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We all say that personality is the most important thing when you like someone.
But there's another saying, liking a person begins with face value, falling into talent and being loyal to character. Especially in the case of blind date, looks can easily become the first element of judgment.
it can even be said that this is the decisive factor.
I remember that a friend of mine asked, "What's the difference between meeting before falling in love in real life and blind date in old age?"
A person replied, "Getting to know before falling in love is based on character and conduct. After a long time, you will find that looks are not so important, and sometimes you can like them when you get along slowly, but blind date is different. The first impression of blind date is too important, so important that the first impression is not appropriate, and you simply don't want to continue to know each other. "
As he said," The purpose of most people's blind date is to find the other half, not to think that it is inappropriate to be friends, because generally speaking, there is no shortage of this friend. "
I think of a topic I saw on the Internet, which was about blind date. A girl introduced her qualifications, whether it was height, weight or work, which sounded excellent.
But she said that she went on blind dates five times, but she never succeeded, and some boys were not as good as her.
She originally wanted to raise her own confusion and ask everyone to help her. Unexpectedly, when the comments below turned down, almost everyone's first reaction was: "Is your face value really offline?"
There are even many people who ask her to send photos.
Look, although we have repeatedly emphasized the importance of spiritual beauty in life, saying that interesting souls are more precious than beautiful skins, in real life, beautiful skins always take the first place.
It has also been said that if you don't have a beautiful skin, who has the mind to know whether your soul is interesting or not?
Although this sentence is not absolute, sometimes there is some truth in it.
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How important is a girl's appearance when dating? There are many blind date people around me. I asked three girls what they think about this matter.
Xiao Zhi: A blind date who has a tacit understanding with me said that if I looked better, he would chase me.
I am the most common girl that many people meet in their lives.
I don't have a good-looking appearance, and I don't have an eye-catching figure. I was the least noticeable one since I was a child, and I couldn't find that kind when I threw it in a crowd.
I didn't talk about love when I was studying, and of course no one chased me. I secretly fell in love with two boys, but I missed it because I was too ashamed to confess.
I have always been plain-faced, and I have heard many people say that a person's beautiful mind is more important. I don't deny this, but I have never been in love until I was 26 years old. Two years after I graduated from college, I embarked on the road of blind date.
it was on a blind date that I realized that looks are actually more important.
because I actually look at each other's looks. I don't mean how handsome they must be, but at least they should be clean and comfortable. Some of these blind date objects have no messages after meeting each other, so they are deleted from each other.
I remember a blind date who was introduced by a high school student who had a good time. He later became friends with me, because we really had a good conversation and tacit understanding, but he was a strict control.
He often tells me in a joking tone that if I look better, he will definitely chase me. I don't care on the surface, but I will feel uncomfortable in my heart until I really met my husband.
We met on a blind date, and we are both ordinary people. Because we often chat with each other's hobbies, and then we get married naturally, and our lives are very good, so looks are an additional condition for blind date, just like the last additional question in primary school. If we do it well, we will definitely get extra points.
Yunyun: I found that looks are quite important in comparison with beautiful girlfriends.
I have a best friend who is beautiful. When we both go on blind dates at the same time, I find that there is a 5-5 chance that the ordinary me will not contact each other after meeting.
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However, my best friend's blind date success rate is 1%. At least after meeting her, people actively seek her out and invite her to dinner and movies.
at this time, I found that looks are actually quite important.
it is human nature that people are always willing to give her more understanding and tolerance for a good-looking person. And when you are dating, you have a greater chance to choose.
But I also realized one thing later. Everyone can find the most suitable person according to their own requirements. Although I was rejected a lot, it was all kinds of rejections that made me realize that it was not suitable for many people.
so, when I finally met him, I was particularly happy.
Arnold: Later, when I became beautiful, I went on a blind date and found that every blind date was much friendlier.
I used to be very fat, and my friends said that I stood beside them, just like a Dapeng who was about to spread its wings.
My personality is an optimist. I have a group of good friends, both boys and girls, but I have never been in love. I find that girls like to play with me, while boys tend to become brothers with me.
two years after I graduated from college, I started dating under the arrangement of my family.
To tell the truth, it is impossible for some people to say that they are not lonely when they see me turn around and leave. Some boys who continue to chat with me can generally become friends, but they are not girlfriends.
They will only ask me, "Are there any girls around you who are in love?"
Later, I made up my mind to lose weight. When I became beautiful, I went on a blind date. I found that every blind date was much more friendly, and some people would ask me out for the second time, and they didn't believe that I had never been in love.
show them my old photos, and everyone says they can't tell it's me.
I think looks are really icing on the cake for blind date.
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On the road to marriage, blind date is also one of them, and the importance of this path will increase with the increase of age.
Although the long-term relationship between two people depends on personality and three views, it is undeniable that appearance is also a matter that cannot be ignored, because it is a prerequisite.
I also have a friend who once told me the same thing. She used to think that a person should keep the truest essence, so she insisted on being plain, but failed repeatedly in blind date.
Later, she understood that everyone likes beautiful things. In fact, if necessary, why not make yourself reach the best state by other means?
So, she later learned to lose weight and make up. As she said, the road to blind date was much smoother. Coupled with her kind and optimistic personality, the success rate of blind date was almost 1%.
indeed, it depends on personality for a long time, but that sentence starts with face value and has its own reasons.
do you think looks are important when dating?