? Parting can be fierce or heroic. Wang Bo's "Send Du Shaofu to Sichuan", the first couplet "across the wall of Sanqin, across the fog of five rivers", points out the farewell place and destination of friends' official tour. Looking at Sichuan from Chang' an, the line of sight is covered by wind and smoke, revealing a little sadness; In the second couplet, "We bid farewell to each other, and our two officials parted ways", the poets care about each other and resolve their friends' parting feelings as official tourists. "However, China holds our friendship, and heaven is still our neighbor. Why do you wander at the fork in the road, and children * * * touch towels?" Although the third combination is a poem by Cao Zhi, shine on you is better than blue, which has become a well-known famous sentence throughout the ages. The author told a friend: As long as we are soul mates, even though we are far away from Qianshan, we still live together, so don't cry like children. The whole article washes away the sad and sour state of the former literati, and the artistic conception is open and unique. Gao Shi, a frontier poet, also wrote farewell poems with the same verve and momentum. He used the seven-character ancient poem Fu De Huan Yin Shan to send Shen Sishan to the mountain to describe the scene when the poet sent his good friend Shen Sishan back to the mountain. The poet ignored the farewell and tried to imagine his life after retirement. "The mountain is full of depression, the stone spring is stormy, and the osmanthus pine nuts are always there", which shows the image of a true friend hermit. The whole article is romantic and free, full of life. "Where do the white clouds persuade the contents of the cup, and the bright moon sleeps together? When you sleep, you can ask about waking up, and dreams and souls can deal with each other. " The poet eulogizes the seclusion of his friends, and there is no such thing as sadness, loneliness and depression. In the poet's famous sentence "Don't be a big shot", this heroic passion is more prominent. "Thousands of miles in Huang Yun, the sun is shining, and the north wind blows wild goose snow. Mochow has no confidant in front of him, and everyone knows you. " This heroism is different from that of Wang Bo teenager Ren Xia. He is full of scholar spirit, but contains comfort and hope, giving parting a heroic color full of faith and strength. I still remember that in August after the college entrance examination that year, knowing that I was going to visit relatives in Shanghai and Zhejiang Province, an old friend who had been classmates since junior high school invited me and several other classmates (now I can't remember all the names) to hold a banquet to see me off at the Jiangbei River. I clearly remember the day when I bought and wore contact lenses for the first time in my life, so when I walked into the room, I felt everything around me was extremely bright and clear in the summer sun (although I wore contact lenses so far, this visual experience never happened again, which is also related to my age). I can't remember the specific scene of the party for a long time. I only remember that when I left, my classmates gave me a book "The Long March-An Unknown Story". The biography of the Long March written by American journalist Salisbury suddenly attracted me. Open the book, there is a classmate's sincere message on the title page: "How much I love my motherland and be a real hero in the world." On the plane to Shanghai, I couldn't put it down for more than two hours, looking at the clouds dyed golden red by the sunset outside the porthole from time to time. At that time, I was eager to climb Qian Shan like the heroes in the book, and persevered in realizing my life legend. This mentality is probably similar to what Wang Bo and Gao Shi said in their poems.
? Parting can be honest and self-centered. Wang Changling, the master of the Seven Wonders of the Tang Dynasty, wrote many farewell poems. The first two sentences of this unknown song "Farewell to Wei 'er" explain the place and season of farewell without trace. The natural scene has changed from drunken Jianglou to disembarkation, and readers seem to smell the fragrance of orange pomelo. "I remember that you are far away in Xiaoxiang Moon, and it is sad to hear that apes grow in dreams." The last two sentences are empty. After parting, my friends are far away in Xiaoxiang, and what a lonely mood it is to listen to an ape crying in a moonlit dream! The whole poem is full of feelings, but it doesn't show. On the surface, it is the feelings between friends, but in fact it is the writer's inner loneliness after his own departure. The author focuses on his inner world when he left, which is even more prominent in the poem "The Farewell between Furong Inn and Xin Jian": "Luoyang relatives and friends are like asking each other, and a piece of ice heart is in a jade pot". The boundless river rain and lonely mountains in the poem set off the poet's still open mind, which is implicit and meaningful and memorable. The farewell poems of Changling and Li Bai are the brightest stars in the poetry kingdom in the prosperous Tang Dynasty, and they also pay attention to their inner feelings, but they are different from Wang's one-room silence, which is "abandoned because of entrustment". His famous poem "Uncle Xie Shouyun's farewell to school in Xuanzhou" is a farewell poem, but it doesn't say goodbye, but expresses directly, "I had to run away from me yesterday, but it hurts my heart even more today", "Since the world can't meet our desire, I will let go of my hair tomorrow and take a fishing boat", and express my relaxation heartily. Even if he writes farewell directly, in his poem Farewell to Friends, he is sincere, open-minded, enthusiastic and has no lingering sadness. In the poem, mountains and rivers, sunset and white clouds set each other off in bright colors. Wave goodbye, half Ma Si hiss, once upon a time in the United States, the hero dry cloud. Li Wang's farewell poems are actually complementary to each other. In retrospect, Li Wang and his wife had their own feelings of parting. I remember when I was in the first grade of primary school, I sent it to my grandmother's house. Only once a week, my father will pick me up on Sunday night and take me back to my grandmother's house. But sometimes my parents will let me stay one more night and send me directly to school on Monday morning because I miss home. When leaving, my father always stood at the intersection of high hills and watched me walk down the stairs. I will look back again and again. Every time I looked back, my father stood still and waved to me until I went down to the corner of the stone ladder and looked back at my father for the last time. Then I turned the corner and rushed down the long stone steps. Over the years, when I think of this scene a thousand times, I always ask myself, "Is it more reluctant for me to leave my father, or is it more reluctant for my father to leave me?"
? Parting can also be quiet and indifferent. Pastoral poet Wang Wei's farewell poems are calm, natural and restrained, but they are not quoted. His poem "Farewell", "I got off the horse, I proposed a toast to you, and I asked you where you were going and why? And you answer: "I am dissatisfied", and you will rest at the foot of Nanshan. However, I went to Mofu to ask, and Baiyuntong had no end there. " When a friend retires, a poet has no happiness and no worries. He just said, you go, I won't ask again. There are endless white clouds in the mountains to comfort him. Another poem, Farewell in the Mountains, shows the poet's indifference to parting more incisively and vividly. The first sentence at the beginning, "Friend, I have watched you go down the mountain", directly skipped the scene of seeing you off, and passed it by with an emotionless word "ba". The second sentence of "I closed my thatched door in the dark until now" simply describes the closing action at night after seeing me off, so that readers can't feel the theme of the whole poem. Only the last two sentences, "The grass turns green again in spring, but what about you, my friend Prince?" Can make readers feel the poet's yearning for friends. But even the poet who misses you won't make it clear. Will you come back to enjoy the beautiful scenery of this spring next year, my friend? A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and Wang Wei's parting poems have done it. The indifference in Wang Wei's good friend Meng Haoran's farewell poems is different from Wang Wei's. His farewell poems are unpretentious, natural and fresh, unlike Wang Wei's water waves, which show his true feelings with dignity. The predecessors commented that his poems were "light in language but not light in taste". "Prepare chicken and rice for me, old friend, you entertain me on your farm", an ordinary chronicle, with no exaggeration. "We look at the green trees around your village, and the mountains in the distance are light blue" is natural. The scenery from near to far makes people light and quiet, but it is never obscure and dark. It is precisely in this harmonious and beautiful environment that the host and guest raised their glasses at the window, "Opening the garden and talking about Sang Ma with the cups in our hands", which made people appreciate the strong rural flavor and the flavor of agricultural production. The last two sentences, "I'll come back when I'm on holiday in the mountain", vividly describe the cordial harmony between the host and the guest. Parting is no longer sadness, but the joy of looking forward to meeting again. Last year, my best friend and I drove to Daocheng. Say goodbye to each other in Chengdu when we go back. After getting off the bus, I quickly glanced at my friend and waved goodbye. Maybe it's because I got off at a non-stop point. My friend just glanced around, closed the car door, and hurried away without looking in my direction again. At that moment, I was disappointed Is this still the friend I know? I remember I lost touch with my friends for a while shortly after graduation. One day, I received a postcard from him, which read: Try to contact me. Huacai worked hard to find a party organization! Maybe when people reach middle age, they should learn to accept change and normality. Now that you've said goodbye, why go back? Today, an instant messaging tool is in contact with the farthest distance on the earth. If you want to be alone, just move your fingers on WeChat. Why bother to sing and drown your soul? Behind the light clouds and light winds when friends leave, it reflects the great changes of this era. Feelings have long been the most expensive luxury in our era.
? Parting can also be affectionate. Poems about leaving beautiful women are rare in Tang poetry, but Li Shangyin and Du Mu, a young man in the late Tang Dynasty, wrote many poems about leaving beautiful women, but their styles were quite different. In Banqiao Farewell, Li Shangyin wrote: "Looking back at the high city falling into the river, the window of the pavilion is pressed with microwaves, and the daffodils want to go to carp, and the lotus flowers shed tears all night." This poem describes the scene of the poet and his beloved woman saying goodbye at the Banqiao outside Bianzhou. The whole poem is full of beautiful and romantic colors, and the parting time is at the dawn of the long night, because when looking back at the tall buildings, the Milky Way has gradually sunk in the west, and Changting is the place where couples leave. Poets use fairy tales with fantastic imagination. People who left the boat, such as the mythical water fairy who wanted to fly by carp and the beautiful woman like lotus, shed many red tears in the long night. The lightness of leaving others and the importance of giving others are integrated to express sincere, deep and inseparable love from a female perspective. As a farewell to his lover, Du Mu's Farewell also wrote a relaxed and slightly ridiculous prodigal style. "Affectionate always ruthless, but can't laugh before death. Candles have a heart to say goodbye and cry for others until dawn. " The whole poem is simple and natural, and is generally explained in vernacular. The poet seems to be saying, "I am an affectionate person, but why do others always think that I am heartless?" Now that the wine has been poured in front of me, I just feel that I can't laugh. "The poet lifted the weight easily and turned the sad theme of parting into a relaxed and natural narrative. Candle has a heart and tears for others. The anthropomorphic description seems affectionate, but it can also be interpreted as the poet's tearless parting. He himself once said: "A sense of Yangzhou dream in ten years is better than a brothel. "I remember that year, my girlfriend came to Chengdu to see me from Mianyang almost every weekend. After graduation, she failed to stay in Chengdu and was assigned back to Mianyang to work as a teacher in a TV university. Although there were no instant messaging tools such as mobile phones and WeChat at that time, it was very convenient to talk and communicate by landline phone. Every time we sent her back, we hardly talked all the way, but when she boarded the bus for Mianyang at the railway station, I waved her away and saw her face almost sticking to the window glass from a distance, staring at me unblinkingly, with tears in her eyes. If time goes back, I hope my life can be fixed at that moment. As the song goes: "I believe in the era of love, I can't sing a song for you, which makes me often recall in my life." "
? This is an era of farewell. Unconsciously, we are about to bid farewell to the second decade of the new century, farewell to friends, farewell to relatives, farewell to a job, farewell to one experience after another. We are in such a special period in our life. Most of us will be 50 years old next year or the year after. It should be the pinnacle of our friends of the same age, but I'm afraid most of us may not agree. I often feel that the sun is dying and my life is gone. Most of our dreams are shattered or have lost their original colors. Before many things can be realized, we have to get up and say goodbye to opportunities. Life is full of regrets, and there are not many days in the future. This does not mean that our life journey is coming to an end, but there are not many days for us to devote ourselves to active practice. On the other hand, the days of inner peace and retirement are still far away. I can't rest, I can't struggle better, I don't want to exist, I can't leave, and I have no choice but to choose. Perhaps this is a true portrayal of our life's predicament. I have read a couplet written by Kang Youwei for the birthday of Fu Pei, commander-in-chief of Beiyang Wu: "Luoyang is a tiger, and its reputation is only half a century; The leaves of the trees are flying, and the wind and rain will be in Zhongzhou. " At that moment, it was the guard's 50th birthday and the peak of his life. He is proud and proud. Although less than a year has passed since the birthday party, he fell rapidly from the top of the mountain until he was lost, today, reading this couplet, he is still full of pride and heroism. After all, people have reached the top of the mountain, and what about us? Maybe it's because I stepped into the descending passage before I reached the peak. In all fairness, this is not to compare with ordinary people in troubled times, forcing ordinary people to make earth-shattering achievements. However, wild lilies also have spring. What we ordinary people pursue is a sense of accomplishment to realize self-worth. There is no difference in the sense of success. Our life is far from the future to the moment of surrender. For many reasons to live, we must move on, even if it is full of dust and fatigue. In order to move forward better and go into battle lightly, we must learn to say goodbye: every time we say goodbye to our friends, we will get together better next time; Farewell to my last job is for another high-spirited career movement; Say goodbye to yesterday. Is to embrace a more wonderful tomorrow. Every parting is poetic and true, because life is actually made up of countless parting. In parting, we appreciate human feelings, joys and sorrows, and sigh that life is impermanent and fleeting. Although parting has mixed feelings, it's a long story. Self-pity, injury, persuasion, longing, emotion and unruly are the emotional elements contained in the numerous parting poems in the Tang Dynasty, which actually constitute a complete life experience. The life experience of our group of friends has reached this stage, just as the hermit of Chu who mocked Confucius sang: "The phoenix is like a phoenix, and its morality declines. The past cannot be remonstrated, and those who come can still be chased." "