When you cut off countless burdens in your heart, you can smile and wave your sleeves at the three thousand troubles of life.
Be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, despise 1
Xun Ziyun: "The villain can't, don't worry; I got it, but I'm afraid I lost it. Therefore, there is a lifelong worry, and there is no day of joy. "
In the vast journey of the world, gains and losses are fixed. If you have experienced irreparable loss, it must be for those who need it more. In this case, you might as well look down.
"Lu's Spring and Autumn Annals" records that the king of Chu accidentally lost his beloved bow on his way to Yunmengze, and the guards wanted to go back and look for it. The king of Chu stopped him: "You don't have to look for it. The Chu people lost it, but the Chu people got it. You can't go anywhere else."
As soon as Confucius heard this, he immediately corrected it and said that the word "Chu" should be removed. "People lose, people gain."
Lao Tzu said with a smile, it is better to delete the word "person" and it should be "loss, gain", which is in line with heaven.
People who have the overall situation in mind and don't suffer from loss will inevitably gain another kind of gain every time they lose. Gains and losses follow fate, and if you look down on your heart, you will be relaxed.
Don't stay in the trouble of gathering and dispersing.
In a hurry, gathering and parting are always impermanent. Those who are trapped in the pain of parting; People with a transparent heart are indifferent to gathering and scattering. Only in this way can life be relaxed.
Su Shi said in "Send Qian Mu Fu": "When will the bright moon send Wei Yun? There is no need for the girls of Pei Jiu to feel too sorry for the glass. Life is like a trip, and I am also a pedestrian. "
It is self-evident that I am disappointed to meet my friends after a long separation for a short time and to be separated. Watching friends set sail overnight, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and the moonlight is faint when they leave.
Life is circuitous, and the hardest thing is to leave. Su Shi also suffered from parting. However, fate, gathering, and separation are irreversible, so it is useless for you to worry again and again. But Su Shi understands that gathering and parting can't rely on people's help, knowing that life is like a hotel, and everyone is a passer-by.
Those who have tasted the pain of parting should not cling to the painful feelings of joys and sorrows, nor frown with glasses. After parting, move on indifferently. See you again.
Wronged troubles, put down 3
The most tormenting thing in this world is not only disease, but also hatred. With the fire of hatred in your heart, it will torture you like a single spark can start a prairie fire. Let go of the troubles of hatred and you will destroy the enemy from your heart.
Once upon a time, a young monk went to fetch water and was bitten by a snake when he came back through the grass on the north slope of the temple. After returning to the temple to treat the wound, the little novice monk took it and found a bamboo pole to hit the snake.
Master Hui Qing asked, "Does the wound still hurt?" Little novice monk said it didn't hurt.
Master Hui Qing asked again, "Since the pain is gone, why do you want to hit the snake?"
Little novice monk said, "Because I hate it!" "
The mage nudged: "it hurts you, so you hate it;" You hurt it, so it hates you and bites you. This cycle, endless pain, should let go of the hatred in my heart. "
So, the little novice monk gave up the idea of shooting snakes, but took a stone road higher than the ground on the grass on the north slope, and no snakes hurt people anymore.
Mortals always bury hatred in their hearts. Over time, hatred turned into stiff clods and their hearts became cold. Wise men choose to forget hatred, break the soil of hatred in their hearts and plant indifferent flowers; The saint took the initiative to put down his hatred and gave the flower of compassion from the heart to the enemy.
Over time, everyone plays different stories in the world, and everyone will encounter thousands of troubles. Can't let go, troubles take root in my heart; Let it go, the gentle light of faith blooms in my heart.
Even if there are three thousand troubles, it is better to laugh them off. Only in this way can we reap the compassion of the years.