Source: Feng Ming Menglong's Thirteen Volumes of Yu Shiming's Ci, Zhang Daoling's Seven Examinations of Zhao Sheng.
Explanation: It is a metaphor for the ups and downs of love between men and women. One side is affectionate, and the other side is unintentional. On the issue of love and marriage between men and women, wishful thinking, ruthlessness and unrequited love are similar.
2. The breeze intentionally makes it difficult for me to stay, while the bright moon unintentionally shines on others.
Source: Xiangxi Caotang, Wang Ming Prefecture Records
Commentary: A cool breeze blew in front of me, but it was still difficult to keep me. The full moon in the sky shines on my back from the opposite side.
3, if you have a heart, you can't open it.
Source: "Glory and Dedication" Qingzhou Tao Xi
Explanation: for example, it takes a lot of energy and effort to do one thing, but the result is not satisfactory; And casual things, on the contrary, get good results smoothly