1. Know the situation: First of all, you need to know the specific reasons and plot of your brother beating your sister. It may be because of competition, jealousy, misunderstanding or other problems. As parents, we need to communicate with our brothers and sisters patiently and understand their feelings and thoughts, so as to solve this problem better.
2. Draw a clear line: Parents need to tell their brothers and sisters clearly that hitting people is unacceptable. They need to know that this kind of behavior will not only hurt their younger sister, but also have a negative impact on the overall harmony of the family. At the same time, parents should also tell their brothers and sisters how to deal with their contradictions and negative emotions is appropriate.
3. Provide emotional support: For the younger sister, parents need to provide emotional support and a sense of security. You can tell your sister that she is not alone and her parents will help her deal with this problem. At the same time, we should also encourage my sister to express her feelings and thoughts so as to better understand her situation.
4. Guide the elder brother: For the elder brother, parents need to guide him to understand that it is incorrect to hit his sister and teach him how to correctly handle his emotions and contradictions. It may be necessary to explain the consequences of hitting people and how to solve contradictions through active communication and problem solving.
5. Provide educational resources: If your brother's behavior continues to have problems, you may need to provide some educational resources, such as psychological counseling or family therapy. These resources can help family members better understand and deal with this problem.
6. Give positive incentives: If my brother makes progress in dealing with this problem, parents can give some positive incentives or rewards, such as praising his progress and giving some extra privileges or gifts. This can encourage my brother to better abide by family rules and help him to establish positive changes.
Most importantly, parents need to remain calm, patient and understanding to help solve this problem. At the same time, parents also need to provide continuous support and guidance to ensure a healthy and harmonious relationship between brothers and sisters.