Nowadays, the problem of college students' love is a serious and unavoidable practical problem. In universities where young men and women gather, college students' love is a common natural phenomenon, including self-study, eating and walking. So why do college students fall in love? The Campus Culture Department of Zero Survey Association of China Metrology Institute conducted a survey on college students' love view. According to the survey, 36.8% of college students are in love, including 22.8% freshmen, 36.6% sophomores, 46.3% juniors and 52.6% seniors. Among them, 4.8% of college students follow the trend and are driven by herd mentality; 23.9% college students have strong emotional needs in order to find spiritual sustenance; 33.7% have a strong desire for the opposite sex because of their physical maturity; 3 1.2% college students are affected by social environment; 6.4% came from other sources. However, completing their studies is the responsibility and mission entrusted to college students by society. The bounden duty of students is to study, which is also the condition for college students to go to society and achieve life.
What influence does love have on college students? This is just an endless debate, but most people think there are three views: the first is the motivation theory, which thinks that love can generate motivation, stimulate people's potential, promote learning, cultivate emotions and enrich spiritual life; The second is the theory of resistance, which holds that the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. College students are blind in love, unable to control their love freely, and are prone to emotional instability and trouble for themselves. At the same time, their study in college is tense and time is limited, which will consume energy, hinder their study and is not conducive to all-round development. The third is the balance theory, which holds that advantages and disadvantages are balanced. The advantages and disadvantages of college students' love vary from person to person, and there are generally advantages and disadvantages. In the life of college students, some people get the motivation to learn for love, because they handle the love relationship properly; There are also some people who have affected their studies because of improper handling of love relationships, and some even committed suicide.
In fact, I think for college students, love is just a part of life. If they can find their love in college and work hard for their lives, it is only a matter of their lives, and more importantly, their future lives. However, not every college student's love is so beautiful and wise. Some people have poor self-control. They don't focus on the struggle of study, but think about love all day. This kind of love is not only harmful to others, but more importantly, it destroys your own life. In the face of love, college students should distinguish between true and false, don't look at flowers in the fog, always put their own lives first, always keep a clear head, and seize the time to study hard now, otherwise nothing will be achieved in the future and nothing will be used. University is the last lesson for a person to face and enter the society. I once heard a teacher say that universities are half of society. In college, not only can you learn knowledge and skills, but more importantly, you can understand the society and prepare for the future. I think if you learn this last lesson well, it will be better for your future, career and life. Don't take it lightly. University has a great influence on a person's life, and can even change a person's life.
Life is made up of different parts, and love is just a part of life. Some people often put the cart before the horse, regard love as the whole of life and put all their energy into it. In fact, there are scenery everywhere in life, and when a person's life is successful, love is just one of the beautiful scenery.
I don't object to college students looking for their own love during their college study, but college students should understand the meaning, essence and foundation of love, put love in an appropriate position in life, and correctly handle the relationship between love and their own life. College students should put their studies first. Only by correctly handling the relationship between love and learning can the power of love become the driving force of learning, and the success of learning will consolidate and develop love, and more importantly, lay a good foundation for one's life. In a word, love is a part of life, but it will not be the whole of college students. Turning the power of love into the driving force of their own learning will be beneficial to both sides.
On the contrary, some college students have a clear concept of love and put their lives first. Although I don't object to college students looking for their own love during their study, I think it is best for college students to choose this way. Olives picked in advance will only taste its sour taste; Overdraft life, flower of life will only wither prematurely. Love needs a mature period, so college students should think rationally-put their life first and choose their love opportunity reasonably: when their psychological development is mature or their outlook on life is stable; Or when social experience is relatively rich and the economy is independent; There is also waiting until the school is completed, because love is an important topic that every college student will experience sooner or later on the road of life, and the right time for love is also very important for every college student.
Everyone has different views on the concept of love. As a young college student, we should focus on our studies, put them in the first place, and love should be subordinate to our studies, so as to blossom beautiful flowers. In the development of science, the two great scientists, the Curie couple, love each other deeply, but they are more keen on science. Their sincere love and loyalty to science merged together, creating a gorgeous flower of science-radium. The achievements of the Curies in their careers are inseparable from their pursuit and struggle for their careers. They put life first and put life before love, which laid a solid foundation for their sincere love.
In short, only when college students know love and life, know love and life, learn to love and life, and put life before love, can life be more substantial, rich, wonderful and meaningful.