There are different opinions about the origin of this song. One said it was an Indian couple. After his wife died, the husband wanted to commit suicide. While sorting out the drawers, he found something written by his wife. After reading it, he stopped committing suicide. Second, it was written by Mary Elizabeth Frye (1905-2004), a housewife in Baltimore, Maryland, USA, in 1932, for the death of her cohabiting friend Mrs. Schwartz's mother. Since the poem itself has no name, most people name it after its first sentence "Don't stand at my grave and cry".
1995, a young man in England died under the attack of Irish peace forces. He wrote a letter to his parents before he died, asking them to open it after he died. There is this poem in the letter, which has been widely echoed by the media. In 200 1 year, after the 9 1 1 terrorist attacks in the United States, at a memorial service, 1 year-old 1 girl recited this poem at the meeting, expressing her gratitude to her father who died in the 9 1 1 incident.