When leaving, the first thing the poet feels is regret, guilt and regret. Maybe it's because I didn't cherish the days when we met before, and I'm still unwilling. However, smart people are always good at self-regulation. The poet wrote: "All kinds of things in the world will eventually become empty." After you miss it, you have introspection and accountability for your own side, and you have a wish for the other side: take care.
Because the past life has shortcomings, amplify this emotion when you leave. There are two main ways to comfort yourself: denying the reality of life, or getting some salvation from blessing others. Parting makes people reflect on themselves and him. Emotional imperfections, defects in life, these tragic things are all highlighted at this moment.
Speaking of farewell poems, people always think of Li Bai's sentence "Peach Blossom Pond is deeper than thousands of feet, not as good as Wang Lun", which shows the deep friendship between poets and friends. But I also think of Xi Murong's "Farewell", which does not send friends away, but describes the passage of youth. This poem keeps my mind wandering, making us think about the dribs and drabs we have gone through.
Second, the mountain road appreciation:
This song "Mountain Road" is an early work of Xi Murong, which comes from "Youth without Complaints". In Xi Murong's words: "What comes to me day after day are unexpected arrangements, and there are so many trivial mistakes that let us slowly separate, so I finally understand tonight." All the joys and sorrows have become ashes, and I can't walk with you on any road in the world. "
There are inevitably regrets in life, and there are always some agreements, and we can't wait for the moment of practice. Buddha said, life is eight bitter, born and sick, love to leave, complain for a long time, aim high and can't let go. ? Some things have never happened, and they have endings.
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Xi Murong's childhood anecdote:
Xi Murong, 1943, is from Sichuan. After that, she lived in Shanghai and Hongkong, and then went to Taiwan Province Province. Originally, Xi Murong, a Mongolian, didn't feel any different from the students around her, but in a geography class in junior high school, the teacher said something that hurt the Mongols, and all the students focused on her.
After class, the students seemed to forget what had just happened and played with her, but after that, Xi Murong never wanted to say a word to the teacher again. After many years, Xi Murong said that if she met this teacher again, she really wanted to say sorry to him. Maybe he didn't mean it at that time, just wanted to make a joke and cheer up the classmates.
In recent years, Xi Murong gradually understood some things. She thinks that a Han Chinese can be friends with you for life, but once he retreats to his own ethnic group and comments on the culture, beliefs and even everything of other ethnic groups with his own eyes, his prejudice will be very serious. At least in that class, Mongolia described by the teacher is far from what her parents told her? .
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