2. On the day of the memorial service, the children and family members (or brothers, sisters and family members) of the deceased should attend. Mourn for the dead, usually do not take the initiative to inform relatives and friends. When friends and relatives ask about it, they can inform the schedule and invite them to attend. ?
In order to highlight the solemnity of the third anniversary and the family members' yearning for the deceased, the blessings of the deceased should be decorated with flowers. At the same time, according to the personal preferences, personality, occupation and style of the deceased. , and in line with the actual situation of the park, the overall layout.
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An important memorial service
From the date of death, there must be a memorial service every seven days, which is called "doing seven" or "passing seven". Where 17 is called "top seven", 37 is also called "scattered seven", and 57 and 77 are also called "full seven", "broken seven" or "exhausted seven", which is more important.
On the day of "17", a memorial tablet was set up for the families of the deceased and a grand ceremony was held.
On March 7th, the children of the deceased should bring incense to the fork in the road to call the deceased, or burn incense in front of the grave to lead the deceased home.
"May 7th", people think that on this day, the deceased went home to "visit relatives". In addition to holding a memorial service, monks and Taoists were invited to chant Buddhist scriptures, and relatives and friends came to worship. In Qixian County, Jinzhong, the male deceased steamed one more "Lotus" and the female deceased steamed one more "Ruyi". Paper flowers and paper-cut flags were made according to the age of the deceased, and a "liter" was posted. The paper flag was pierced with straw stalks and inserted all the way into the cemetery from the door.
On July 7, the funeral home held a grand memorial service, and friends and relatives came to burn paper or worship at the grave.