The first one is that there are three kinds of unfilial, and there is no big one. This is the first of seven things in ancient times. After Tang Wan and Lu You got married, they were very affectionate and soon got pregnant. When I was three months old, I accidentally miscarried, which may be because of this. Tang Wan is in a bad mood, and both of them have been working hard. However, nothing has happened for three years. I don't know if it belongs to infertility caused by tubal adhesion. The aunt at this time is not an aunt, but a mother-in-law. So this mother-in-law asked Lu You to divorce his wife.
The second reason is that Lu You was not urged to get fame. This is a great event in Song and Ming Dynasties. But, in fact, this also can't blame Tang Wan. Lu You took two exams when she was unmarried, both of which failed in Sun Shan. Afterwards, I got married. After I got married, I was addicted to poetry. Lu You and Tang Wan are both very talented people, but they have the same language. Tang Wan's appearance is also very beautiful and moving. After two months together, my mother-in-law got angry. You didn't urge her husband to study hard and get ahead. But for the sake of the child, sing together and let her go home and remarry.
It seems that the ancient moral requirements are not lower than ours, or even stricter. Ancient women could have no children, and now they still live a happy life without children. This is our high moral tolerance. In other words, with the development of society, sons are no longer necessary means of providing for the aged. They can support themselves or in nursing homes, and there is no need to rely on their sons.
Do you think it's right to have a son because of the pension problem?