For you, you can’t live up to the delicious food; for me, you can’t live up to the beautiful scenery. For someone in the dark, only you and time cannot be let down.
Perhaps, one late night, looking up at the sky, you will feel how small you are, and the things you want to hold on to tightly will slip away quietly, such as time, such as you.
At this time and age, you will suddenly find yourself unable to find a breakthrough in your career, your love will not be settled, and your life will seem to be drifting away. It is inevitable that you will doubt yourself. I wonder why those things that I am proud of are so scorned by others; I wonder why the persistence in my heart falls apart like this; I wonder why the so-called forever is only a moment. In fact, everyone is like this. Behind those so-called brilliance, there is unknown pain. Just like me, who seems to be sunny, I don’t know how many drizzle evenings I have, leaning against the door and window, watching the darkness alone, all my life. Melancholy.
No matter what, if you change your perspective, you will see a different life. For example, you, in this time, nothing more, nothing less, is just right, I think. A little more mature than those young people who are just starting out, and a little more passionate than those middle-aged people who have been through the battlefield; they can do what they like casually without too many ties; they can also pursue themselves. The person you like will not give in to love; you will have an infinite future and a variety of possible lives. Do you still feel that you are not in your best years? Don’t you think this kind of time is something you can’t let down?
Career
For most of us, the so-called work is just work, and it is far from a career. Work, which is the foundation of our lives and the basis of our independent personality, may have too many entanglements and dissatisfactions, but we still have to deal with it well. If you're doing something you love, that's great. If you don’t like it that much, there’s no need to be too anxious. We can separate work and life. Life outside of eight hours determines what kind of person you become. We can carefully cultivate our own three-acre field outside of work, so that there is a corner in our heart where we can dwell poetically for a moment. For you, I think your current job is suitable for you. It has some spontaneity and some challenges, and some freedom and some constraints. All you have to do is to plan well. You may not be able to think it through completely, but take a step and do it. As long as it is not an abyss, it doesn't matter if you fall in the mud. We still have the courage to start over. Follow the thoughts in your heart, continue to use what you have, and slowly make up for any shortcomings you feel.
Slowly fade away the remaining sadness in your eyes, strive to be the best version of yourself, and walk on the road full of surprises every day. You will feel that the flowers on the road are blooming just for you.
Nothing to fear about the future, just wait and see.
Time cannot be wasted, let time be full of power.
Love
For you, you may still be unable to forget the innocent past. So why bother trying to forget? Just put those beautiful memories in a corner of our hearts and dry them in the sun. When we get old, we will drink with these memories. We must be grateful, those beautiful things will not be wasted in time, and the past poetry and wine years will be tasteless in the firewood, rice, oil and salt. But not forgetting does not mean that we can sink. Only by pursuing those better things with those good things can we live up to time.
Perhaps, you are still looking forward to such an encounter: the vast sky, the chaos of the world, you come with a smile. Wearing gauze and green sleeves, holding flowers and smiling, I climbed up the steps. Just like this, the meeting of the golden phoenix and the jade dew has won countless victories in the world.
Perhaps, you are still looking forward to such a tacit understanding: when the sea is calm, you can sing and enjoy the scenery on both sides of the Taiwan Strait; when the waves are rough, you can still hold each other's hands tightly and face each other together.
Yes, none of us would expect such a feeling of music, music, and drums. But there are always many imperfections in love, like the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl who are forever separated by the Milky Way, Meng Jiangnu who cried to Chang Cheng, and Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai who turned into butterflies and flew together.
Xu Zhimo said that I will look for my only soul mate in the vast sea of ??people. If I get it, I'm lucky; if I don't get it, it's my fate. Then he also died on the plane visiting Lin Huiyin. Either the person is wrong or the time is wrong, we are tossed and lost in the cycle of life. However, beautiful things still exist, we have to work hard to find them and feel them with our hearts. Just like the heart-warming story of Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng gambling on books and spilling tea, or the lifelong friendship between Jin Yuelin and Lin Huiyin living next to each other, or the romantic life of Sanmao and Jose who reunited six years ago and traveled around the world, these beautiful things will never fade away.
No matter how much pain in the past, no matter how many bumps in the future. I hope you can meet someone:
You have your pursuits, she has her hobbies, you don't interfere with each other, encourage each other, and grow together. You won't walk too fast for her to keep up with you, and she won't walk too slow for you to keep up. When you look back, she is always there; when she looks up, you are always there. ?
I know it will be difficult, and I also know that there are many make-or-breaks in life. If you can, better; if you accidentally fall into the secular world, you still need to face it with a smile. Life is not about always having a good deck of cards, but that even if you have a not-so-good deck of cards, you can still play a wonderful game.
Having been living for a long time, do you feel that your days seem busy, but in fact, they are mechanically repeated day after day? Embroidered, why can't that kind of air mixed with spring grass and morning light that can rejuvenate the soul enter the heart? For a long time, have you felt that you are as sleepy and boring as the summer weather, and your spirit and mood are in a state of unconsciousness. Everything that has touched you can no longer move you, and everything that has attracted you can no longer attract you. Even everything that irritated you can no longer irritate you? At this time, you have to work hard to find the oxygen that belongs to your soul. You need to start again and find another place that can inspire your enthusiasm. As long as you like it and long for it, then do it. No matter what the span is between them and your existing life, the wider the span, the more wonderful the life will be. When the span reaches 360 degrees, life will draw a curve. A nice circle.
In the dead of night, think about whether the things that once made your blood boil with excitement and risk your life are because life has long been put on hold. Can you spare some time, leave some space, and give them a little place to live? We are not interested in the results, but only in our inner joy and peace along the way.
Yes, it is really difficult to follow your inner voice, because the noise around us is so loud that sometimes we cannot hear our inner voice. Let us work harder, be stronger, and try to leave a little voice for ourselves every day, examine our own hearts, and let him get a moment of peace.
I may not be able to walk with you, but I still have the most sincere heart. May your smile be bright but not sad, may your eyes be longing but not sad; I look forward to your phoenix nirvana and bathing in the fire. Be reborn and live up to this wonderful time.