However, when our own life is no different from others, it is doomed to mediocrity.
Yi Xiaowan once mentioned in the book "Living as One pleases": "In the past, horses and chariots were slow and letters were far away, so I only loved one person in my life. Now things are in a hurry, I only wish you have light in your eyes and live as you like. Perhaps the tomorrow we are looking forward to seems out of reach, and every little effort we are making now seems nothing. But persistent people are destined to carve the core, strengthen their bones and sharpen the light of life under the erosion of years ... "
Yes, maybe life will be unsatisfactory and not as perfect as you think, but as long as you have light in your eyes and ideals in your heart, work hard step by step and bravely pursue what you want, you will be able to look like live high.
We don't always have to complain about the imperfections in life. In fact, life is the greatest perfection because of imperfection, and life is perfect because of imperfection.
Perhaps each of us cares about others' recognition of ourselves, and everyone wants to live gracefully and successfully in the eyes of others, so that others can admire and look up to themselves.
But actually, we don't have to.
There are no two identical leaves in the world, and no two identical people, even twins, have different personalities.
Each of us is a unique self. Everyone is a star, with his own track and dazzling place. We should not neglect ourselves while praising others.
Between people, it is a landscape. You are in my eyes, and I am in your eyes. Everyone has a shining side, and there must be something that is not dazzling.
We don't need to live to please others, let alone compare with others. What we want to compare is happiness and happiness. You have happiness, others don't necessarily have it, others have pain, and you don't necessarily understand it.
In life, we don't need to be cautious in order to get recognition and praise from others. We should live happily and generously as we like.
Life is a long road, there are infinite intersections, you always have to make a choice; Whether our life is perfect or not lies not in being applauded by others, but in living wonderfully. A person's life lies not in how many things have been accomplished, but in not leaving too many regrets.
Life is beautiful only when it comes out, but not when it comes out. The happiest thing is not to live like others, but to live more like yourself after hard work.
If the heart is sunny, why worry about sadness? I think we are the most beautiful at any age, and we can spend our time as we like, either dazzling or calm, and enchanting alone in time.
Now, meet the person you want to see, do what you want to do, while the sun is shining, while the breeze is blowing in Xu Lai, while you are still young.
On the way to the destination, if I can meet you again, I think I will meet my best self again.
May you have a lamp in the dark, no longer afraid of the night, and your heart is full of warmth.
May you have an umbrella when it rains, no longer be sad, and there are surprises everywhere in life.
May you have company, and your life is full of sunshine, light and not sadness.
May the life you live be what you like and what you expect.
May the ancient time be covered with a layer of white gauze to seal up any thoughts about you.
May hope grow into a lush vine and climb the city in my heart.
May you live your favorite life in the most beautiful years!