It is fate that a person meets, knows each other and knows each other. Fate cannot be disobeyed or forced. Life depends on a word of fate, let it be. At least, you won't get hurt.
For Buddhists, what was the fate of husband and wife in their last lives? Please refer to the network resources. I have something nice, too. I hope * * * has feelings.
The relationship between husband and wife comes from the following three reasons;
◆ This party has the karma to be grateful to the other party.
If in the process of meeting, someone is grateful to the other person, and the other person is greatly moved, and the recipient wants to repay the kindness, if so, when the next life happens to be a man and a woman, they will become husband and wife because of this kindness in the previous life. For example; Once you drowned, but no one wanted to save you. Only one person tried his best to save you. Whether you saved your life or not, you are still grateful to him. In order to repay this life-saving kindness, you are willing to repay this kindness with the role of cattle and horses in the future. In a situation like this, it is the husband and wife who repay the kindness. Among all kinds of marriage relationships, the happiest one is this kind of marriage relationship, because one party's deep consciousness is to pay without regrets, so both parties can be happy. But this kind of couple doesn't promise not to quarrel or divorce. If you don't get along, there will still be friction problems in getting along.
◆ Reasons why one party owes debts to the other (one party will come to collect debts).
In other words, the other party is here to collect debts. What kind of debt do you want? There are two kinds of debts: one is money debt and the other is love debt. Of course, in addition to these two items, there are debts. The following examples illustrate the causes of these two kinds of marital debts: for example, you used to be a man, and you cheated the woman's feelings to make her fall in love with you for sexual satisfaction. And you want to succeed, just run away. And the woman is deceived by your feelings, of course, she will not be reconciled. If so, you (male) will meet this woman in the future. When she meets you, she will hold you tight and never let you run away again. Like this, it is a couple formed by emotional debt.
For example, when men and women communicate, the expenses of various occasions are always paid by the man. If a woman covets this kind of enjoyment, there is actually no sincere communication. After enjoying a lot of material, the man left for no reason. In this case, the man will certainly be very unwilling. If so, you (female) will meet this man in the future. And you happen to have money in your life, but a lot of your money will be spent by him, or all of it will eventually go to the man. This is the husband and wife formed by money and debt. Although it is a bad marriage, as long as we get along well in this world, work hard and don't care about each other, there is still a chance to get along well.
◆ Reasons for mutual liabilities
Money and feelings are also the main reasons for this mutual debt. In other words, if there is a relationship between men and women, when both men and women commit the above-mentioned money debts and emotional debts at the same time, then they will meet in this life and form a husband and wife, which can just repay each other.
It can also be said that the purpose of marriage is to produce cause and effect. Karma always gives people "relationships" to even out all grievances. Therefore, when you get married, you should cherish getting along and do what you should do, instead of complaining and accusing others, so it's over! Or owe more! In all kinds of marriage relationships, because both sides are seeking each other's ideas, disputes and disputes often occur. But as long as the two sides put themselves in other's shoes and treat each other with a willing attitude, the debt will end faster.
◆ The best relationship between husband and wife is the forming factor of various marriage relationships. If we look at people's fate, all kinds of good and evil marriages can't represent happiness or not, let alone those who are married by bad marriages. However, if both parties meet the following three conditions, then no matter what kind of marriage, husband and wife can be happy couples. Therefore, these three factors are very important when choosing a spouse.
First of all, the personalities of both sides blend together.
Second, the two sides respect each other.
Third, both sides are responsible people.
In other words, external conditions and wealth are not indicators of happiness.
In addition, quarrels between husband and wife are very common in this world, and after quarreling, there will always be one party who wants a divorce, and the other party may not. If so, it means that the debts of each other are not over, and the relationship between husband and wife is not over. If husband and wife get along under ordinary circumstances and do not interfere with each other, it shows that the debts of husband and wife have been paid off, and both sides get along like friends, and no one will keep anyone. On the occasion of breaking up, it is best to see whether the marriage is over. No matter whether this breakup is a death breakup, a long journey breakup, a monk breakup, or a divorce breakup.
If you are inseparable and still cry when you break up, it means that the kindness of husband and wife has not been rewarded, and the fate of husband and wife has been exhausted.
If you break up because of resentment, dissatisfaction or unwillingness, it means that your "debt" has not been paid off, and you will continue to get married when you meet in the afterlife.
If we break up like friends and have no resentment, we may be a little sad or embarrassed ... >>
There is a saying, how many practices in previous lives have been exchanged for this life? A pillow that has been repaired in the same boat for thousands of years has been exchanged for a brush. We have known each other and loved each other for 500 years. We must cherish it.
It is fate that makes this life a family. The lyrics of which song should be "It must be a special fate to become a family along the way" from "For You" sung by Zhang Yu.
Title: "For You"
Lyrics: Eleven Lang
Composer: Zhang Yu
Singing: Zhang Yu
Lyrics:
He will be your groom.
From now on, he will be your partner for life.
Everything about him will be closely related to you.
Blessing and misfortune should be treated together.
She will be your bride.
She was entrusted to you by others.
You should take double care of it with your whole life.
Share pain and happiness.
Must be a special fate.
Become a family along the way.
How much he loves you.
Give him more points.
Looking for the possibility of happiness
From now on, I am no longer alone.
It's always about us.
How many points did you pay?
Love is a little complete.
Must be a special fate.
Become a family along the way.
How much he loves you.
Give him more points.
Looking for the possibility of happiness
From now on, I am no longer alone.
It's always about us.
How many points did you pay?
Love is a little complete.
He will be your groom.
From now on, he will be your partner for life.
Everything about him will be closely related to you.
Blessing and misfortune should be treated together.
She will be your bride.
She was entrusted to you by others.
You should take double care of it with your whole life.
Share pain and happiness.
Must be a special fate.
Become a family along the way.
How much he loves you.
Give him more points.
Looking for the possibility of happiness
From now on, I am no longer alone.
It's always about us.
How many points did you pay?
Love is a little complete.
Must be a special fate.
Become a family along the way.
How much he loves you.
Give him more points.
Looking for the possibility of happiness
From now on, I am no longer alone.
It's always about us.
How many points did you pay?
Love is a little complete.
How many points did you pay?
For a few people, love is complete.
Is fate really made in a previous life? Fate is something that can be met but not sought. The ancients said, the reason is determined by heaven, and it is born by oneself. If two people in the world are destined to love each other, then before they meet, he and she will walk towards each other step by step, impartial, no matter how impossible. I believe. Believe in doomed meeting and separation. People who have a heart will miss each other no matter how far away; Careless people are close at hand but far away. If your love stays in the past, it only belongs to that time; If your love stays in life, it will become eternal, even beyond forever! This is destiny.
There is a saying. How many times in the past can we get the fate of this life, and how many times in the past can we get the pass of this life.
In this life, mother and daughter were destined to be enemies in their previous lives. God arranged for them to be husband and wife in this life in order to settle their grievances. Enemies in previous lives, God arranged for them to be father and son in this life in order to resolve their grievances. Creditors in previous lives, God arranged them to be mothers and children in this life in order to pay their debts. Opponents in previous lives, God arranged for them to be mother and daughter to mediate grievances in this life. Therefore, there is no grievance or hatred.
What do you mean you'll meet again in this life? 10 is like a whim. Did you have such a fate in your last life? Is there such a fate in this life?
We were predestined friends in previous lives, and the lyrics of that song met.
Lyrics: Anwar Lin Fei
Composer: Liu Yimin
Singing: Yun Feifei
You and I met by accident.
Lies open the door to beautiful stories.
I can't wait in heaven.
Cross the moral bottom line
But we still don't know each other's true identity.
The lonely platform saw you.
I really lost my mind.
It's hard to resist the desire of the soul.
It seems that this fate was doomed in previous lives.
You were there in that snowy winter.
I no longer feel cold.
There's no need to be together for long.
I only care about your tenderness for me now.
You and I broke up, leaving a sincere heart.
Stationery has prepared all the secrets.
A brief encounter enriched this life.
Leave an eternal moment
It's that casual look.
The lonely platform saw you.
I really lost my mind.
It's hard to resist the desire of the soul.
It seems that this fate was doomed in previous lives.
You were there in that snowy winter.
I no longer feel cold.
There's no need to be together for long.
I only care about your tenderness for me now.
There's no need to be together for long.
I only care about your tenderness for me now.
Some people are doomed to past lives, others are doomed to past lives, and they all have their own destiny.
Wei Gu, a native of the Tang Dynasty, lived in Ling Du and became an orphan as a teenager. As an adult, I wanted to get married as soon as possible, so I entrusted others to propose marriage everywhere, but all failed. In the second year of Yuanhe, in order to visit Qinghe, he stayed in a hotel in the south of Song Dynasty. Some guests suggested that Wei Gu propose to SiMaPan's daughter in Song Cheng, and agreed to meet at the longxing temple gate in the west of the inn the next day.
To show that he was eager to propose, Wei Gu went to the appointed place at dawn the next day, when the moon was still bright. But I saw an old man sitting on the steps of the temple with his back against a cloth bag, reading a bibliography by moonlight. Read his book quietly, it is neither seal script nor Sanskrit, and Gu doesn't know a word.
Gu Wei asked the old man, What book is my father looking for? I have studied hard since I was a child. There are almost no words in the world that I don't know, and I can read western Sanskrit. Only the book that dad wants to read has not been read. What book is it?
The old man said with a smile: This is the book of the underworld, which is naturally invisible to gentlemen. I am the head of the underworld. I am separated from this gentleman by yin and yang, but this is because you came too early today and didn't meet this gentleman here, not because I didn't come at the right time!
Wei Gu turned back and asked the old man, What is the elder responsible for? The old man replied: in charge of the marriage in the world. Wei Gu secretly rejoiced and said to the old man, I was an orphan since I was a child, and I want to get married when I grow up and have children. I asked for marriage for more than ten years, but I couldn't get it. Today, I met a man here to discuss marrying Song Sima's daughter. I don't know if it will work.
The old man said to Wei Gu: No. We shouldn't be together all our lives, although it is unattainable to condescend to marry the daughter of a Tubo family. Sir, your wife has just turned three and won't marry into your family until she is seventeen.
Wei Gu asked, What's in your bag? The old man replied: it is a red rope, which is used to tie the feet of human couples. People are tied with this rope from birth. Whether it is the home of the enemy or the home of the enemy, the disparity between the rich and the poor, or the official world, the red rope is inviolable. A gentleman's feet are tied to others, and it is useless for him to ask for help everywhere.
Wei Gu said: Then where is my wife? What does her family do? The old man replied: Your wife is the daughter of a woman named Chen who sells vegetables in the north of the inn. Wei Gu said, can I see her then? The old man replied: Chen often comes to the market to sell vegetables with her children in her arms. You follow me, and I can show you.
Until dawn, people who agreed with Wei Gu didn't keep the appointment. The old man also rolled up the book and carried the bag. Gu Wei walked into the market with the old man. I happened to meet an old woman who was blind in one eye and held a three-year-old girl in her arms. The old man pointed to the baby girl and said, this is your wife. Wei Gu was very angry and said, Can I kill her? The old man said: this life naturally needs to be eaten, and the elements are expensive. It cannot be killed. Say that finish stealth.
Wei Gu scolded: The old ghost demon's nonsense is ridiculous! I come from a scholar-bureaucrat family and should be suitable for marriage. Even if I can't marry a woman after all, I can still climb some beautiful prostitutes. Why marry an ugly girl who is blind and old? So he sharpened a knife and handed it to his slave, saying, You are always capable. If you can help me kill this girl, I will reward you with 10 thousand yuan.
The next day, the slave followed him into the vegetable market with a knife in his sleeve and stabbed him in the crowd. The market was in chaos for a while, and Wei Gu and his servant walked away in the chaos. After leaving the market, Wei Gu asked eagerly, Are you shot? His servant replied that at first I stabbed her in the heart, but unfortunately I only stabbed her in the eyebrows. Later, Wei Gu proposed many times, but all failed.
14 years later, with the help of his father, Wei Gu served in Xiangzhou army, and Wang Tai, the secretariat of Xiangzhou, asked him to be a judge of the special court. The Secretariat appreciated his talent and married his 17-year-old daughter to Wei Gu.
The daughter of the secretariat is virtuous, quiet and beautiful. But she often puts a flower between her eyebrows, and she won't take it off even if she takes a shower. More than a year later, Wei Gu was very surprised ... >>