This is another grave besides Santian grave, Sanqi grave and Wuqi grave after his death.
On the centennial grave, we will burn paper sacrifices, and those who have daughters will plant a tree, saying it is a "cash cow". Different regions have different ways of offering sacrifices, and the south sets off firecrackers on this day. There are not so many sayings here in Qingdao. Generally, they burn paper and incense, offer offerings, kowtow and offer flowers. Dai Xiao can burn black veil (wearing 100 days is very filial, but it is almost the same as 1 month), and you can get a haircut on this day.
Question 2: What should we pay attention to in commemorating the centenary? A hundred-day memorial service is filial piety. I haven't given you a pair of chopsticks for seven days. By contrast, I really admire your ancestors. What a good tutor.
Question 3: What's wrong with the average dead person for a hundred days? As the old saying goes, "a long anniversary is a hundred days shorter", so the hundred days should be two or three days ahead of schedule.
A hundred days is nothing special. The ancients were very particular about one hundred days. An old friend walked for a hundred days and expressed his thoughts, so he had a hundred days to say!
Fruit. Burn incense. If you don't have this habit, take flowers!
Question 4: What is the significance of centenarians paying attention to different customs? Ask the old people around you or people who have experienced white things.
Question 5: What incense paper (paper money), firecrackers and sandalwood should be prepared for the centenary memorial day? Sacrifices are fish, meat, rice and snacks that children used to like to eat. Alas, life is impermanent and there is no way. I wish you all happiness! Have a good trip, son!
Question 6: What is the death day on July 49? In Buddhism, it is regarded as the reincarnation of transcendence. In the past, monks had to set up an altar to recite scriptures after their death, which was called "beating". Every seven days, every odd number (such as seven, three seven, five seven, seven seven), when doing homework, dutiful sons should mourn and cry.
Later generations, this form of mourning and commemoration has been handed down. In rural areas, it usually takes three to five days to be buried, so you can only go to the grave after burning paper for seven days. Burn seven or seven pieces of paper, and then burn it for one hundred days, and it will be the "no day" paper for next year.
Nowadays, people don't pay much attention to the form of memorial service, especially in cities, filial piety is the most important thing.
Question 7: Pay attention to going to the grave on the day of death. The thirty-fifth day after death is called "May 7th" and the hundred days are called "Hundred Days". At that time, all filial families will go to the grave to sacrifice. Usually, when the grave is built on May 7 and 100, the former is advanced and the latter is postponed, which is called "one hundred days are long and five or seven days are short". Zhoucun usually goes to the grave for sacrifice in the middle of the night. When sweeping the "May 7th Tomb", the relatives of the deceased should carry paper bundles and offerings such as Jinyinshan, cash cow and cornucopia for sacrifice. According to local legend, "May 7th" is the end of all sacrificial activities of the deceased. On this day, the King Wu of the Temple of Hades will finally investigate whether the deceased will go to hell to suffer, or be reborn and reincarnated. These five Yan kings are very strict and selfless. The only weakness is that he has no daughter as an adult, so he is generally more tolerant of people who have daughters. If he hears the cry of the deceased's daughter during the final review, he will let the deceased go. Therefore, on May 7th, when a girl dies, the girl has the custom of crying at the grave in the morning. May 7th is a very important day, so don't advance or postpone it. We are more particular here, but you can ask the old people at home for advice if you don't let go of the mourning hall. If we don't pay attention to it, please take out the urn (remember to open an umbrella and never see the sun), find the coffin that burned paper on the day of cremation (the funeral home has a special memorial place with 12 zodiac sign), and put the urn under the photo frame of the deceased (. At the bottom, there are foods that the deceased liked to eat before his death (at least three or five kinds). Those who like drinking and smoking can bring their favorite brands before they die. After the memorial ceremony (burning paper) began, they lit cigarettes and poured three glasses of wine. The first two cups were poured into the circle drawn before burning paper, and the last cup was left in front of the coffin. You should talk to the old man and cry. In addition to children, it is best for close relatives and friends to come to pay homage to the deceased. If you are very particular, add three or four items you mentioned, such as setting up a mourning hall, setting the table in the mourning hall, pouring wine and tea, setting up washing water and foot washing water in the room where you lived before your death, and putting away the clothes you wore before your death in the bed where you slept before your death-in short, preparing for his last night's rest. In the afternoon 10, the summoning ceremony began (for fear that he forgot to go home). The eldest son climbed onto the roof of the mourning hall with a lantern (for fear that he could not see the road clearly at night), raised three tiles and shouted "Dad, come back ~ ~" to the night sky. The others knelt in a row on the stairs, crying and screaming. It is suggested that regardless of the old customs, May 7th should be regarded as July 7th, that is, it should be unified, and April 7th happens to be the most important anniversary: the first seven days, May 7th (July 7th), and three days after 100 days: Qingming (early Qingming), 11th (late November of the lunar calendar) and anniversary (anniversary). You can burn paper at home to pay homage, New Year's Eve or New Year's Eve.
Question 8: Grandpa died 100 days ago. What are the details of the centennial celebration? 100 points: First, every 100 day is one day earlier (one hundred days earlier and one year later).
Secondly, we should prepare offerings, incense burners, burning paper, white wine and silk flower.
Question 9: One hundred days from the date of death or funeral is the centenary. Of course, it's a funeral. Memorial Day can only be held after the funeral. Funeral is a big gift in funeral custom, also known as "introduction". In the eyes of the old Tianjin Wei people, we can know the scale of the funeral by looking at the breadth of the family, the filial piety of the children and the social status. People regard the solemnity of funeral as not only the decline of the dead, but also the glory of the living. The night before the funeral, the whole family and close friends stayed awake, which is called "companionship". The time from funeral to funeral varies from family to family, generally depending on financial resources. The longest necromancer was buried on July 7th, 49 days later. The families of poor citizens will be carried to the cemetery for burial in the early morning of the next day, which is called "five-point lift". There are two times for a funeral: morning and evening. The early funeral will be held before 10 in the morning to save money; In the evening, the funeral will be held after 10 to entertain relatives and friends and arrange banquets. Therefore, families with high expenses and being able to hang out usually have funerals at night. The time of funeral is determined by Yin and Yang. An hour before the funeral (usually at noon), the military attache will preside over the ceremony of offering sacrifices to the door. Please stand on the red carpet paved by the waiter and shout loudly outside the door, and watch the door on the road, set off iron cannons (later changed to firecrackers) for 6 times and offer sacrifices to the door. At this time, monks, Taoist priests and trumpeters also played music under the command of Yin and Yang, and the dutiful son knelt at the door and burned a keeper's paper. The purpose of the military attache offering sacrifices to the door is to ask the door god to let the ghost out, otherwise the coffin will not move and the ghost will not come out. The sacrificial door of the military attache is as respected as the point owner of the civil servant, and the family of the deceased should also send someone to pick it up by car. Afterwards, they will hold a banquet to thank them. Nail the coffin head before you wake up. When nailing a nail, the dutiful son should shout "hide the nail". The family members of the deceased should use brooms, fine cloth, etc. Wipe the coffin gently. This is called "sweeping the soil". At this time, the teahouse should let the whole family shout "leave money" in homophonic, so as to pray for the deceased to leave their property and family property to future generations. You should set off firecrackers when you wake up. The second son of the deceased will kick over the stool under the coffin and smash the prepared Tao Pan with a firewood stick. This is called "smashing the basin" (the porcelain bowls are broken now, the more broken the better). Relatives and friends who stayed at home tore down the newspaper posted at their door. Before the Republic of China, the great mourning paid attention to the eight lifts, namely, the patent pavilion (cancelled after the Republic of China, it became the seven lifts), the quiet pavilion, the shadow pavilion, the official sedan chair, the flower pavilion, the lamp pavilion, the spirit pavilion (or the family temple) and the incense burner. There are also four tables, namely, a fragrant beast table, a royal costume table, an antique table, a flower table, and various deacons such as fragrant spectrum and snow willow. These are all rented in the store. At the funeral, the coffin bearer and the etiquette deacon were hired in the prison. There is a big flagpole tied to the coffin, and flowers, fish, clouds and umbrellas are embroidered on the cover. 8 porters, 16 porters, 32 porters and 64 porters. 64 people are called "sixty-four bars". Etiquette ceremonies are mostly blue and black patterns on a white background, and porters wear polka-dot clothes on a green background and green hats. The funeral order is very strict and can't be misplaced. Usually arranged by the waiter. At the front of the funeral procession were eight red flags, four leading gongs, four sunshade umbrellas, four green fans, melons, cymbals, axes, eight big lifts, four big tables, and a crane boy Hu. Fang Xiang and Fang Bi were sentenced to two escorting ghosts, and they were dressed very scary (one was holding a three-section stick and the other was holding a seven-section whip high). After the deacon, the guests are arranged in front of the coffin by their peers, with the elderly ranking first. At first, it was arranged in the order of great-grandson, great-grandson and second son. Later, the eldest son was guided by the coffin, and the second son and other filial sons and grandchildren were arranged backwards with funeral sticks. Use a piece of white cloth, one end of which is tied in front of the bar, and the other end is carried by the eldest son. The dutiful sons folded on their shoulders in turn and walked with bars crying, which was called "sweeping the spirit". The production of funeral sticks is also exquisite. Bamboo is the staff of bereavement, and the father's day is taken out; When you lose your mother, you should use sycamore as a staff, including Mother's Day. Then the coffin. Women will sit in the sedan chair behind the coffin and cry all the way. At this time, the eldest daughter-in-law should hold a pottery jar, also called a "box food jar", in which food will be placed, which will be placed in front of the head of the deceased when filial piety is buried. If the eldest son dies before his father, the eldest grandson (Tianjin custom calls him "a heavy-duty grandson") will carry the banner and guide the way instead of his father, followed by uncles and uncles, and the pot holder is also the wife of the eldest grandson. Followed by monks, Taoists and Ni Jing. One group is called a shed. The more sheds there are, the more grand they are, which shows the social status and economic strength of bereavement. Most tents are rented by families who have lost their loved ones and given by relatives and friends. There are also some dignitaries, rich families, in order to show off their wealth and power, they invited military bands to play all the way, accompanied by monks and Taoist priests. At the same time, military and political dignitaries and celebrities who were in opposition at that time were also invited to write a number of plaques to be used together with elegiac couplets, eulogies, poems and horizontal plaques sent by relatives and friends ... >>
Question 10: Can the centenary memorial service for the deceased relatives be provided to Jiaozi? Is there anything special? Yes, jiaozi has always had the meaning of reunion and blessing in our traditional food culture. Up to now, there are many places in northern China where jiaozi is used to offer sacrifices to relatives. In my heart, I am grateful for the kindness of my relatives and the life I have given myself! heart