After reading Fu Lei's letter, I feel 1. I want to persist and carry it out, but I also want to be patient. -inscription
In Fu Lei's Letter, Fu Lei once wrote to his son: "I'm glad you have such a strong fighting spirit. But don't be impatient. " Adhering to the truth is a good thing, but how to explain and convince others is an art.
Everyone has a reason in his heart. Sometimes, they are different and even contradictory. If you want to convince the other party, you must produce sufficient evidence, perfect language skills and opportunities. Needless to say, without evidence, there is no truth without evidence. More importantly, language skills and opportunities. People can accept whispering and instinctively resist those growls. A conversation may not be clear enough, or it may not be memorable enough. "Soft grinding and hard foam" may make people unconsciously understand your intentions. Maybe people can't control themselves. When the fire rushes to their heads, it's just a roar. The other party won't think about what you're talking about, but will only fight back and resist. So, please hold back and explain patiently. People may not let go of their faces and listen to "rambling" around others; Take care of face, don't say it again and again. So please hold back your reluctance and speak slowly.
Opportunities are also precious. For a simple example, when others are angry, you can't provoke them; When others are happy, you can't spoil their fun. If you can't find the right opportunity, you will fail or go too far. Only by patient analysis and waiting can we have a good chance and a good result.
Patience may not satisfy temporary enthusiasm, but it is the basic character of long-term success.
After reading Fu Lei's letter, I feel it is not easy to go back and write my own thoughts. Because these letters from home included in the book are wonderful and meticulous, taking notes or any summary may damage this classic. So, here I just record some important impressions after reading this book and the important thoughts expressed by the author I understand.
First of all, from the formal point of view, Letters from Home let me know what is meticulous and meticulous. I believe all readers who have read letters from home are deeply touched by these characteristics. According to my own experience, I think this is largely due to the way of expression, communication or writing. Only in this way can we have such a wide range of works, which is naturally comfortable.
He not only talks about art study, but also about life, love, being a man and self-cultivation. Even if the son writes a typo, the father will "seriously" point it out and patiently analyze and correct it. It is this way rather than other ways (such as thesis and translation) that enables us to directly and clearly feel the meticulous and serious attitude and style of Mr. Fu Lei, a famous literary critic and literary translator.
If Letters from Fu Lei is a "best reading for art apprentices" or a classic "teaching article", then I think this attitude and style should be the first and most meaningful. But it is by no means limited to this. Moreover, because of his knowledge and thoughts, Mr. Fu Lei can explain profound but never difficult truths about any major and minor issues, thus giving people inspiration.
After reading Fu Lei's letter, everyone said that his father loved mountains deeply. "A Letter from Fu Lei" is an educational chapter of great significance, full of father's ardent expectations for his son. At that time, the only communication tool was letters, which was an important hub to connect feelings. The significance of "Letters from Fu Lei" different from other letters is that his attitude towards the country and art has influenced generation after generation.
Letters from Fu Lei is a model of education in China, which contains profound life principles. Fu Lei's two children are outstanding in both the music industry and the education industry, and he has created an educational model. He not only teaches students in accordance with their aptitude, but also teaches children how to behave. He teaches children through letters, makes them outstanding, trains their minds, rings alarm bells and gives them some advice. In the letter, Fu Lei gave guidance on how to be a man, the details of life and artistic accomplishment. Technology is important, but character is more important. Having both ability and political integrity is Fu Lei's expectation for children, and inculcation makes people read very kindly, just like an elder "rambling" in your ear.
I think the significance of Letters from Fu Lei lies in educating children to establish correct values and outlook on life from an early age. Be a man in advance, which should always be kept in mind.
After reading Fu Lei's letter, I can't wait to extract Fu Lei's classic words, because Fu Lei's words full of wisdom, sincerity and incisiveness are amazing and eager to share with you, and because I have made several different forms of opening before, I feel that there are problems, and I think it is better to extract and comment at the same time.
In life, Fu Lei's insights are profound and unique, such as "I don't approve of blaming myself for inaction. This is the basic style of being a man ... only facts can prove your mind, and only actions can show your mind. " "People who have not experienced severe pain will not have deep and extensive sympathy." Not only being a man, Fu Lei also took pains to teach children many methods and guidelines for doing things. "Try to put success or failure aside, do your best and be worthy of your own heart." "Learning to control slowly is also a big project of life cultivation." "A person to do one thing, must be considerate in advance. Especially when you want to change course, abandon the old road and take a new road, you must balance your determination, put the old road and the new road on two plates and weigh them very accurately. " "It is human nature that a person often doesn't cherish what he has at hand and then regrets losing it. But we can't forgive our stupidity, because it is human nature and we don't try to correct it.
After reading Fu Lei's letter, I read Fu Lei's letter today, but it's just a mouthful of dates, but I still feel bad in my heart after all.
It is full of a father's worries and endless entrustment about traveling wanderers. It is a caring life, the best academic guidance and the best spiritual pillar.
He said that his love for children is not only due to blood relatives, but also to natural ethics. His love for children is the constant irrigation and infinite pursuit of art.
From the preparation of life before going abroad to the persuasion of academic foundation, it shows the wind of inheritance. He has never been stingy with his views on music, and he is happy to watch his children grow up. The ideal of life, the conflict of reality and the confusion of love are all permeated in these letters.
During this period, the letter said nothing about my life, only saw the discussion about art and life. If you don't look at the background of the author at that time, you won't know under what background he wrote these silent words, so when you see the last sentence at the end of the book, it will be so sudden. It is the respect for such an old artist that makes you feel the heartache and regret of the tragedy of the times.
After reading Fu Lei's letter, I feel 6 "A naked child doesn't know loneliness. Loneliness will create a world and many caring friends! Always keep a pure heart, never fall behind when you are old, and always embrace the pure heart of the whole world! " On the way of chasing dreams, Fu Lei hopes that his children will always be childlike, and so does he. Even in his later years, his love for literature remained undiminished. He is proud of his son, happy that he can carry forward the works of immortal masters, and happy that he can realize his dreams. The father, who has always been strict and does not praise his children easily, shows his inner excitement at the moment.
He will care about children's daily life, and he will guide children how to learn a foreign language simply and clearly with his own personal experience. He can clearly remember his son's every trip, every game and the state of every game. He can't grasp the scale of emotion, the melody is not smooth enough and the music is unfamiliar. He can point out all these problems. At this time, he is the child's mentor, teaching him art and life.
Letters from Fu Lei vividly shows parents' love for their children. They are not good at words, but they are always helping their children in their own way. But these loves are often ignored by our children ... Those yellowed letters from home virtually connect parents and children in a foreign land, and they feel each other with their hearts. ...
After reading Fu Lei's letter, loving his son is common sense in the world. However, Fu Lei's love for children has not become that kind of ordinary tenderness, but always puts morality and art first, and puts the calf's feeling second.
Fu Lei skillfully uses colorful real life as a teaching material to educate his son, instead of just saying empty words and telling him to be brave and learn to be strong. As Fu Lei said in his letter: "People who have not experienced severe pain will not have deep sympathy." There is also "a person will not be eroded by memories only if he dares to face up to reality, face up to mistakes, analyze rationally and understand thoroughly."
Fu Lei asked his son to salute or make a curtain call, and his facial expression should be gentle, not too serious as in the past. This has a lot to do with the mood of the masses, so we should pay attention to it in time. As long as you don't worry, calm down and your expression will naturally be gentle. I can see that Fu Lei is very careful and will help his son find a way.
In the letter from Fu Lei, there is a gripping sentence: "I always remember this sentence. A naked child doesn't know loneliness. Loneliness will create a world and many caring friends! Always keep a childlike heart, never fall behind when you are old, and always embrace the childlike heart of the whole world! Your friend is right. Moving artistic expression must come from the purity of the soul! If you are not pure as a mirror, how can you feel the hearts of your predecessors? How can you impress the audience? " This is what Fu Lei taught his son and a summary of his life.
After reading Fu Lei's letter, I felt a lot after reading Fu Lei's letter in one breath in recent days, especially the love and hope expressed by teacher Fu Lei for children, which I can't forget for a long time.
After reading the book, I simply consulted Mr. Fu Lei's information. It turns out that Mr. Fu Lei lost his father when he was a child, so he was deprived of the right to enjoy his father's love since he was a child, and his mother, as it were, gave him some father's love while taking on the responsibility of being a mother. Therefore, perhaps it is in this growing background that Fu Lei devoted infinite fatherly love to his children Fu Cong and Fu Min in the future, which moved people again and again.
For example, Mr. Fu Lei said to the children in the book: "Children, terrible enemies are not necessarily cruel, and friendly and enthusiastic friendship sometimes delays your precious time." I believe that everyone has already felt the deep fatherly love between the lines. Although there is no straightforward expression of feelings by westerners, Mr. Fu Lei expressed the most sincere, extensive and delicate love of China's father through letters, and revealed the heavy and selfless love of all fathers in the world for their children. All this is commendable.
After reading Fu Lei's letters, the greatest feature of China's art, from poetry to painting to drama, pays attention to music without lewdness, sadness without resentment, elegance and nature; Oppose the bad taste of putting on airs and overcorrecting, and oppose the aimless display of skills. These are the standards of all advanced arts in the world.
Those who have been playing tricks are artists, not artists. A person can't jump out of this level, nor can he dream of art all his life! Art is the purpose, and skill is the means: a person who always pays attention to the means will inevitably forget his own purpose.
All great artists (whether composers, writers or painters ...) must have unique personalities and universal humanity. As long as we can explore the human nature in our hearts, we can find a bridge to communicate with artists. If we can ponder carefully and appreciate his unique personality, we can understand a work of art as a whole. Of course, it can't be exactly the same as the original author's understanding and feeling, and the amount, depth and breadth of understanding are still very different; And our own personality also plays a big role in the middle.
The most powerful argument in the world is practical action, and the most effective education is to set an example; Never ask others what you can't do; Criticize yourself first and correct your mistakes.
All works of art should avoid affectation, and the most beautiful words should be natural and flawless in order to stand the test of time and last forever.
The purpose of education is only to cultivate and accumulate greater strength to help others, and it is definitely not blind self-expansion.
After reading Fu Lei's letter, I always feel that there is a warm current flowing slowly in my heart. This is Fu Lei's love for his son.
In every detail, Fu Lei first emphasized Fu Cong's way of dealing with people and life. Based on his own experience, Fu Lei taught his son to be modest, rigorous, behave properly, not discouraged when encountering difficulties, not proud of success, have a sense of honor and disgrace of the country and celebrities, and love the motherland. We should have the dignity of art and personality, and be an artist with excellent morality and personality. At the same time, he also gave guidance to Fu Cong's life, and made suggestions on how to combine work and rest, manage money correctly, and how to deal with marriage and love in Fu Cong's daily life. As a man with profound cultural background and high artistic attainments, Fu Lei also gave directions to Fu Cong in music, encouraged him to learn more about poetry, drama, art and other art categories, and sent books to him.
In my opinion, Fu Lei is the guiding light of Fu Cong's life. He is not only a loving father, but also a mentor who gives advice and care to Fu Cong. All the letters reveal his deep fatherly love and are filled with the deep affection between father and son.
All kinds of life truths in Fu Lei's letters have also benefited me a lot. Family members not only pass on the love between father and son, but also inherit the philosophy of life.
After reading Fu Lei's letter 1 1, I can't wait to extract Fu Lei's classic words, because Fu Lei's wisdom, sincerity and incisive words are amazing and I am eager to share them with you, and because I have done several different forms of opening before, I feel that there are problems and I feel that I am doing it while extracting. In life, Fu Lei's views are profound and unique, such as "I don't approve of self-reproach and inaction. This is the basic way of life. ...
Only facts can prove your mind, and only actions can show your mind. ""people who have not experienced severe pain will not have deep and extensive sympathy. "Not only being a man, Fu Lei also took pains to teach children many methods and guidelines for doing things." Try to put success or failure aside, do your best and live up to your heart. ""Learning to control slowly is also a big project of life cultivation. " "A person to do one thing, must be considerate in advance.
Especially when you want to change course, abandon the old road and take a new road, you must take good care of your determination and weigh the old road and the new road on two plates very accurately. ""It's human nature, a person often doesn't cherish what he has until he loses it. But we can't forgive our stupidity, because it is human nature and we don't try to correct it.
After reading Fu Lei's letter 12, I was really moved by Fu Lei's seriousness about life and care for children. Letters from home cover everything from career, life and art to eating, dressing and even spending money. Between the lines of the letters from home, it is revealed that Fu Lei is a person who is extremely strict with himself, even being mean to himself in some aspects. Fu Lei set three principles for his son: don't say anything sorry for the motherland, don't do anything sorry for the motherland, and don't become a citizen. The spirit of Aiko is touching.
From the book, I realized the painstaking care of my parents. They strive to create a good learning environment for me, let me study in a comfortable place, and strive to create a good living environment for the future and live a life without food and clothing. They have worked hard! And we always don't understand the truth, regardless of our parents' good intentions and go our own way. In fact, we are the last to lose! Without talent and level, how can we face the increasingly fierce social competition in the future?
After reading "Letters from Fu Lei", I learned a lot about being a man and felt the greatness of family ties.
Comments on Fu Lei's Letters 13 "Fu Lei's Letters" mainly comes from the correspondence between Fu Lei and his son Fu Cong who studied abroad.
Fu Lei is a strict and responsible father at home. In Fu Cong's childhood, Fu Lei was very strict with him. He plays the piano after school every day, but once the novelty wears off, he will relax. Fu Lei wants to cultivate Fu Cong into a first-class artist. He can't stand Fu Cong's attitude. Fu Lei is used to strict education and will have an argument with Fu Cong.
In a letter written to Fu Cong by Fu Lei's wife, Fu Lei said that he did this for a reason, because his childhood was very bad, and he was only worried about the guests and didn't smell the laughter. After studying in Fu Cong, Fu Lei reflected that his son's childhood was very similar to his own. In his letter to his son, he used it to admit his mistake and encouraged Fu Lei to put down his airs, become friends with his son and keep up with him. Fu Cong also understood his father's kindness. In these practices of Fu Lei, I saw his change.
There are many strict fathers like Fu Lei, but how many can make changes like Fu Lei? Fu Cong's father was the best teacher when he was growing up.
After reading Fu Lei's letter, I was really moved by Fu Lei's seriousness about life and care for children. Letters from home cover everything from career and art of living to eating, dressing and spending money. From the letters from home, we can see that Fu Lei is a person who is very strict with himself, and even has his own bitterness in some aspects. Fu Lei set three principles for his son. Don't say sorry to the motherland, don't do anything sorry to the motherland, and don't be naturalized. The spirit of Aiko is touching.
From the book, I realized the painstaking care of my parents. They strive to create a good learning environment for me, let me study in a comfortable place, and strive to create a good living environment for the future and live a life without food and clothing. They have worked hard! And we always don't understand the truth, regardless of our parents' good intentions and go our own way. In fact, we are the last to lose! Without talent and level, how can we face the increasingly fierce social competition in the future?
After reading "Letters from Fu Lei", I learned a lot about being a man and felt the greatness of family ties.
Comments on Fu Lei's Letters 15 "Fu Lei's Letters" consists of 185 Fu Jia's letters, most of which are letters written by Fu Lei and his wife to their son on the other side of the ocean. After reading Letters from Fu Lei, I was really moved by Mr. Fu Lei's seriousness about life and his care for children. Letters from home range from career and art of living to eating, dressing and spending money.
Parents can learn how to educate their children, students who study fine arts, especially piano, can learn how to improve their skills, and friends who are interested in the history from the early liberation to the Cultural Revolution can also get some understanding from Fu Lei's description. What impressed me most about this book is to strengthen personal cultivation. As can be seen from the words in the letters from home, Fu Lei is a person who is very strict with himself, and even has a bitter taste in some aspects. Fu Lei asked his son to set three principles: don't say anything sorry for the motherland, don't do anything sorry for the motherland, and don't become a citizen. The spirit of loving one's son and teaching one's son is touching. Some letters from home are short and pithy, and some are full of thousands of words, but all of them reflect Fu Lei's encouragement, trust, praise, advice, care and love for his son and daughter. Through letters, exchange feelings with children and talk about what's going on in the world.
On the other hand, I didn't bother to make a phone call, let alone write a letter, as if I never missed my parents and took the initiative to care about them.
After reading Fu Lei's letter, I was deeply moved. I feel very ashamed to think that I neglected my parents because of high technology such as computers. In the future, I must care more about my parents.