From: Song Bei Fu written by Shi Zuoren (contemporary).
It is better to be negative to me than to be negative to others. Be careful again and again First, don't cheat your heart. Life in the Year of the Tiger is still close, but people are familiar with each other. Saying right and wrong is right and wrong.
Interpretation: Be cautious in making friends and choose again and again. If you choose, you must first consider whether the other party is honest.
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When you are prosperous, people around you are not necessarily hypocrites, but when you are down and out, it is the real people who are with you. There is a lot of emphasis on fate and retribution in Song Bei Fu, which holds that everything is arranged by fate and people have a good chance if they do good things.
There are many descriptions of tolerance in this paper, and it is considered that tolerance is the way to eliminate troubles and sins. While advocating self-protection, caution and tolerance, it also emphasizes people's subjective initiative, which is considered as the principle of doing things. There is no lack of persuasion in the article. "There is no need to harm people, and there is no need to prevent people."
"people are not weak, and the weak do not let people." Shuo Wen Jie Zi explains the word "forbearance" and bluntly says, "forbearance can also be achieved". People who have achieved great things in history have such a character. "If you can't bear to be small, you will be great." In life, you sometimes need patience and compromise, so that you can better protect yourself.