1. convince him to make up his mind
"Talent is getting less and less, and I have high ambitions in my life. Others have swords, and I have pens like knives. " ("The Poem of a Prodigy")
"The dynasty for Tian Shelang, dusk for the right hall. There are no seeds, and men should be self-reliant. " ("The Poem of a Prodigy")
The determination to strive for self-improvement emphasized in the poem still has enlightenment and reference significance for our teenagers today.
2. Encourage those who study hard.
"Night light even chicken, is a person reading a book. Black hair doesn't know how to study early, and Bai Shoufang regrets studying late. " (Yan Zhenqing's "Encouraging Learning" in Tang Dynasty)
"Mechanic such as ploughing, diligent and self-aware. But if you do more books, you will get old. " (Liu Guo Academy in Song Dynasty)
In other words, studying hard is like a farmer plowing, working a little and gaining a little.
Step 3 advise to cherish time
"Kwai is in the youth garden, and the morning dew is waiting for the sun. If the spring is not good, everything is brilliant; I am always afraid that when the cold autumn comes, the trees in Ye Er will turn yellow and the grass will wither. The river runs to the sea, and when will it return to the west? If you don't work hard, the boss will be sad. " ("Gu Yue Fu" poem "Long Songs")
"The prime of life will never come again, and it will be very uncomfortable to wake up in the morning. It is necessary to encourage in time, and time waits for no one. " (Poems by Tao Yuanming in Eastern Jin Dynasty)
4. Advise them to pay attention to learning methods.
"Reading in a hurry, swimming is interesting. If you don't know, you may wish to put it down and need to think urgently. " It is emphasized that reading must not be rushed, and it is important to "swim". (Lu Jiuyuan studied in the Song Dynasty)
"Reading is not much, as its meaning, unknown. If you learn more, you won't be able to learn. " (Han Yu's Persuasion Poetry)
Four important aspects of learning are put forward: reading more, thinking deeply, modesty and practice.