Why do ancient poets in China always think it's because of their official career, while the west thinks it's because of love?

Chinese and western ideas are different. Westerners dare to sing praises to love enthusiastically, but China's feudal thought thinks it is indecent to sing praises to men and women. First of all, in feudal China, writing novels was looked down upon, girls could not leave the boudoir casually, the marriage between men and women was decided by their parents, and the freedom of love was restricted, so there was no subjective condition for love. Secondly, in feudal China, writing novels was looked down upon. As we all know, The Romance of the West Chamber and A Dream of Red Mansions were banned at that time, looked down upon by the upper class, and people would not attach importance to them. Only official career articles are "decent articles", and official career articles will never mention love. Therefore, there are no objective conditions for the feelings generated by love. Even when it comes to love, ancient poets in China wrote very implicitly. Unlike the west, they are more open-minded and think that love is great and worthy of praise. Society also has a more relaxed environment for them to praise love, so the west has more feelings for love than China.