Wu Yishu, a talented woman blurted out at the poetry conference, probably began to learn ancient poetry at the age of three or four.
Learning at this age doesn't mean you have to cover everything, you have to learn the meaning of words. It is the subtle influence of "reading a book a hundred times to read its meaning".
Take my own children as an example. He is over four years old now, and he can recite the full texts of San Zi Jing, Di Zi Gui, Qian Zi Wen, Da Xue, The Doctrine of the Mean, Li Weng's Duyun, and dozens of poems of Tang and Song Dynasties.
Before, I would have thought this child was so powerful. But now I don't think so, because I don't think I deprived my child of a happy childhood by having him endorse. On the contrary, when he blurted out four-character idioms and ancient poems in his life, he felt particularly happy.
Once reading becomes a habit, children will enjoy it, just like eating and sleeping every day, and feel no pain at all.
A fourth-grade child of my colleague's family is addicted to books, and he has to read that book when he goes to the toilet. Because he likes it.
Yuan Yuan, a super speaker, said: I especially like holidays, because it gives me time to secretly surpass others.
Reading may not make our children successful in their careers, but at least it will give our children the capital to choose their favorite careers when they grow up!
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Why recite ancient poems = unhappy?
Whether children have a happy childhood depends on parents' expectations and educational methods. When our child can't talk, I can only coax her to sing nursery rhymes while sleeping. When I can't sing, I will recite Tang poems for her, and I really can't recite the final multiplication formula.
When she was one or two years old, she naturally knew all the Tang poems I often recited, including more than a dozen. That is, when I walk with nothing to say, I recite poems. If she is happy, she will carry it with me, but if she is unhappy, she will not be forced. In this process, I found that what she likes is the sense of rhythm in ancient poetry. Although I explained the meaning of ancient poetry to her, she still didn't understand. When she talks to herself, she often tries to rhyme every sentence, which makes me feel very interesting. In fact, the beauty of ancient poetry lies in rhythm, but in artistic conception. It is too early for a child to understand the artistic conception, but now she can feel the beauty of rhythm. This is a kind of edification. When she grows up, there will always be a moment when her heart rises when she sees a certain scene. It turns out that "the desert is lonely and the long river sets the yen" is so shocking! Only then can we have our own experience of the artistic conception of ancient poetry.
One day, our girl recited a poem that I didn't know myself. I was very surprised and asked her baby, who taught you this poem? It turned out that when she watched Qiao Hu's CD, there were ancient poems in it, so she remembered them. I am very happy. Watching the disc by yourself will be memorized, indicating that the child at least does not reject ancient poetry. There are also a series of ancient poetry animations by China Choir. At the age of three, she also likes the programs that she must watch before going to bed every night. Unfortunately, it's not much. It'll be over soon.
If parents regard reciting ancient poems as a task that children must complete every day, otherwise, children and parents will not be happy. Then let me ask you, what is the purpose of your child reciting ancient poems?
Learning ancient poems does not conflict with a happy childhood.
Three-year-old children just start kindergarten, and they will start learning things by themselves. Parents can also do some enlightenment at home.
1. First, learn to take care of yourself.
It is basic to eat by yourself and go to the toilet. Only when these things are done well can they be more suitable for kindergartens. I have also seen some children in small classes in kindergartens, who usually let their parents send them when they pee their pants. Think about it, he was doing it alone before his parents went, and he should be a little uneasy.
2. Learning something can make you happier.
Children over three years old are curious about everything. Parents should give appropriate guidance, listen to some ancient poems with their children, and cooperate with parent-child games, so that children will be very happy.
In fact, what every child needs is companionship. They will feel happy as long as their parents are with them. The companionship of parents is the most important thing. Wouldn't it be better if they could learn something by the way?
Children of this age, even if they can recite some ancient poems, will forget them if they don't strengthen their memory. I seem to have forgotten all the nursery rhymes that children learned in kindergarten. It doesn't matter. She is happy in the process of learning, which is enough.
I think parents presuppose a position on this issue, and learning ancient poetry is an unhappy thing. When parents already feel that learning is very hard and don't want their children to suffer out of love for them, how can they hope their children to learn? How can we make children fall in love with school?
Whether to learn ancient poetry or not and whether children are happy or not are two things. At the same time, through combination, one thing can be done, so that children can learn in happiness and realize that learning is an interesting thing.
It's important for parents to learn ancient poems in happiness;
1. Know your child's age. The 3-year-old baby is still in the enlightenment stage, and his concentration time is limited. Learning should be carried out in the form of games. You can play ancient poems for your child, whether he listens attentively or studies hard. Repetitive sounds will enter the child's brain, and you will naturally learn.
3. Children should avoid preaching and coercion in the learning process. Parents are children's first teachers, and some parents become the first "killers" when they are not careful, which stifles children's interest in self-study. Inappropriate statements such as "he just doesn't study hard" and "recite poems quickly", as well as parents' impatience and impatience, eventually become obstacles for children to learn.
My daughter began to study at the age of one and began to contact picture books at the age of two. At the age of three, she could basically understand the whole article. Reading was a great pleasure for her when she was a child. These treasures are clearly displayed in the primary school learning stage. It is easier to understand the meaning of the topic without others' reading, and the language ability is developed without worrying about writing ... In the final analysis, it is the explosion of early accumulation.
Step by step, step by step, the child will not be depressed because of the pressure, and take a small step with the child.
Now many children start studying at the age of three. In fact, he wouldn't have a happy childhood if he hadn't been taught and recited ancient poems. He should pay attention to methods, combine work with rest and teach students in accordance with their aptitude. As long as he is properly guided, children will have a happy childhood while learning knowledge, which will be more helpful for going out to the society in the future.
I'm glad to answer your question. The child is three years old, should he be taught to recite ancient poems or something, or should he have a happy childhood? Let me talk about my feelings based on my own experience.
First of all, talk about my own growth experience. Because I come from a well-educated family and my mother is a Chinese teacher, I have been influenced by this since I was a child. Reciting ancient poems was a compulsory course when I was a child. I began to recite from the earliest "Singing Goose", "Silent Night Thinking" and "Compassion for Farmers". It is estimated that people all over China are inspired by ancient poems from these familiar stories. Looking back now, there seems to be no pressure and unhappiness, which laid a good foundation for my writing in my student days. Although many ancient poems can't remember their authors and names until now, famous sentences can still come with your mouth open.
Then, talk about my feelings about educating children. My children are seven and four years old now. They all began to speak fluently at the age of three, and we began to teach them to recite ancient poems. Now, the eldest can recite one or two hundred poems skillfully, and the second can recite twenty or thirty poems. Perhaps because of proper education, children have not felt unhappy in learning ancient poetry in recent years. It is a poem that is often blurted out, and it is a surprise gift. My experience is mainly as follows:
1. It is not a task or homework for children to recite ancient poems before going to primary school. Don't force them to recite a few poems within the specified time, blindly pursue quantity, and put reciting ancient poems into daily life and games. For example, I often teach my boss to recite ancient poems, that is, when I take my children for a walk at night, I read aloud while walking in the community. Children have a very good memory, and they can recite it after reading it for more than ten times. The second child's recitation time is on the way to kindergarten in the morning. I will play games with him and practice again and again. You will encourage me in time, learn to show weakness, and let him have a feeling that "he will, you won't, he will teach you", and the child will be particularly happy.
2. Enlightenment should choose simple and easy-to-understand Tang poems, with strong picture sense or simple truth. They must be catchy, choose five-character quatrains first, and then start reciting seven-character quatrains after five years old. It is suggested to buy a picture book of Tang poetry, which can be used as a picture book to tell children. In fact, for children, they remember by thinking in images and repeating them repeatedly. Pictures play a very important role and are very helpful for children to remember. Many Tang poems describe a picture, and Tang poetry picture books can give children a very vivid description, so that they can better understand the artistic conception of Tang poetry.
3. Children often recite ancient poems for a short time, and they will soon forget them if they don't recite them often, so we should consider the principle of Ebbinghaus memory curve and practice them repeatedly. In daily life, when you see the corresponding scenes or events, you can interact with your children and strengthen your memory. For example, if you go out for an outing in spring, you can ask your child what ancient poems are about spring or about willows. After a long time, children are not only boring, but also find fun from it, and parents also get a lot of surprises and happiness. For example, once, when we were driving, the sunset was like salted egg yolk. I said, look how beautiful the sunset is today! My Dabao blurted out: The sunset is infinitely beautiful and buried by the coming night. There are also some very good review methods, such as poetry competitions. Children like to compete with their parents, or make poetry cards, play cards with children, and so on.
In short, don't set tasks and put pressure on children. Learning ancient poetry is a happy thing. The key is to use the right method. The above is my own experience with my two babies. I hope it can help and inspire you.
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