Koi Life: Live like an adult, live like a child

In the middle of the night, my son developed a fever and I got up to give him medicine. The child is so sensitive, he can feel all the changes, this is his own way of expression.

How can I tolerate such an innocent child?

I hope that I can accompany my children to grow up in their world with the same innocent feelings and keep pace with them. There, there is no restraint and freedom, you can talk to the stars, pick one and hang it on your chest to shine. You can also sit on the colorful clouds, floating here and there, pick a cloud and throw it in your mouth. It is soft, sweet and glutinous, as if it is nothing but the whole world. In a child's world, the dull clouds will tell us the direction. The unpredictable clouds enrich the imagination of life.

Only by truly loving life can you live a wonderful life. Koi life requires hard work and hard work. Survive like an adult and have enough food and clothing, but at the same time be innocent and fearless and love bravely like a child.

A character suddenly comes to mind, Huang Yongyu.

I remember that readers of Dong Qing interviewed him in one issue. At the age of 94, he is still thinking sharply, like an old naughty boy, full of understanding and wisdom about life. Dong Qing said that it was a rare outdoor shooting for readers. Flying to the ancient city of Fenghuang, the old naughty boy beside the lotus pond was full of witty words and brilliant pens.

The old man's living room is called "Laozi Ju". There is a story: Huang Lao lived in Quanzhou, Fujian Province when he was young. There was a temple nearby with many magnolias in the temple. One time he couldn't help but climb up. Shu Shu went to pick magnolia flowers, and an old monk saw him and told him to come down. Huang Yongyu didn't know at first that this old monk was Master Hongyi. When talking to the master, he kept saying "Laozi". Later, it became a joke, and "Laoziju" got its name.

The child-like mischief comes out vividly on the page, I love it so much. The reader's interview is very warm and wise, as pure as a child. The old man said that when he was a child, he was known as "a yellow truant", which shows that he was naughty. The old man said that he wandered freely between heaven and earth, carrying a book, a wood carving knife and a wooden board. "Look at this kid, he's wandering around with a book!". The old man said that he would scatter his ashes after a hundred years and look at the sky and the clouds when he misses him. This is access to life.

The little man in his arms snorted and began to sweat. His forehead was not as hot as before and he would recover soon. Mom is looking forward to it.

The child's happiness is really simple. I pretend to sneeze, and he can laugh so much that the whole room is filled with joy. The laughter is so pure and continuous. The world of children is the most straightforward and natural, making the world simple, soft and light.

We often praise a person's simplicity, softness and fearlessness with his "innocent heart". I always thought that I had an "innocent heart", but it turns out that I am not. I just hope that I am, because such a person can endure no matter what hardships he encounters in life, and he can naturally be brave and fearless with a pure heart.

Where should the child live: a cabin by the lake, with green grass on the hillside behind the house, carefree. Walden Pond-style slow life, minimalist perfection. But that's just imagination. I don't have the ability to make it happen.

So I have always preferred Gu Cheng because of his childishness and because he fits my imagination of fairy tales. Putting aside his absurd personal experience, his "I Am a Wayward Child" constructs a fresh and fluent fairy tale world, using the language of poetry to break the constraints and achieve spiritual freedom. He wrote that animals and plants in nature have a quiet and contented nature of life. Read it a thousand times and never get tired of it.

The most beautiful feeling is having a child sleeping quietly in your arms.