During this period of review, there were several books that kept lingering in my mind. I tried to find books or notes, but I couldn’t find them. I rummaged through the first and second floors of the company and scanned the room several times. Later, I think it should be on my daughter's bookcase. It just so happens that Xiaoyu fell asleep when I finished taking a bath tonight, so I can reorganize old books and reading notes.
When I went into my daughter’s room and looked carefully at my books and hers on the bookshelf, I felt a sense of familiarity from the books I had read before. I clicked on this one and read that one. I haven’t finished reading this book yet. There are some unfamiliar books that I can’t figure out what they are about. My daughter said, “This is my comic book!” Oh, I haven’t read it, no wonder I can’t remember it!
A whole bookcase and a semi-circular corner of the wardrobe next to the door are also filled with over 2 meters of stacked books. It really smells like books. It has such a strong bookish atmosphere. Why hasn’t it cultivated my daughter’s love for it? As for my reading habit, I feel very ashamed! I didn’t pay much attention to my daughter, who had been in junior high school for three years. I still often read with her in elementary school. However, in junior high school, she thought her studies were hard and no longer asked her to keep reading. Throughout junior high school, most of the additions were tutorial books and the dozen or so books that teachers required to read. There were no new extracurricular books that she wanted to read on her own.
Today I listened to Mr. Weng’s live broadcast and found out that the country has introduced a “double reduction” policy. Children only need to write homework for 1 hour. In the future, the important subjects are Chinese, physical education, and mathematics. Some places in Shanghai have canceled English. . In this way, parents and children will not be so tired, and everyone can have more time to read books and develop hobbies. Future educational development will tend to focus on how to apply book knowledge in practice, using book knowledge to understand things, and integrating knowledge into life and work.
I said I wanted to review so many old books, and my daughter was amazed, "What a big project this is!" What I wanted to do was to internalize the books I had read before and turn them into my knowledge, rather than read them. Once you get it, forget it, just like a porter of books. The two books I had been thinking about so much, "Harvard Finance and Business Class" and "Habits", were finally found. These books were of great help to me. Not only did they practice all of them, but one or two of them formed my subconscious mental representation, especially "Habits". , the reason why I can take care of work, children, family, and personal growth is due to good habits and efficient use of time.
I didn’t finish reading the book "Meditation" at first. I was in a different state of mind at that time and thought that I had not yet reached the psychological conditions and realm of meditation. During this time, I read the Onion Reading Method. He said that meditation can improve the efficiency of reading. , including running, is also a good form of meditation. It focuses on every breath and every breath, and it is also the root of health care.
The books I have read and listened to recently are a bit mixed. I have not yet figured out what goals I most want to achieve and what books I should read to practice deliberately to achieve my goals. It is very necessary to get out of the life and work brain and find the needs deep in the heart.
Today I happened to read an article by Jian You. I have forgotten the original text. It roughly means that Cao Cao’s poems are penetrating into people’s hearts. As soon as I see the poem, I can see Cao Cao’s penetrating heart. Cao Cao's poems are so expressive. In fact, when we read them, we are also easily moved by some of the words in them. Before I read them, I didn't know that I could express my heart in this way. After reading them, I also learned. This is motivation. This motivation leads me to explore. More transparency. I love reading, and now I love to break away from reading new books to review the books I have read and my reading notes. I also love to stay up late at night and write down my experiences to share my little gains.
Although I love reading, my absorption rate is not high. This morning I listened to Teacher Xiangzi’s live broadcast on how to understand a book, and I found out the reason.
How to understand a book, there are three points:
1. Gain new knowledge;
2. Be able to use your own language Speak out this new understanding and perspective;
3. The new knowledge can be used in life and work.
To sum up, I stay more on the first point, lacking in retelling, sharing, and review. Therefore, I have read many books in the 16 years since I came out of school and have not yet become a master. But As the number increases, it affects me more or less subtly. I can’t tell which book it is from and what principle it is. I probably know that there is such a thing. This is probably the right direction to move forward. The vague impression guides me. I moved forward with bumps and bumps, and my life went smoothly, but it was difficult to achieve big breakthroughs and successes.
Mo Yan: "Any dream may come from reading, and reading is necessary to realize a dream."
Attached are a few pictures of why we should read.