At the same time, she wanted to give her mother-in-law a good impression, so she let her sister-in-law have a taste.
Sister-in-law has lived at home for a long time, her personal preferences are basically clear, and women are easier to talk to.
Not only that, if the bride has plans, she will take this opportunity to please her sister-in-law and put in a good word in front of her mother-in-law.
First of all, three days is an ancient custom. Newly-married women have to cook for their in-laws in the kitchen for three days, commonly known as the "Three Dynasties". This is very important, similar to the test of the newly married wife's ability.
In addition to the original intention of washing hands to make soup, there are many rules for cleaning rouge boudoir. From now on, you should be a woman, not a boudoir woman who doesn't touch spring water, so it should be said that this bride should have a good family, not a woman who needs to do housework in the boudoir.
I decided not to be my mother-in-law, and I didn't know her family's likes and dislikes. In order to please her mother-in-law, I let my sister-in-law taste it first.
In addition to showing that the bride is thoughtful, there is another point that she has a good relationship with her sister-in-law. There are two situations here. Because she has only been in the door for three days, she wants to get along well with her sister-in-law, or she is an old acquaintance. But in the past, even the bride and groom could hardly meet each other under the orders of her parents and the words of the matchmaker, and it is unlikely that she would meet her sister-in-law and make old acquaintance.
Then only the same age, it is easier to communicate and get along with. If the sister-in-law is too young, the taste of children is very different from that of adults, so she may not be able to understand the mind of the bride, and it is not very helpful to know the taste of her mother-in-law, so her age should be similar to that of the bride.
Moreover, in just three days, we can have a good relationship with our sister-in-law, which shows that both sides of this marriage should be satisfied, otherwise there will be bad blood, and this effect can not be achieved in a short time.
Furthermore, why didn't the newly-married bride ask her husband? Personally, I don't think it is enough to explain the bad relationship. After all, it's only been three days, and it's more common for men not to pay attention to such trifles.