Of course, don't worry too much about this. First of all, being opinionated is a subjective opinion. Since you say that you want to accommodate others, accommodation means that you have wronged your own ideas and echoed others. This shows that you have your own ideas, which is called opinionated. How can you say that you have no opinion? Let's just say that you may be more concerned about other people's ideas, hesitant and unsure.
You can do it. When you meet something right or wrong, you must be absolutely right. For example, if you encounter something very important, something involving interests, or something involving success or failure, you can observe it first, and then put forward your own ideas for everyone to choose. Don't even say what you think. It's not good if you say it. Everyone is blind. If you put forward your own ideas, others may have the same accommodating ideas as you do now.
When you encounter something trivial, you can just give in, which is a big, informal and mature performance, and even you can refuse. When you break it, you will be constantly confused. This is your opinion.
Of course, being opinionated does not mean being subjective or impulsive. A really smart person has his mouth in his heart. Heroes always appear in times of crisis. Only those who make a splash at a critical moment can gain prestige. When you gain prestige, others will succumb to you, and naturally you will be confident and independent. Therefore, you should show your talent and excellence in time.
As a boy, you should be responsible and independent. Set yourself a goal! Wish you success!
Question 2: What if a person has no opinion? First of all, I want to ask you a few questions, and see your second question clearly: you are facing the test of life ~ if you don't do well in the exam, it will even lead to unhappiness in your life! The exam question is "1+ 1=?" A man next to you said it was equal to 3. Will you listen to him? Finally, a friend is your advisor, but definitely not your boss. You can only listen to their opinions, and the final decision is yours. You have seen whether the boss or the staff make the final decision on the battlefield! Even if you completely follow the advice of its staff. That is the result of your own judgment! It is good to value other people's opinions. But I know my own business. 1. Self-reliance and self-improvement: cultivate the courage and confidence of self-confidence, self-improvement and self-reliance, and cultivate the good quality of independent will in one's own personality. 2. Decide on trade-offs: Don't pursue perfection. "There is no shortage of gold, no one is perfect", and people can decide whether to choose on their own without violating the general principle. 3. Have courage and insight: Psychology believes that people's decision-making level is closely related to their knowledge and experience. The richer a person's knowledge and experience, the higher his decision-making level; On the contrary, the lower. This is what the saying goes, "Be courageous and knowledgeable, knowledgeable and brave." 4. Active thinking: "Everything has something to give, something to stand for, nothing to give, and something to waste." Always use your head at ordinary times, study hard and think more, which is the premise and foundation of having an opinion at a critical moment. 5. Calm down when things go wrong: excluding external interference and hints, stabilizing emotions, and careful analysis from the outside to the inside will also help to cultivate decisive will. If you can't make up your mind, just follow your sixth sense. No matter right or wrong, there is no need to regret success or failure. At least you tried.
Question 3: Why does a person have no opinion? Don't be confident, you are sad, your life is over, and it is not wonderful.
Question 4: Why do people have no opinions? What are the reasons why they don't study, work hard and have no goals?
Question 5: Why does a person have no opinion about life? People's opinions are distilled from life experiences. Young people are normal and have no opinions. If a person has experienced many things, learned painful lessons from past failures, solved problems by himself, and so on. When you grow up, you have your own opinions. But it will also lose a lot of original things. I hope this helps.
Question 6: Why are people indecisive, hesitant and passive? Because you have too little experience, too little experience, too little experience. If you have experienced something and know how to do it correctly, you won't be like this. I am a person with less experience, but my husband is a person with more experience. He has experienced many things since he was a child, so he knows how to deal with problems. I have never dealt with problems independently since I was a child. I do what my parents ask me to do, and generally I don't need to do it, so I have grown a lot.
Question 7: Why does a person have no opinion because you are too cautious and afraid that you will make mistakes when you make a decision, resulting in unacceptable consequences! !
In fact, life is ability and opportunity, and the opportunity is very simple, that is, the probability of 50-50 split, either good or dead! Sometimes, let yourself go and let God control you once, not necessarily the bad 50%, hehe!
Let go, only if you are bold and dare to keep trying, you will have more opportunities than the average person!
Of course, it's good to be cautious. If you don't mind, then leave the decision to others! In this way, you won't have unnecessary worries!
Question 8: People who have no opinions will hesitate. The so-called opinion actually refers to the ability to make decisions.
People have many abilities, including insight, analysis, judgment, planning, decision-making and execution.
Light can see the essence of the problem clearly and plan many good plans, but it is difficult to make the right decision.
There are many reasons for poor decision-making ability:
First, the ability of insight, analysis and judgment in the previous link is poor, there is no clear idea about what is happening, the goal is unclear, and there is no effective plan to implement the goal. Of course there is no judgment.
Second, the previous links were well done, but we could not weigh the pros and cons, so we hesitated.
Judging from what you said, it is mainly the first case, which is thoughtless, unplanned and unprepared for making decisions.
To change this, it is mainly to develop the purpose and planning of doing things by yourself.
First of all, you should have a clear purpose, such as inviting friends to dinner, in order to enhance the friendship between friends and leave a pleasant impression on everyone. To make this goal clear, you can plan it. For example, you should choose a restaurant that can create an intimate and pleasant atmosphere. It's best not to affect the conversation in private rooms, and the grade should be appropriate, so as not to be restrained by poor friends or despised by rich friends. It is best to have a place where everyone knows the traffic, so that everyone can be happy. If it is a reunion of old classmates for many years, I will choose a nostalgic place and hang my graduation photo. You can't make an appointment until you have planned all this.
You also have the second situation, such as buying clothes. You hesitate, not necessarily because you have no aesthetic vision, but because you hesitate between the price and the real value, wondering whether this dress is better than that one.
To overcome the problem of indecision, first of all, you need to simplify many problems. For example, if you like a dress, you can make a decision as long as the price is acceptable and the style is not too weird. Second, you need to overcome perfectionism. You have to buy more beautiful and cheaper clothes, not the cheapest and most beautiful clothes in the world, and you can almost buy them. After buying it, you will only look at the advantages, not the disadvantages, and you will become more confident and independent.
Question 9: Why people have no opinions and are easily dependent on others is related to their growing environment and personality.
And personality sometimes changes, such as what changes.
But sometimes it's not all bad.
Some men will like a woman with a strong sense of dependence, but not too strong.
Question 10: How can people learn to have their own opinions? Why don't people have their own opinions? Because they have no self-confidence, because they may not know much, or they are inferior to others in some aspects, and they have no bottom in their hearts, so they don't know how to deal with it correctly. This is normal. People always seem to hesitate about things they are not familiar with and good at. This is human nature. You are not sure about your future, and you feel uncertain, right? Or afraid of making mistakes, failure and falling, so I'd rather refer to others and let them decide everything, because it's at least "safe". However, if this is the case, the less confident you are, the less you have the courage to be independent. How can I dominate my life? You have to go by yourself. Many things need to be decided by yourself. We will learn a word from childhood, go our own way and let others say it, but how many of us can do it? Go your own way, even if you lose and it hurts, at least you will know where you are wrong. Next time, you won't lose or hurt. Follow others and let them decide. This is safe and certain. Even if it is wrong, it can be said that it is not your own fault. However, is this life your own? Is this your own life?
People are your own from birth. Your destiny should be dominated by yourself. You should have lived high, not a puppet on the stage. No one has never missed it, no one is always right, and no one has never had the experience of relying on others, but people must learn to give themselves the courage to be independent after all.
There are always many possibilities in our life. We should learn not to be afraid. What we can face is trying to give ourselves the courage to try. It doesn't matter if you are wrong. Believe in yourself and make decisions that are not necessarily inferior to others. If you can't try, how do you know you are doing the right thing? When facing a problem, you can ask others' opinions and listen to their suggestions. However, when making a decision, you should make your own decision. This is the problem you face and the decision you must make. What others say is reference, not decision. Don't let other people's opinions imprison your voice and life. Maybe your decision is consistent with other people's opinions and suggestions, and please don't doubt whether you are okay, because the problem is one and the solutions are limited. Sometimes your opinion will be the same as others', but it must be from the heart, and so do you.
We are all the same. Why don't we believe in ourselves? Why deny yourself? There is no reason not to believe in yourself. Even if we fail, what can we do? Not everyone is born to walk, run and talk. Give yourself more confidence. As long as you think that's right, stick to it, stick to it and do your best. Don't think that you have no idea. We may just lose a little confidence and try to make some decisions. When your decision becomes more and more correct, you will not be influenced by other people's opinions, or even influence others.
There is no natural self-confidence, only self-confidence that is constantly cultivated.
In life, people who seek their own model may not always succeed, but if you are always attached to other people's opinions and have no independent opinions and ideas, you will be even less likely to succeed; It is wisest to let nature take its course and fully develop your own opinions. Don't think anything is possible, anything is possible. Don't lose heart just because we can't do something. Just because we lost confidence, we lost the confidence we deserved. We can't control ourselves, so some things are more difficult to do.
The most precious thing for us is independence. Be able to live according to your own ideas, live for dreams and live for happiness. In countless choices, we just choose a path and choose how to dominate our life and destiny. Everything is right and wrong. No matter what choices we make, we will meet new choices again in the near future, and life will move towards one choice after another in repeated choices, even including how you can choose to die in the end.
It's just that any different choice is the master of your own life.