Sit still and think about yourself all the time. Gossip is not personal. A person has suffered a lot before he knows "silence"; A person is always outspoken. When he offends others, he knows how to keep his mouth shut.
It's better to lower your head and meditate than to speak. When you are stuck, tell yourself to "take a step back and broaden your horizons"; When you are slandered, don't explain it, or it will make things worse. It is not a kind of wisdom, but a kind of frankness. But many people, who don't like honesty, love hypocrisy. What you have to do is not to change other people's point of view, but to change the way you speak, stick to it and keep quiet; Insisting on talking less and doing more is to achieve yourself.
Sometimes, talking to people means "talking to people, talking nonsense". Don't assume that everyone will accept your suggestion. Bad advice is good for action, and bad advice is not to be listened to.
There is nothing wrong with modesty, low-key as grass and ordinary as people. Although small, I feel very happy and don't need to look at other people's faces. If you want to be noble, you must always look at people's faces. Noble people may have more troubles.
One should learn to be quiet. Only when he is quiet can he hear his heartbeat, know his heart, know what he needs and give up. When there was a lot of noise, I lost my way and couldn't find my place.
Feng Menglong said, "Right and wrong are just for talking more, and troubles are all because of strength." The more prominent, the more envied, and then it becomes jealousy. The same is true of "shooting a bird in the head" Stand out from the crowd, sometimes it is not necessarily a good thing. Really successful people are very low-key, standing in the crowd, inconspicuous, just like everyone else. Only people who have no ability can "speak" and think they are great gods.
Gossip is not about people. To understand that "illness comes from the mouth, disaster comes from the mouth", you make irresponsible remarks, although you didn't spit it out quickly, but you offended people and planted a curse, but you were "triumphant".
People stop talking when they reach a certain age. It's not that they have nothing to say, but that they don't want to say it and don't need to say it. People don't understand you, and what they say is nonsense. People who know you will "get the message" with each other in a few words.
What to say and what not to say, you need to "think twice", don't be outspoken, and show your sincerity to everyone.
Sit still and think about yourself. Close your eyes, think nothing, do nothing, and put yourself out of the world. Slowly forget everything, the beauty of the past, the ugliness of the past; Forget all the troubles now, forget the troubles in the future.
When you learn to forget, you know how to control your inner world and control your temper. From now on, go your own way, don't care too much about other people's eyes, and don't care too much about achievements and glory. Go on according to your own principles and live a quiet and comfortable life.
God will not mistreat everyone who works hard, nor will he be kind to everyone who is lazy. A wise man never wins sympathy from others with tears, but wins applause from others with sweat.
All the achievements are the result of silent efforts. "One minute on stage, ten years off stage", while seeing others wonderful, we should also think more about the stories behind others, which may be "scarred".
Life is a stone in a stream. After repeated baptism of time and scouring by water, it became a round pebble. However, if you are too smooth, you are not yourself. Therefore, a man should know how to live within his means, but he should have a little edge.
Stand tall and see far; How quiet the heart is, how beautiful the world is. The so-called "quiet distance" is actually holding your breath and rushing forward non-stop. Then you will suddenly find that you have gone a long way, and the distance is beyond your imagination.
Sit still and think about yourself all the time. Gossip is not personal. By yourself, you will reduce disappointment; Don't talk, you will reduce trouble; Calm down and you will find yourself at the beginning; Slowly realize that you will hear a wonderful voice.
It is better to change than to complain.
Nine times out of ten people are unhappy in this life. Only by learning to accept the baptism of life, can they see the rainbow after the storm.
As the saying goes, a gentleman has no virtue to complain about himself, while a villain has complaints about others.
A real strong man never complains, because he knows that only he can make things better.
So, complain less, act more and change more.
Life, smile will win.
If you do nothing and say nothing, it is not only to leave room for others, but also to leave a retreat for yourself.
I remember hearing an old man tell such a story when I was a child.
In ancient times, there was a man who liked to talk crazy and nobody cared.
Really smart people all know the truth that "there is someone outside, there is a sky behind", so they speak modestly, keep a low profile and are not proud of their achievements.
This is the foundation of being a man and the best way to seek happiness for yourself.
What many people like to do most is to spread gossip everywhere, one to face and one behind, and to get the pleasure of life by slandering others.
But don't forget, sit still and think about yourself, not people.
Knowing how to respect others is the basic quality that a person should have.
When you are alive, you know how to protect the reputation of others, and you can also understand your own reputation.
He who sees through is not telling the truth, it is a kind of understanding and cultivation.
From now on, I hope you can talk well and be a really kind and humble smart person.