In addition, Lin herself said: She appreciates Xu's romanticism, but there are too many realities. Lin is a realist, and Liang's simplicity and reality just attracted her. During his study in the United States, Lin had many thoughts that could not be expressed by pen, but as long as Liang was around, Liang could always express Lin's thoughts incisively and vividly with his profound architectural skills. In thought, Lin and Xu are very close, but in career, Lin and Liang are a match made in heaven. According to Lin's evaluation, she said that Zhimo was "naive and innocent" and that "when you are happy, the wings of happiness can touch the sky". When you are sad, your sadness is as deep as the Peach Blossom Pond in thousands of feet.
I believe that if Lin has another chance to choose, she probably won't choose Xu Zhimo. After all, beautiful poems can't become a stable life that she insists on. What she really needs is a house that can shelter from the wind and rain! In addition, the blue character in Lin's bones did not completely exclude Xu Zhimo, because she liked the romance of the red character too much, but she was also worried about the restlessness of the red character, so when she couldn't master it, she chose to leave!
Having said that, I just want to discuss it from my own point of view, which is that the house beats poetry, that Liang Sicheng is more handsome than Xu Zhimo, or that Lin's head is hot. I never knew I was not Lin, and I didn't know Lin's ambition. Maybe it's because Lin doesn't like Xu's body odor, or maybe Xu Zhimo squeezes toothpaste in the wrong way, or maybe Liang Sicheng is two or three centimeters longer than Xu Zhimo. One more thing, personality can make people feel false in different environments. For example, people with red personality will be sentimental and disappointing in difficult times!
Because I don't want to make a long speech, but I want to let everyone know about my personality in about five minutes. I'm really shooting myself in the foot. Colorful personality and broad proposition are far beyond the reach of a few words. We hesitated at the door in the hope of wiping a crack for the visitors outside the window.
What is personality color? Many psychological books classify people with different performances as different personalities, such as choleric, sanguine, clingy and so on. But as far as its image and memory are concerned, this classification is far less fresh than the four categories of red, blue, yellow and green, and the former is a little disgusting. What are the characteristics of these four people with different skin colors? Because people know their own advantages first, I simply distinguish them by the advantages of each color.
Red: highly optimistic, like novelty, variety and excitement. Emotion is rich and exposed. Like joking and teasing. People are more and more excited.
Blue: a serious philosophy of life. Deep-minded and independent, not blindly following. Pay attention to commitment, reliable and safe. Cautious and secretive, sensitive and delicate. High standards and the pursuit of perfection. I like the collision of ideas in small groups.
Yellow: I won't stop until I reach my goal. Fast and energetic. Have a strong desire to win. Good eloquence, don't like beating around the bush, strong sense of competition, full of energy, the more frustrated, the more brave.
Green: moderate, steady and low-key. Lotte knows life, otherwise. There is no fire in this life, and conflicts are skillfully discharged. Nature is tolerant and patience is gentle.
The yellow man invented the plane, the red man invented skydiving, the blue man invented the ejection chair and the green man flew with peace of mind!
Lin's story really involves too much. Interested people can also learn about Kim's situation. After Lin died, Liang Sicheng had a second wife, but he never got married. Kim is more complicated. . . . .
Look at other characters in martial arts novels, such as red Huang Rong and green infatuated Guo Jing. This is easy to understand, but the story of A Zi, which is easily overlooked in Eight Branches of the Dragon, is even more thought-provoking. Swimming is the crazy pursuit of A Zi, who has no money and willfulness. Giving up the light for A Zi really makes Jin Yong almost irreparable. I believe many viewers also feel very brain-burning and difficult to understand.
Regardless of other factors, the simple analysis by the method of controlled variables is as follows: A Zi is a happy and flamboyant red man, but at that time, You Tanzhi changed from a gentleman in Juxian Village to a prisoner, living in darkness all day, without happiness. The first time I saw A Zi, I was first shocked by her beauty and spirit, so I thought about dying as soon as possible without regret. In fact, it stems from a kind of depressed red that lacks happiness and an infinite yearning for another kind of unrestrained red. For example, in Good Girl, the hero imagines a golden wheat field. He is willing to be an eternal guardian, guarding his inner dreams and hopes. To you, Ah Zi is a wheat field. In order to protect the light in this darkness, he is willing to gouge out his own eyes. When A Zi died, his hopes were dashed and he jumped off a cliff to double suicide.
This is just to analyze love with personality, of course, it is full of too many irrationalities. For example, Yang Guo, the little dragon girl, is not good at single personality analysis. Why do red Yang Guo and blue-green little dragon girls teach people to live and die together? In fact, red and blue are opposite in personality color, so they are not harmonious. The real reason for their death is that they have been on and off in the wind and frost, making love a positive result?
So what kind of personality is suitable for being together? Can you do a connection question? I'm not sure, but personally (red plus blue, actually there is no such combination, I'm a little split): if I marry a wife, I'll discuss who will fold the quilt all morning.
If it's a red wife
Me: Beauty, you did well last night. Grandpa rewarded you for cleaning the battlefield.
Wife: Grandpa, my little daughter can't. Can you help my little girl?
If it's a yellow wife
Me: Wife, you fold the quilt today!
Wife: Boxing!
If it's a blue wife
Me: It's sunny today, and my wife is folded.
Wife: Will the weather change when you fold the quilt? Why should I fold?
If it's a green wife
Me: I have to rush to work, wife. Can you make the bed?
Wife: OK, be safe.
There is no better color for a partner, only whether it is suitable or not. In order to chase each other, some people play the right personality color of each other, which is a bit of hooliganism. Only by being loyal to yourself can we get a clear picture.