In contemporary society, the pace of people's life and work is accelerating, and psychological pressure and work pressure are increasing. The reinforced concrete jungle of high-rise buildings increases people's strangeness, and people need to talk with friends and confidants to solve their worries.
Nowadays, fair-weather friends abound, shout a cup! People who shout can come to a large group, and they will never be vague. They will talk nonsense, they will talk nonsense, they will be happy and they will be omnipotent. Speaking of serious things, key things, things that need help, there are only a few things that can be promised!
Therefore, you don't have to make more friends, but they will rot. Three or five confidants are enough. As long as you are willing to pay sincerity and treat each other sincerely, as long as the other person is not a villain, most of them can become bosom friends.
How can it be so difficult to have a bosom friend? Seeing this sentence, I remembered the sentence "It is rare to have a bosom friend in life". A bosom friend is hard to find. Throughout the ages, everyone wants to have a bosom friend.
Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups. The whole world can really find people who share the same interests, appreciate each other, understand each other and have the same topic, and so on. If you really understand, you will understand your life and your humanity. A thousand dollars is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find.
People often say that it is enough to have a bosom friend in life. It is conceivable that a bosom friend is really hard to meet. In my opinion, don't have it. If you can't get it, you will become a stranger and an enemy.
Most people often encounter setbacks and troubles in their lives. When they are extremely painful and sad, when they are most helpless, and when you are most vulnerable, they especially hope that someone can understand you, comfort you and hug you. The more I wake up at this time, the more I have to wake up. Nothing for nothing. If you don't get it, it will be counterproductive and you will be hurt twice. That kind of aggravated blow is heartbreaking.
Therefore, my point of view is that people should dust themselves off when they are most miserable, depressed, lonely, helpless and helpless, and don't have hope for anyone. How many bosom friends really understand you?
Seeking a confidant is like a pie in the sky. ...
Why is it so difficult to have a bosom friend? There is a saying like this: "A thousand glasses of wine are less, and half a sentence is more than a couple."
In other words, if you drink with a like-minded person, you won't feel too much to drink a thousand cups; There is no need to chat with a person with different views and opinions.
Some people say that a bosom friend is someone who knows you, understands you and tolerates you. Others say that a bosom friend is someone who loves you, loves you and likes you; I said that a confidant is a person who can shake his mind at any time; A person who dares to pour out all the beauty and embarrassment in his heart; A person who doesn't envy, laugh at or criticize your story.
A bosom friend is hard to find, but a bosom friend is hard to find. It's hard to know what people mean, what they say, what they know ... everyone is selfish. In this world, no one will be kind to another person for no reason, unless there are many attractive things in this person that can be appreciated by another person.
Boya and chef hippo can become bosom friends because Boya's piano music attracts chef hippo. Not only Boya plays the piano well, but also the chef Hippo has a good hearing. He can hear the meaning and artistic conception expressed by Boya piano music. After the death of chef Hippo, Boya lost her bosom friend, broke the piano and strings, and never played the piano again.
In this materialistic and impetuous era, what most people like to get close to is your bulging wallet and your beautiful appearance. There are very few people who really care about you, understand you, and want to go into your heart to understand you.
When we were teenagers, we didn't know what was sad, what was tired and what was unhappy. We laughed all day and said whatever we wanted. Smiling, I feel that anyone in this world can be a friend and a confidant.
Walking, I suddenly found that life has another meaning, and not everyone can walk into the heart. Even if you occasionally meet someone who can express his heart, he may not understand what you say and understand what you want to express.
What is a bosom friend? A confidant is a person who speaks at any time; A confidant is someone who doesn't doubt anything you say; A bosom friend is a person who can understand everything you say. A bosom friend is not a lover or a relative, but someone close to you. A bosom friend is not a husband and wife, nor a lover, but someone who loves you!
People's life, ups and downs, ups and downs, no one can live a flowing life; Walking in the dust, there are always troubles, sadness, frustration, melancholy and negative depression; When a person encounters setbacks or setbacks, he wants to find a channel to solve his troubles.
At this time, I am particularly eager to have someone to talk with me and loosen a button for my heart. However, I searched all the address books and didn't know who to say these words to. Who can you talk to at any time?
How many people in the world of mortals have paid for you without asking for anything in return? How many people can communicate with you heart to heart, heart to heart. If there is no loyalty between people, how can there be a desire to tell each other? This shows: "A thousand dollars is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find." Not surprising!