I'll see my uncle off. I'll think about it. Why give it? Joan Gui Yu Pei. ?
In the living customs of northern Shaanxi, the status of uncles and nephews is also relatively high, and some places call them "masters". For example, at a wedding reception, the first two tables must be reserved for his uncle. At the funeral banquet, the dutiful son in mourning must "please" his uncle with great respect. This is also a custom. Ancient humans started from matriarchal society, only knowing that mothers didn't know their fathers. Later, with the continuous development of productive forces, a patriarchal society followed, and the head of the matriarchal family was the mother's brother. In any case, uncle's family status is irreplaceable, and children's attitude towards him must be respectful and offensive. In fact, emotionally speaking, the attitude towards my uncle also represents respect for my mother.
"I sent my uncle to Weiyang", the first two sentences of the short poem directly tell the story-seeing him off, leaving me on both sides, being sent to Weiyang, on the back of Weishui, the mountains are south and the waters are north, and vice versa. Behind the "farewell", the two walked forward and followed. My uncle hesitated, and my nephew could not hide his farewell mood and walked slowly to Weiyang.
No banquet, no music, "why give it?" Road cars ride yellow ","why? "Qiong Gui Yu Pei", my nephew just gave my uncle a gift to show his respect, a very luxurious carriage and some precious and rare jade articles. In fact, the ancients did not send horses and chariots as gifts when they bid farewell, but this is a special farewell, so such gifts have different meanings. In Zhu's Biography of Poetry, there is a comment: "The road car is also the car of the princes; With yellow, all four horses are yellow. " Moreover, these four horses were all good ponies at that time, which shows that the status of both sides is extraordinary. Zhu's Biography of Poetry explained: "When Kang Gong was a prince, he was sent to Weiyang to write this poem." The poet of this poem is Qin Kanggong, and his farewell is Jin Wengong Zhong Er, one of the five tyrants in the Spring and Autumn Period. Qin Kanggong was ordered by his father Qin Mugong to escort his uncle Jin Wengong back to the State of Jin for the throne. So, he gave the carriage, hoping that his uncle could move on and have a good trip.
In fact, uncle and nephew's relationship in life is not unfamiliar because of blood relationship, but will be more intimate. I have two uncles, the first is calm and silent, and the second is brave and fearless. Usually I am in awe of my uncle, but I am closer to my uncle and admire him more. My brother and my son are only seven years apart, just like partners who grew up together. My brother, as an uncle, is particularly distressed by this little nephew, while my son especially worships this little uncle, just like his "little tail". Among the appellations of "grandma" and "grandpa", the first one to learn is "uncle". With my little uncle, my mother can also pull over. There is almost no distance between them, but more intimacy, and blood is thicker than water.
This intimacy is also due to sisters (mothers). "I sent my uncle, and I thought about it for a long time." In addition to the deep friendship and reluctance between them, I also saw my uncle, my mother's relatives, whose eyebrows, body shape, personality and habits always flashed her shadow. How can I miss my sister (mother)? The parting of relatives is different from that of friends, not to mention the future, which is uncertain and may last forever. But I can't bear to say it in my mouth.
"Don't be the most heartbroken place, driving the horse at dusk."