Both freedom and love are what I want. If I have to choose one, then I choose freedom. Love is actually not a necessity in life. I remember a sentence in a book that said: You want to fall in love? If you want to be single, go be in love. If you want to be single, go be single. Anyway, you will all regret it in the end. So I can also guess that if I choose to be single for freedom, then a few years later I may yearn for the family happiness of other people. These two things There is no fixed result. It can be said that no matter what choice you make, you will regret it. The importance of choice
So since we all regret it, we might as well choose the part we want to choose. For example, if I want to fall in love, then I will choose to fall in love, although I know that maybe I will not be happy. Throughout my life, I may be troubled by love and worried about my family, but as long as I am happy for a moment after making the choice, then it is worth my while to make this choice, and so is freedom. I don’t care about the results decades later, I just want to be happy. Care about every minute and every second you live now, that's enough.
I believe that freedom is the answer to liberating the soul. If a person is confused, it is better to break away from social relationships and become a free person. In this way, there will be a lot of space left for oneself. In fact, I am a withdrawn person myself, and I don’t like busy social interactions. For me, my life never lives for anyone, I only live for my own happiness.
There is a poem in "A Dream of Red Mansions": The humble room was empty, but the bed was full of wats... The box was full of gold, the box was full of silver, and in a blink of an eye, beggars were slandered by everyone, sighing that others would not live long. Knowing that I have returned and mourning? Although this poem is very short, it is enough to show the joys and sorrows of life. In fact, life is impermanent. If you blindly pursue what you want, you may suddenly find that what you want has already been I got it, but I didn't cherish it, so I think freedom is the most precious. I have freedom now and will always love freedom.