefore, it is said: One must learn etiquette. Those who are respectful to their husbands humble themselves but respect others. Even if you are a peddler, you must be respected, how about being rich and noble? If you are rich and know how to be polite, you will not be arrogant or lewd; if you are poor or lowly, if you know how to be polite, your ambition will not be deterred. If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up. ”
——— "The Analects of Confucius. Ji Shi"
A gentleman has benevolence in his heart and etiquette in his heart: a benevolent person loves others, a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always love them, and those who respect others will always love them.
——Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia"
It is not polite to go back and forth; it is not polite to go back and forth. < /p>
——— "Book of Rites. Qu Li Part 1" 8. Verses about etiquette
1. "Xunzi. Fuguo" Shang Dynasty: Rites are correct for the country, just like balancing them. For weight and weight, etiquette is for the governance of a country, just like a scale is for weighing weight, a carpenter's black line is for judging straightness, and a compass and a right-angled ruler are for measuring squares and squares. Circle.
2. Xunzi of the Shang Dynasty in "Book of Rites·Jingjing": Rituals are to the state of affairs: they are to weights and weights, and ropes and inks are to straightness and straightness.
Rituals are regarded as the most important "Tao" for governing the country. In fact, etiquette is used to govern the country, just like the scales are used to weigh the weight.
3. "Xunzi Wang Ba" Xunzi of the Shang Dynasty: The reason why etiquette governs the country is like weighing the weights and weights, just as the rope and ink are used for the governance of the country, just like the scales are used to weigh the weights and weights for the governance of the country. Just like a scale is used to weigh weight.
4. Xunzi of the Shang Dynasty in "Xunzi·Dalue": Ritual is to an upright country, just like weighing is to weight, and rope ink is to straightness.
Regarding etiquette as the most important "Tao" for governing the country, it is actually that etiquette is used for governing the country, just like a scale is used for weighing weight.
5. "Qunshu Zhiyao·" Xunzi of the Shang Dynasty: "Husband's etiquette is to the country. It is just like the weight to the weight."
If a person loses the basic principles of conduct, If you don't get along, you will definitely fall and fall.
Etiquette is a convention and consensus among people in terms of appearance, appearance, deportment, ceremony, speech and behavior in order to respect each other in social interactions. Code of conduct. Etiquette is a general term for etiquette, courtesy, manners and rituals.
Reference: Sogou Encyclopedia-Civilized Etiquette