Describe a person who doesn't love me, and I won't love her. Are there any ancient poems?

This heart is associated with Iraqis,

Gentle as water moistens Qinchuan.

Things have come and gone over the years,

Wishful thinking is hard to decide.

How can not love lead to love,

How do you repair the pillow mat?

You can get what you pay,

Love is your specialty.