This door retains our last fantasy in the smoke and the last gentleness in the cold rain.
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Perhaps, friends are like this, and there is always a door that is difficult to open in the middle. Whether it's a bowl of liquor, life or death, or insincere brotherhood, we are just arcs A on different tracks. There are many ups and downs, but we can never be perfectly integrated with any one.
A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the ancients have long known that there is an insurmountable last barrier between friends. So people always try to hide themselves, carefully adjust each other's distance, and carefully modify the smile on their faces. In this digital age, friendship seems to need to be calculated repeatedly like an equation. No wonder some people say that making friends is too tiring.
True friendship depends on feelings. No matter how far away from Wan Li or close at hand, you can feel each other's "heartbeat" with empathy. Doors exist, but what are the disadvantages? A woodcutter and a pianist, different classes and different roles, can still play eternal mountains and rivers.
If friendship is silent, can the beautiful nightingale break this silence? False friendship, if the sea wind blows gently and the waves are silent, it will disappear. However, sincere feelings can burn eternal memories in the depths of the soul, and even in the bleak night, they will be integrated into the singing of the stars with the most beautiful rhythm.
We don't need to deliberately keep a distance and calculate the scale. As long as friendship is dull, it can radiate the most touching brilliance. Let's not break that door. A true confidant can understand each other's thoughts even through the door. Isn't this unconscious induction more indescribable than taking in everything in a glance in broad daylight?
That door is a hazy figure under the umbrella of Xiaohong in the misty rain, and the eyes are looming in the dim candlelight. We may never see its true face clearly, but it is this door that keeps our last fantasy in the smoke and the last warmth in the cold rain.
Perhaps, friends are like this, sitting on both sides of a door, each with its own life and world. It is this seemingly indifferent door that conveys the most precious friendship, gives us comfort on this side of life and gives us hope on the other side. Perhaps, friends are like this.
Friend, did you find it?
"Isn't it a pleasure to have friends coming from afar?" A bosom friend, this life is enough.
Playing rough friends in childhood adds a lot of fun to your life; Friends in the process of learning make you take fewer detours on the road of learning; Close friends at work make your day sunny. When you are sad, she will try her best to make you happy; When you are happy, she will silently bless you and share your happiness with you. This is a friend.
There are many hardships on the road of life. There is a little wear and tear here, and a hole is scraped here. Great winds and waves will always follow. Without the silent support and encouragement of friends, it is impossible to complete this difficult journey alone. A friend is an object to whom you can talk about your pain, and a friend is a harbor where you can have a short rest, where you can be free, open your heart and show your integrity.
No one doesn't need friends, and no one doesn't have friends unless he is self-enclosed and isolated from the world. Li Bai put it well: "Peach Blossom Pond is deeper in thousands of feet than in Wang Lun." Received such sincere hospitality from friends, although there are not 10,000 hotels, everyone is drunk without wine. What should I say to my friend's yearning for nothing?
A "friend" communicates the long-lost line between people; The voice of a "friend" blends the hearts of people all over the world, and the whole Chinese nation is thriving because of the voice of a "friend".
In the song "Friends", it is sung that there are many friends and the road is easy. The spiritual line between friends is like a huge net, covering the land of the motherland. Although they are thousands of miles apart, their hearts are still connected.
I won't give up my friend because of a mistake. I believe you won't, and neither will she. People are honest and relative, and there is no absolute right or wrong. You will forgive your friends, and your friends will forgive you. No one can understand the tacit understanding between them.
Friends are the sky, they are the stars. The sky contains all the stars, and the stars decorate the sky, making the starry sky more beautiful and the stars more dazzling.
A friend is a tree and he is a bird. Trees provide shelter for birds and protect them from the sun and rain; Birds bring more life to trees. The chirping sound and the brisk figure swaying among the leaves are so charming.
Friend, friend, I am destined to be without you, and you will be my life partner, I am sure.
Close to the blue room, far from the boss.
What is a friend? Guan Bao is a friend, a fair-weather friend is a friend, an eight-worship friend is a friend, an evil friend is a friend, a friend of life and death is a friend, a friend of General Cape is a friend, a friend of mountains and rivers is a friend, and a friend is also a friend. As the ancients said, making friends with good people is like entering Lan Zhi's home and staying in Mika for a long time; Walking with the wicked is like entering the abalone house, which stinks for a long time. It is a fact that people near Zhu Zhechi are black.
Intimate friends are humble and outspoken friends, friends who forget their righteousness when they meet, and friends who share weal and woe. However, "China holds our friendship, and heaven remains our neighbourhood" is a friend, "Chunshu in Weibei, Twilight in Jiangdong" is a friend, "Peach Blossom Lake is deeper than thousands of feet, not as deep as Wang Lunshen" is a friend, "Luoyang relatives and friends are like asking each other, a piece of ice heart is in the jade pot" is a friend, "Black wind blows rain and blows cold window" is a friend, and "* * * you are drunk." Yes, friends are always by your side. Friends, indeed as expected "universally applicable".
Zhuangzi. "Mountain Wood" has a cloud: the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as good as ever. This statement is very good. Today's whirling world is a mixture of dragons and snakes. A fledgling person who has never crossed the sea will inevitably be indiscriminate and will be commensurate with his brother in a few words. So in a few days, it was "like eating abalone and stinking for a long time." As a result, encountering unexpected troubles is like taking chestnuts from the fire without knowing it, being used by people, and even though they don't want to, they become drunken lambs and just eat their navel. Alas!
Naturally, some people are conscientious, careful and always concerned. They are far from their own voices, away from their own lackeys, close to their own lofty mountains, and worthy of the humble people. In the end, they were strengthened because of their height, and they were subtly influenced by their ears, becoming "no shoes, no crowns for Lee".
So philosophers warned: Be careful when making friends. There must be no harm, but there must be no prevention. As the saying goes, "it is difficult to draw a tiger's skin, but people know its face but not its heart." We can't judge his quality by his appearance. He also said that "Ma Quan knows far, and people have seen it for a long time." Only by getting along with each other for many days can we break its quality. If you find that your friend is a fox dog, you must pull back from the cliff and wake up in time. Otherwise, "a blind man riding a blind horse will find it difficult to ride a tiger in the middle of the night". If you make another mistake, it will be "small steps and quick steps"!
You should think it over.
friend
Friend, what a familiar and lovely word it is. Friendship is abstract and implicit, while friends are concrete and real. Because we have friends, we feel the joy of growing up; Because of friends, we have the madness of youth; We have an open mind because of our friends.
Friend, what a sincere person! People can't grow without their parents and elders, but they can't grow without their friends. It is an alternative kind of warm care outside the home, and it is the most vivid color to decorate life. Ah, my friend, how many times have I seen you emerge in Engels' life? You taught him Marx's thoughts and made world capitalism brilliant. Ah, my friend, how many times have I seen you in Du Fu's and Li Bai's dreams, so that the poets of the last century wrote so many immortal poems for a generation of poets, leaving an immortal legacy for China's poems. Ah, my friend, how many times have I seen your soul in Boya's piano, which makes it difficult for two very different people to say a word. Ah, my friend ...
A friend is a clear spring in the desert, which brings you not only thirst quenching, but also sweetness and coolness. A friend is a breeze in the hot summer, which brings you refreshment and comfort. A friend is a piece of charcoal on a cold winter night, which makes you feel a warm heart; Friends are eternal street lamps, which illuminate your way forward and guide your direction. ...
Once upon a time, there was a story that two candidates who went to Beijing to take the exam became friends on the way and booked a three-year visit to the Li family. Three years later, the Li family set off for a day, waiting for another fan, but Fan arrived late. Mother Li said that after three years, people may have forgotten. However, Li thought his friend must be late and asked the slave to go to the village entrance. Sure enough, Fan was robbed as soon as he went out, but he kept his oath and ran all the way to the Li family. Friends are very excited when they meet. Mother Li also burst into tears and said, "My son has such a friend, what else can he ask?" Friend, what a great and immortal word!