Table 1: I will always be the protagonist of my life.
1. In the story of life, the starting point depends on parents and the ending point depends on yourself.
Everyone wants to have a rich father, which is a desirable good thing! If you look at it from another angle, this is just the beginning of a life story, which is different! Although the starting conditions are different, everyone's future is still in their own hands. There are different living environments under different starting conditions. However, what is good and what is bad, is there a conclusion? Don't! It's just that their respective fates will have different test propositions. Don't be confused by various initial conditions, limited by the living environment, drift with the flow, and don't know how to jump out of the bondage of initial conditions.
What kind of family you are born in is not for you to decide. For people from a good family, you may not be able to live a good life. People who are born in a bad family will sometimes enter the phase and make a fortune. Many people have a bright future. What is the difference here? Because everyone has a different life course. For the rich, it is learning: sharing, sharing and caring; For the poor, learn: create, accumulate wealth and accumulate virtue! There is no difference between the two: rich dad and poor dad are both good dads in our family!
2. In the plot, play your role well and don't interfere with other people's performances.
Parents all over the world have created a good living environment for their children. As an elder, the more property, the easier it is for children to get confused. Both: without empathy, it is not easy to understand the real suffering of human beings; Three: Lost in digital games, unable to truly down-to-earth, implement life and create value. In this case, it is necessary for parents to have the following mentality, and the result will be better: if the children are as good as their elders, the property left behind will be negligible; If children are not so good when they grow up, wouldn't it hurt their hearts to leave money to them? Let children miss the opportunity to learn and create, and focus on the whole family property by mistake. Isn't it good to do bad things? Therefore, if money can be used to teach children how to make progress, improve their wisdom, do more good deeds for the benefit of society and invest in positive education, it will be a profitable investment, so that children can save time and effort in the struggle for production, improve their learning ability and mind, reduce their empty mentality, find methods and life goals for self-improvement, and grow up in good virtue. Isn't this better?
It is best for parents to adjust their mentality, improve their own ideas and guide their children's ideological changes. Leave money to future generations, it is better to leave morality to future generations, develop correct values and social behavior norms, strengthen innovation ability, and improve interpersonal relationships. Whether parents can choose the right direction and make the right arrangements is the most important thing, which will definitely affect the establishment and inheritance of a good family style.
The child's mentality should also be adjusted in time. Parents are parents, and what they have worked hard with their own hands belongs to them. What they want to learn is to create methods, not wait for long-term feeding! Everything will come to an end If there is no "harmony between time, place and people", when adversity comes, if you only know how to be supported and compete for the people you see, the consequences are really unimaginable! Is the meaning of living in this life just to compete for family property? Never! If you get your life goals wrong, you will waste a great opportunity in life!
Parents should not easily block their children's development opportunities, that is, don't give too much, so that children can easily get what they want, and if they get too much, they will lose the motivation to learn and grow. Why do you say that? Because in a series of trading chains in the world, it is necessary to exercise everyone's will, change the shortcomings and deficiencies in ideas and behavior habits, hone and purify everyone's virtue and purify bad habits through trading chains. Everyone's experience is a good opportunity to correct mistakes and make up for shortcomings and defects. At this time, parents should never take their children's papers to fill in the answers, but let them go by themselves. If parents are eager to answer, they will lose the test of survival experience and the opportunity to correct their own shortcomings and defects. Some opportunities are missed in a person's life. Next time, things will change. Will the opportunity come again? It is hard to guarantee!
3, fly high, everyone is looking forward to it.
What is the right thing for future generations? The misleading legacy of the ancients makes modern people think that leaving property to their children is a manifestation of cherishing and caring for their children. Nowadays, scientific and technological civilization is booming and social changes are accelerating. At this time, it is even more necessary to pay attention to cultivating children's adaptability and innovation ability, establish moral concepts as soon as possible, and develop correct social behavior norms so as to correctly face and deal with various contradictions and problems in the future. This is the most needed and necessary at present!
Pass on virtues to future generations, build good relationships and establish good interpersonal relationships; As a child, it is necessary to look around the world. Heroes (women) aim to swim in all directions and let themselves swim. Nothing can be bound. Being at home is like being in space. As soon as possible, we should focus on self-interest and altruism, arrange our families to grow and study in suitable posts, give play to their respective abilities and specialties, support each other and achieve each other. Don't go to court for family property, which will make people suffer another tragedy. Family harmony and natural prosperity. Why are you unhappy?
Is it easy to improve your life? Wise people should avoid pulling each other and cultivate virtues for future generations. This is the only way! It is better for parents to know their "virtue" than to add other substances; Children should believe in themselves. If they have the wealth of their parents, they must fight ten times and one hundred times to benefit the society. If they don't have the wealth of their parents, they must first concentrate on their own virtues and wealth accumulation.
When it rains, you know that the hot sun is precious, and life inevitably has ups and downs. If we live in a polite social environment, we will certainly experience different feelings at both ends: when going uphill, we must not forget to support our partners; When going downhill, stand up straight, persevere and never change your mind. "There are flowers in spring, months in autumn, cool breeze in summer and snow in winter. If you don't mind your own business, this is a great time in life. " Wouldn't you be happy if you didn't feel different and get promoted through the process? After that, you can be more introspective, feel the mystery of life and count the life lessons you have experienced. It won't be a problem when I test it again. If people are happy at home, everything will naturally increase good karma. This good family style will definitely benefit all members!