Be a rational and emotional woman
Be a rational and emotional woman. Having a reading habit has many benefits for us personally. Through By understanding the content of some articles, we can also feel the emotions and ideas the author wants to express. Let's be a woman who is both rational and emotional. Be a woman who is both rational and emotional 1
Women who are too emotional usually have the innocence and charm of women. They are sentimental, but also gentle and affectionate. They always just watch in the atmosphere of sweet dreams. Seeing the superficial color of life, looking down on everything for the sake of feelings, giving everything, leaving scars on oneself, makes oneself more vulnerable to harm.
A woman who is too rational seems to be a little cold and lacks femininity, which not only makes people feel intimidating, but also makes men feel embarrassed in front of her. In fact, they usually live very depressed lives themselves.
However, some women can reasonably coordinate their emotional and rational sides, learn to live a poetic life in the old-fashioned life, and know how to be calm and self-controlled in illusory love and ethereal love. Don't lose your mind, don't lose yourself. An outstanding woman knows how to express rationality and sensibility just right, knows who to be rational to and who to be sensual to, and will not jeopardize her life.
A smart woman knows how to blend rationality and sensibility. When she is rational, she will surprise people with a little sensibility, and when she is emotional, she will be a little rational and people will respect her.
However, most of the women around me seem to be more emotional and far from rational. Being too emotional can lead to pretentiousness, vulnerability, and boredom. Women can be romantic, but they must learn to use realistic rationality to choose their own direction. Not only can they be relaxed and relaxed, but at least they cannot worry about gains and losses.
We cannot make life too idealistic. Many things are divorced from reality and have no foundation to speak of. Obviously, they cannot last for a long time. An overly emotional woman will not be able to express her feelings. You may have to be alone on the road. No one is willing to dance with you. Even though they know that you are an affectionate woman, they will stay away from the ties that your sensibility brings to him. There is a saying that goes well: Since ancient times, deep love cannot be retained, only tricks can win people's hearts! What I want to say may be to advise women to be emotional and rational, and to be a bright woman.
But many women still think that love is too beautiful. They always believe that there will always be a 100% perfect lover, holding a red rose in hand, standing at the turning point of fate, waiting. Feng'er was also like this. What I thought, now that I think about it, is really childish and ridiculous. In the end, ordinary you and me can either face the desertedness of a room when we are gray-haired, or face the great disappointment after the perfect passion of love is shattered under the temper of time. A marriage without perfect love can be very happy. Feng'er believes that the poetic life you want can completely depend on your choice of the way you live.
Time is beautiful. It is so pleasant to sip tea at the window lattice and read two or three pages of a book in your free time. In the dusk afternoon, I carefully cook a sumptuous dinner for my family. When the spring flowers bloom, I take a stroll among On the boulevard, feel the beauty brought by nature... The gentle breeze in spring caresses your face gently, and you can't help yourself.
So no matter what our situation, we should maintain the poetry in our hearts, but we must not forget rationality. Only when poetry and rationality are combined can our lives shine brighter. Feng'er hopes that she can also be rational and emotional, and be a woman like Feng... a woman who is both rational and emotional 2
Between rational and emotional women, who can achieve happiness more? ?
Xiaoting, who we once called a tomboy, entered the marriage hall for the second time. Xiaoting's ex-husband had another woman outside because she was infertile. At that time, her ex-husband had no plans to divorce. As he said, he just wanted to have a child and promised not to wrong Xiaoting. Xiaoting didn't make a fuss after learning about her ex-husband's cheating, but she was very rational and insisted on divorce because she didn't want her love to be humbled into dust.
Although Xiaoting’s ex-husband promised not to wrong her, Xiaoting sticks to her bottom line. Such a woman is confident and respected. A person who truly loves you will give you a noble life and will never wrong you because of other factors.
"Sense and Sensibility" are two sisters written by the British female writer Austen. They are female representatives of reason and sensibility. The younger sister in the story questions her elder sister's restraint and even tries to Contempt, my elder sister always dislikes my younger sister for being too naive. They also treat love differently. The sister's rationality and understanding finally won her beloved man back. The younger sister, who has never been involved in the world, has encountered unkind people. After being broken up in love, the younger sister finally wakes up and can finally identify the virtues that have been covered with dust, and finally obtains happiness.
If you want to be a happier woman, there is nothing better than being androgynous, integrating rationality and sensibility, becoming a warm but wise woman, and better controlling your own reason and emotions. , harvest your own happy life.
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Be a happy woman with a perfect blend of sensibility and rationality
In life, the women we see are either too emotional, or too rational, or too emotional Women who are too rational tend to be emotional, and women who are too rational appear as indifferent as ice. Only by being a woman who perfectly combines rationality and sensibility can you grasp your own happiness.
Lin Weiyin, a talented woman of the Republic of China, is a beautiful and wise woman. She not only has the romance and spirituality of a poet, but also has the rationality and rigorous and pragmatic temperament of an architect, with an undercurrent of rational talent and passion. Her heart became one, and she was in harmony with each other. Emotionally, Lin Huiyin was still able to balance rationality and sensibility with ease.
Lin Huiyin had a friendship with Xu Zhimo when she was a girl. Xu Zhimo's Love is unrestrained and passionate. He expressed his love to her with the passion of a poet. His love was expressed vigorously, like a waterfall pouring down instantly. When the talented Xu Zhimo came to her and offered her a moving poem, Lin Huiyin was also moved by it.
However, Lin Weiyin did not choose Xu Zhimo in the end, but married Liang Sicheng. Lin Huiyin made the right choice. Lin Weiyin and Liang Sicheng not only have a foundation of love, but also have common interests and professional interests. They are like-minded and ideal partners.
Liang Sicheng's love is not as passionate and wild as Xu Zhimo's, but it is like a trickle, slow but long. The boldness and passion of the waterfall will eventually return to calm, quiet lake water, trickling water. The stream is always there to stare at. Lin Huiyin's emotional and romantic cells are still active with rationality. He chose Liang Sicheng, who is quiet and far-reaching. He has never experienced ups and downs because of love in his life. Choosing Liang Sicheng also contributed to her brilliant career.
If Jin Yuelin never married because of her, it is not Lin Weiyin’s fault. Jin Yuelin's deep love for her was not something she could stop. When Jin Yuelin lived in the woods, decades after her death, he still remained infatuated with her and never married her, even at the age of 80. Even when his memory declined significantly, he still kept thinking about her. If Lin Huiyin had coldly rejected Jin Yuelin's infatuation, not only would it not be love, but it would be ruthless destruction. To treat a person's deep affection, sometimes what is needed is not rational enlightenment, but emotional tolerance and consideration.
Jin Yuelin was compassionate towards Lin Huiyin because he understood her. He missed the beauty's liveliness, talent, and eloquence. He was also considerate of her life's twists and turns, aging and illness. However, Jin Yuelin finally did not fall in love with Lin Huiyin. Lin Weiyin understood him and cherished him, because she could maintain rational restraint and maintain the stability and dignity of the family. While she gained the respect of Liang Sicheng and Jin Yuelin, she also understood and admired by the world.
The light of reason and sensibility complement each other in Lin Huiyin. As an architect, she has a scientific mind and emotional torrent that she usually does not possess. She understands amorous feelings, her talents are quick and ethereal, and her emotions are rich and profound. As a poet, she is not as emotional and messy as ordinary female writers. She is calm-minded and knows how to weigh the pros and cons when encountering problems.
Lin Huiyin is detached. His rationality helps her get rid of the limitations of women's vision for thousands of years. She can look at the world and absorb the essence of human civilization with her smart mind. Although Lin Huiyin is outstanding, she is She is gentle and not aggressive. She is considerate, understanding and respectful towards people. In this regard, the word "empathetic" is a perfect word to describe her.
Lin Weiyin is a woman who can freely combine sensibility and rationality. A celebrity once said this: "Men don't need women with depth, they only need women with curvature. Women must be emotional. If they are not emotional, they must be rational. If they are not rational, they must be self-aware. If If you don’t have any of them, that would be very unfortunate...”
Neither too emotional nor too rational is perfect. Only when sensibility and rationality complement each other can a woman be full, harmonious, vivid and real.