Poetry on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law 1.
1. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult. Asking for a wife is another "bride" from your mother.
2. The wife also has a name called bride. Do you want to ... you married a new mother. Can there be no contradiction with the old mother?
A capable, responsible and responsible man should say this to his daughter-in-law: your money is yours and mine is ours!
4. Don't treat your daughter-in-law as your own daughter and don't be your mother-in-law; Keep the distance between a bowl of soup and be a measured mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; Then you will all be happy!
The mother will teach her son to put on clothes in five years, and the wife will make him take off all his clothes in five seconds after marriage.
6. For most mother-in-law in China, the daughter-in-law you bring home is just an outsider who helps you reproduce, wash clothes and cook. The simplest example is that once your daughter-in-law gives birth to a child, her mother-in-law will only care about how well she raises the child and how to take care of the child ... Only her mother will care about whether you are tired with the child and how much effort you have paid for the child today.
2. Poems on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in The Analects of Confucius
There is no direct relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Filial piety can be used in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
1' s disciples are filial when they enter, but younger when they leave.
Young disciples should honor their parents when they go home, and love their brothers when they go out.
Confucius said, "If you don't travel far, you will travel easily.
Parents are alive, not far from home. If they want to go far away, they must have a definite place to go.
Confucius said, "Today's filial piety means that it can be raised. As for dogs and horses, you can keep them. If you are disrespectful, why not? "
Now the dutiful son only says that he can support his parents. Even dogs and horses can be kept. If he is not filial to his parents, what is the difference between supporting his parents and raising a dog and a horse? From (Spring and Autumn Period) "The Analects of Confucius Governing II".
You must know your parents' age. One is happy and the other is afraid. -The Analects of Confucius
When Meng asked about filial piety, Confucius said, "Parents only worry about illness." -"The Analects of Confucius Governing Politics"
6 Meng asked about filial piety. Confucius said, "No violation." Fan Chi told him: "Sun Meng asked about filial piety, and I didn't violate it." Fan Chi said, "What is it?" Confucius said, "Be polite when you are born, when you die, when you are buried, and when you are sacrificed."
Meng asked about filial piety. Confucius said, "Parents only worry about their illness."
Xia Zi asked about filial piety. Confucius said, "Sex is difficult. If you have something, your disciples will take care of it, and there will be food and wine. Have you ever thought that this is filial piety? " -"Becoming the Second Politics"
Confucius said: Your father is here, so you should observe his ambition. If your father is not, you should observe his actions. If you don't change from your father for three years, it can be said that you are filial. -study first.
10 Confucius said: "Filial piety, Min Zikai. People can't live without their parents. " -"advanced tenth"
1 1 Ceng Zi said, "I heard that all teachers are filial to Meng Zhuangzi, and there are other possibilities. It is difficult for them to change their father's ministers and politics. " -Zhang Zi XIX.
3. Poems describing the disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Peacock flies southeast (Dynasty: Eastern Han Dynasty, author: Anonymous) is based on a marriage tragedy that happened in Lujiang County during the reign of Emperor Xian of the Eastern Han Dynasty. Among them, the contents that show the disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are: "Thirteen can make vegetarian dishes, fourteen can learn tailoring, fifteen can play elegant clothes, and sixteen can recite poems.
Seventeen years old is the wife of a gentleman, and her heart is often bitter and sad. Since you are a government official, you are loyal to your chastity, and your concubine keeps an empty room. You often don't see each other often.
Chickens crow into the weave and can't rest every night. It's too late to tame five horses in three days, my Lord.
If you don't knit late, your wife will have a hard time! I can't bear to be driven away, but I can stay and do nothing, so that I can return empty-handed and be sent back in time. Hearing this, the officials told their grandmother in class, "My son and Lu don't have a good relationship. Fortunately, I got this woman back, and I became friends with her on the pillow mat.
* * * In 2003, not long after the beginning, there was no deviation in women's behavior. What's the point? "Mother said to the official," He Naitai is just a trivial matter! This woman is rude and makes her own decisions. I have been angry for a long time, so you can't be free! The master has a virtuous daughter named Qin Luofu. She's pathetic. My mother wants to see you.
You can send it quickly, and be careful when you send it! "The prefect knelt down and said," Fu Weiqi's mother, you gave this woman today, and you will never get it again! "Hearing this, the grandmother was furious with the mallet bed:" Little E69DA5E6BA9062616964757A 68696416F313366306535 is fearless, how dare you help a woman! I have lost my gratitude and won't promise! "The people in the government were silent, and then they bowed back to the house and said they were the bride. They choked and said," I didn't drive your mother away, I just forced her to have a grandmother. "Qing temporarily back home, I will report to the court today.
When it is returned soon, it will be welcomed. Remember this and be careful not to go against my words. "
The bride telephoned a government official: "Don't repeat our differences. In the past, when Chu Yang was old, Xie Jia came to your door.
Do you dare to teach yourself specially after serving the public? I work hard day and night, and I am lonely and bitter. It is said that it is innocent and has great support; It's even more urgent, so why talk about it! I have an embroidered waist, which makes me radiant. Red Luo Fu fights the account, and the four corners hang sachets; Box curtains are sixty or seventy, with blue ropes. Things are different, and all kinds are inside.
People are despicable and not enough to welcome future generations. They were left behind for no reason. Always for comfort, never forget! "When the cock crows, the bride's makeup is neat.
Embroider my skirt, everything is four or five. My feet are on tiptoe and my head is shining.
If the waist is flowing, you will smell the bright moon. Refers to the root of onion, with dani in its mouth.
Chinese odyssey with thin steps. Worship my mother in class. She is angry.
I knitted white silk at the age of thirteen, cut clothes at the age of fourteen, played the piano at the age of fifteen, recited poems at the age of sixteen and became your wife at the age of seventeen. After marrying you, I often feel bitter and sad in my heart. As an official, you will naturally stick to the ministerial day and concentrate on it.
Leave me alone in the room, and we are far away from each other. Every day when the rooster crows, I go into the computer room and can't sleep every night.
I can cut five pieces of cloth on the plane in three days. My mother-in-law deliberately thinks I am slow and relaxed. It's not that I spin slowly, it's that your daughter-in-law is difficult to be in-laws and serve.
I can't stand being driven away by your family. It's no use staying. Tell your in-laws to take me back to my parents' house. "
Hearing this, the ministers all went to the class to report to their mother: "My son is no longer a big official and enjoys happiness. I am lucky to have married a good wife. When we were just adults, we formed a loving couple who shared the same bed and hoped to live and die together until the grave.
We have only lived together for two or three years, and this sweet day has just begun. There is nothing wrong with her behavior, but it will cause your dissatisfaction and you will not get love. "
Mother said to the official, "how can you be so narrow-minded and stubborn?" This daughter-in-law is rude and free to move. I've been dissatisfied for a long time. You can't indulge her by yourself.
There is a virtuous woman named Qin Luofu in the East. No one can match her. I should pray for you.
Get rid of Lan Zhi and don't let her stay! The official knelt straight and replied, "I beg your mother again." If you drive her away, my son will never marry again when he is old! "Hearing this, Grandma knocked on the bed and lost her temper:" How dare you help your daughter-in-law talk nonsense? "I have broken off my friendship with her, and I will never agree to your request!" The official said nothing, and then said goodbye to his mother.
When I went back to my room to talk to my daughter-in-law, I choked with grief: "I didn't want to drive you away, but my mother forced me." You go back to your home temporarily, and I will go back to the county government temporarily.
I'm going home from the mansion soon, and I'll see you when I get back. You should be wronged for this matter, don't go against my words. "
Lan Zhi said to the officials, "Don't bother. I remember the morning sun. I said goodbye to my parents and walked into your house.
Serving in-laws is to follow their wishes. How dare they make their own decisions? Working hard day and night, suffering alone. I don't think I'm guilty. I can serve my in-laws all my life to repay their kindness.
Still being driven away, let alone turning back to your house. I have an embroidered jacket embroidered with beautiful patterns.
There is also a small double-bucket tent made of red carrots, with sachets hanging at the four corners. There are sixty or seventy boxes, large and small, all tied tightly with green silk thread.
Everything in it is different, and everything is collected. People are cheap and cheap, and it is not worth marrying a new person.
You have to wait for the opportunity to give to others, and it is impossible to meet again at this time. I hope you can always comfort yourself, remember me for a long time, and don't forget me. "
The cock crowed, and it was almost dawn. Lan Zhi got up and dressed carefully. Put on the embroidered skirt of the past and do everything four or five times before it is appropriate.
Wearing silk shoes, hawksbill sparkles. Tie a white ribbon ribbon around your waist and hang an ear decorated with bright moon beads in your ear.
Ten fingers are thin and white like sharp onion roots, and their lips are painted as red as Dany. She walks gently, step by step, gorgeous and wonderful, really chinese odyssey.
She went to the classroom to say goodbye to her mother, who allowed her to leave without stopping her. Extended data:
"Peacock Flying Southeast" vividly reveals the cannibalistic nature of feudal ethics with the family tragedy of Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing, enthusiastically praises the rebellious spirit of Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing who are loyal to love and resist oppression, and directly entrusts the people with their ardent yearning for freedom of love and marriage.
But after careful scrutiny, I found that this statement is wrong. What caused this love tragedy was not feudal ethics, but family interests, and family political interests crushed their love and marriage. Jiao Zhongqing is a small official in Lujiang County, and he is also a civil servant in the municipal government at a young age, so his family background.
4. What sentences describe the bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
1. Don't make me take care of him like you. He is your son and my husband. I will only treat him as a husband, not as a son.
Don't always worry about how much money and room your daughter-in-law has. It doesn't matter to you, and it's not your turn.
Your son is just an ordinary man, not as great as you think.
Don't think your daughter-in-law owes you just because you are kind to your son. Even if you collect debts, you should find the right creditor. If you want your daughter-in-law to be filial and care about you, please be kind to your daughter-in-law. It's not your request, you must ask others to satisfy you.
Please don't speak ill of me in front of your son. If you do this, it will only make us quarrel endlessly. Finally, the last straw is divorce. If you divorce because of you, you will be guilty.
6. When I give birth to a child and take care of the child, you may not help, or you may say that you have no obligation, but please remember, please don't think of me when you need to take care of me, and I will tell you that my wife has no obligation.
7. Don't think that I wronged your son by asking him to do housework. The family belongs to two people, and he has the obligation to share it.
Please don't be jealous when my daughter-in-law goes back to her parents' home to buy things, because they have done more for me. You are gold and I am coal. You will shine, and I will get hot. Don't mess with me, or I will melt you.
9. You should know better than I how lazy your son is. Don't say your son is busy. He is busy chatting QQ and playing games.
10. Don't always say whose daughter-in-law is good, no matter how good it is, it belongs to others. I can't think of it. Actually, I still think her mother-in-law is nice.
1 1. "Do you think marriage is a matter for two people? This is the mother-in-law relationship. Don't be impatient. I will tell my son, just your mother-in-law, who owns the coffee. "
12. People often say that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been natural enemies since ancient times. I quite agree with this sentence.
13. Daughter-in-law is dissatisfied with her mother-in-law's feeding her children. The bowl is not clean, the amount is too much, and the nutrition is not enough.
14. Daughter-in-law thinks she has to listen to me. My daughter-in-law thinks I have to save some private money, otherwise my husband will cheat, and all this money will be spent by others. I must listen to my mother. It's hard to get together and live together.
15. My mother-in-law thinks that her daughter-in-law has to listen to her son and doesn't even need his son to do this or that. How can her daughter-in-law let her son do this and that? The mother-in-law thinks it is necessary to guard against her daughter-in-law and ask her son to master the money, otherwise she will divorce and take the money away.
5. Classic quotations on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
1. My mother-in-law has three sons, so she has three daughters-in-law. I am the second wife. Her eldest daughter-in-law, my sister-in-law, is very beautiful, but what's the use of her mother-in-law saying beautiful? "No matter how beautiful the food is, it won't last for a few days" (my mother-in-law still likes a rich and prestigious daughter-in-law).
The eldest daughter-in-law lost her job, and her wife looked down on her. Because the eldest son is a regimental cadre in the army, she has solved the work of the eldest daughter-in-law. This is terrible. My wife thinks her son is great. Once her eldest son quarreled, my wife not only refused to make peace, but also said behind her back, "If they get divorced, her eldest son deserves her eldest daughter-in-law, and my son married his wife, except for being beautiful." The wife said in front of the youngest daughter-in-law, "I don't rely on my three daughters-in-law, I only need to rely on my three sons."
My wife often criticizes the other two daughters-in-law in front of this daughter-in-law. I thought she didn't like the other two daughters-in-law. When talking about them in front of me, I was secretly glad that she should like me. Later, when I asked, I realized that she said the same thing about me in front of the two daughters-in-law, and I really convinced her. My grandmother is still staring at the lamb, saying that the three daughters-in-law she brought made her regret, saying that she regretted it. Once, the daughter of a good friend of hers made a fortune doing business in Guangzhou. She said that her second son (my husband) had already found that woman.
6. Classic quotations about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
1, my wife and my mother are obviously estranged, and they talk less and less when they meet. Later, they never wanted to meet again. Although I can't make ends meet and try my best to communicate, there is nothing I can do. I am caught in the middle, not alone, not alone inside and outside.
2. Mother-in-law thinks that daughter-in-law has to listen to her son and doesn't even need his son to do this or that. How can her daughter-in-law let her son do this and that? The mother-in-law thinks it is necessary to guard against her daughter-in-law and ask her son to master the money, otherwise she will divorce and take the money away. 3, a relationship is not handled well, it will affect other relationships ... I don't want to make a mess ... I don't know if I will be together ... I try to build many relationships, friendship, love ... I am not good at dealing with interpersonal relationships ... I must work hard ... 4, In the whole family relationship, men are the key. I have met too many men, some of whom like to shop at both ends, which leads to intensified contradictions.
Some people like to pretend that they can't hear the words at both ends and take it on their own. This is an escape. Therefore, men should handle family relations correctly and artistically, and of course, they also hope that their daughter-in-law and mother can understand men. My wife is full of knives and tofu, and her mouth is still so tough, but she continues to buy clothes for her father and celebrate her mother's birthday. When her mother looked after the children, her wife also took the initiative to strike up a conversation. Gradually, her mother talked more and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law gradually improved. I'm relieved.
My mother-in-law didn't have "you" for forty or fifty years, and my daughter-in-law didn't have "you" for twenty or thirty years. Therefore, in at least 20 or 30 years, two generations will not live together, with different living backgrounds and different living habits. It's hard to get together and live together. 7. I heard that my mother-in-law would be jealous because my daughter-in-law took away most of her son's love. I heard that her mother-in-law always wanted to be an authority in the family in order to consolidate her position. It is said that a bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will put her husband in the middle. I heard that, too. ...