A hundred years old is like running water, and Daogaode keeps his name.
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so don't worry about it.
However, the second half of the original poem "Don't worry about your children and grandchildren" has not been handed down because of this.
A folk story from Hebei Province
Legend has it that there used to be such a family in Hebei. This family is penniless. Wives always complain that their husbands are useless and incompetent. She also made the whole family suffer together. One day, when she saw her idle husband coming back from the outside, she scolded, "You, you do nothing but go out and wander around all day, and others can make money to supplement the family."
Look at your own son, he's green with hunger, and you don't know what to do! "The husband felt very wronged after listening to it himself:" It's not that you don't know that the world is in recession now. Do you think I would like to hang out if I could have something to do? My neighbors borrowed all their money, and now no one wants to lend it to us.
I feel bad, too. My wife said, if you can't make money, won't you steal it? Husband is scared to steal? Where can I steal money? "The rich family doesn't have a lot of money? Just steal some from the rich man's house.
After listening to his wife's words, the man really planned to take risks and try to go to the landlord's house, but he didn't expect the door wall of the landlord's house to be too high to turn in, so he went home in frustration and told his wife that the door wall of the landlord's house was too high for him to turn in, so his wife proposed to let her husband "drill a hole" to get in.
At first, the husband was afraid that there were too many guards in the rich man's house. As soon as he went in, his head was broken, so he found a ladle and drilled the hole. Sure enough, he just put the ladle in the hole and it broke, but he couldn't steal the money. The husband felt that he could do nothing, so he went home in shame and despair and became a monk.
The wife was heartbroken and depressed for a long time when she learned that her husband had become a monk and there was no way to raise her young son at home, so she raised the child alone. Who knows that children are more and more competitive, gradually showing their talent in learning, and a little bigger, they have been instructed by experts.
So in that year's imperial examination, he won the honor of "juren" and changed his family. Twenty years later, my husband, who had been away from home for many years, went to the town for alms. He heard that his son has a bright future and is now a senior official in the court, so he is very happy to meet his wife and children. But now he can't even get in his own door, because the security is tight and he can't see his son at all. In desperation, he had to mention this limerick on the ground in front of the door:
Twenty years ago, I stole a man and broke a ladle with a stick.
Children and grandchildren have their own blessings, so don't be their cattle and horses.
So the second half of the sentence, "Don't be a cow or a horse for future generations", was handed down like this.