This poem euphemistically expresses his attitude and is obviously a typical love poem. However, in the traditional Confucian classic environment, many people like to interpret the so-called love poems as political allegories. In fact, this is because China has always had the habit of expressing political relations through love poems or love poems in ancient times. This kind of "love poem" has nothing to do with "love", but Zhang Ji's "ode to women?" Send Dongping Li Shidao. "
Original poem:
Female Fu, Message to Dongping Li Weishi Tang: Zhang Ji
You know I have a husband and you want to give me a pair of pearls.
I thank you for your love and pin the pearl on my red shirt.
My home is connected with the imperial garden, and my husband is on duty in the palace with a halberd.
Although I know you are sincere to Lang Lang, I have vowed to share my life and death with my husband.
Return your double beads, my eyes are full of tears, and I regret not meeting you before I got married.
Explanation:
You know I have a husband, but you still want to give me a pair of pearls.
I thank you for your affection for me and for tying pearls on my red shirt.
My tall building is connected to the Royal Garden, and my husband is on duty in the palace with a halberd.
Although I know you are sincere and open-minded, I have vowed to live and die with my husband.
I cried when I returned your double beads. I regret not meeting you before I got married.
Extended data:
The superficial meaning of this poem is actually a rational, well-founded and restrained refusal to pursue extramarital affairs. The poem begins with "You know my concubine has a husband, give me two pearls", which means that you know I have a husband and still want to give me a pair of night pearls. It's not that I don't know the intention behind this precious gift and this pearl, so "your husband's lingering feelings are tied to the red Luo." I appreciate your lingering feelings in my heart, so I tied the pearls you gave me on my red sweater.
But don't think that means I accept your feelings. "I have a tall building, and my lover holds a halberd in the light." The person I love and the family I married are actually very background, so you may not be able to afford it. My tall building is connected with the royal garden, and "Lotus Garden Seven" is connected with the royal garden.
Why is this happening? It's because my lover, my husband, is what women used to call her husband. The so-called "lover is in Wan Li", but the use of "lover" in The Book of Songs is more common. So "my wife holds a halberd in the strong light" is her husband's identity. My husband is on duty in the palace with a halberd. "Mingguang" is the "Mingguang Temple" in the Han Dynasty, which refers to the imperial palace here. In this way, the identity and status of husband and in-laws are self-evident.
The Tang Dynasty paid attention to family background and gentry background. As we talk about Mrs. Guo's arrogance, most people think that she is so arrogant because she is her sister. It is very important that she is the daughter-in-law of the Pei family in Hedong. As the "five families and seven surnames" in the Tang Dynasty, the Pei family in Hedong has great influence, and its family background is the real reason why Mrs. Guo is unscrupulous.
So you think she is sexually puffed up, but in fact she has a deep background. Sometimes it is very effective and useful to explain the family background, especially the relationship with the royal family in the Tang Dynasty.
So although the suitor of this extramarital affair may be a little pretentious, my husband's family background is beyond your imagination, so there is a subtext that my husband and I have not been humiliated and violated by your position and strength, so it is a very direct refusal and counterattack.
However, after all, others gave you a pair of night pearls. Although there may be ulterior motives behind this kind of goodwill, it is still kind on the surface.
Therefore, the poet immediately began to slow down his tone after the counterattack and hard tone of "My concubine rises from a tall building, and my lover holds a halberd in the light", and then analyzed it with reasonable and well-founded rational language: "Intimacy is like the sun and the moon, and my husband vows to live and die together."
In other words, I know that you have a kind pursuit heart. The "heart is like the sun and the moon" here is to affirm each other's motivation and pursuit of purpose. At least on the surface, I know that your love for me is aboveboard, and there is nothing unbearable. This rational judgment is actually a very good comfort to the other party.
But there is another side to this rational judgment. Besides knowing that your heart is like the sun and the moon, as for my heart, you should know that my husband vows to live and die together. Although I know that you are sincerely pursuing me, unfortunately, my lover and I-also my husband-made a wish for life and death. Suffering in this life and * * *, life and death and * * *, the so-called "married, life and death can not be moved."
You know, this is my intention like the sun and the moon, just like you pursue my intention like the sun and the moon. This is a rational message, telling each other that both sides are aboveboard intentions and aboveboard love. It not only affirmed the suitor, but also affirmed his aboveboard love for her husband, so this analysis is really full of rational brilliance.
However, after rational analysis, the result is rejection. Therefore, after resolutely refusing, after rational analysis, in order to appease the other party's broken heart, the poet finally had to tell a touching love story. This sentence comes from the famous sentence of the ages-"I will return your pearls with tears, and I will not hate you if I am not married."
This is to completely appease each other and vaguely express a feeling of "throw me a peach and reward me with a jade". However, I accidentally wrote it with deep affection and sadness, and it became a famous saying and an everlasting regret. The poet said that it is impossible for you and me now, so I want to return the pair of night pearls you gave me.
I can't help crying when I think of the impossible feelings between you and me. I have a million regrets in my heart, except that I didn't meet you before I got married. When you say this, it has an endless aftertaste. So even if the suitor is rejected, even if the infatuation cannot be realized, he will be willing to pay for this infatuation. from
This suitor can only say "I hate not meeting and not getting married" over and over again, but can't lose his mind and take risks.
Take a look at these three rejection songs. From the suggestion, counterattack and well-deserved rejection of "My concubine is tall in the garden and my lover holds a halberd in the open", it is well-founded and well-founded. The rational analysis of "knowing each other is like the sun and the moon, and the husband vows to live and die together" affirms the aboveboard pursuit of the other party and shows his aboveboard persistence.
In addition to this rational analysis, it is not enough. In the end, the emotional comfort of "returning tears and wishing we could not meet before marriage" directly hit the softest space in everyone's heart. It not only affects the soul, but also eliminates contradictions and makes all crises disappear, which is simply the highest art of saying "no" and refusing.
Baidu Encyclopedia-Women's Day Poems to Dongping Li.