Add some salt to your shadow.
Pickle it up
air-dry
When you are old.
Wine matching
This song "Sweet Revenge" and "Want to Be a Father" both use the technique of "psychopathy", and the effects of the two are almost the same. A woman is afraid to see her beloved husband after aging, so she is determined to marinate her husband's shadow and keep that beautiful image in her mind forever. Deep love is hate. This is the acme of human emotion, and hatred is unforgettable. This "psychopathic" behavior becomes easy to understand.
Similarly, "I want to be a father once" is the same. As the next generation's gratitude to the previous generation's parents for breastfeeding, the author also has the "abnormal" behavior and psychology of "I want to be a father once", which is completely understandable, and this is also the greatest success of this poem.
Secondly, in poetry writing, the author reveals his true feelings that the idea of "wanting to be a father for his father" is not an accidental move, nor is it an absurd whimsy.
Father is old.
Stand opposite
It's like a little sinking of the foundation.
main wall
……
I went home with my father.
All the people in the alley looked at us with their necks twisted.
a little while
Suddenly want to be dad's dad.
Is this the idea of "having a moment"? No, it's the deep affection between father and son accumulated in my heart for many years. It was buried for a long time, but it was strengthened and deepened at a just right opportunity and found a breakthrough in an instant. This is a sudden outbreak of fatherly love, not an accident, but an inevitable product.
When the author dreamed his father's dream, he began to hope to repay his father with his behavior of nurturing, caring, caring and cultivating in the past (this is a synonym and should include all the previous generations).
Buy him the best toys.
Cook a meal and invite him to eat every day.
For him to go to school and study abroad.
At this time, our hearts will involuntarily feel an inexplicable tremor, which is the result of father's love. The author's "psychopath" here does not blaspheme the great and ordinary name "father", which is the embodiment of pure spontaneity of love. Reward with a hundredfold compensation: "The best food, delicious food, study abroad …" There will be more and better … What a holy idea at this time!
As the old saying goes, sheep have the grace of kneeling and nursing, and birds have the meaning of feeding back. Meng Jiao said in Ode to a Wanderer: "But how much affection there is in an inch of grass, it should be reported as three spring rays." Meng Jiao only put forward a direction and an intention. Unfortunately, he didn't tell us how to repay the long "Three Spring Scenes" with "nothing grows", but the author of this poem provided us with a feasible and convenient way to follow, intentionally or unintentionally. Although this kind of reward is counterintuitive and "abnormal" from the author's mouth, it is the most true.
The author's "abnormal" psychology, thoughts and behaviors are far more than these, and there are more waiting for his father to accept and enjoy:
If someone bullies him
I don't care.
Non-rolled sleeves
Give the dog a good beating "
Excessive irrational doting, the author's attitude is to defend his father's safety and calmness with outrageous and rude force. For the elderly father, who gave birth to me but lost the ability to resist and protect himself, these behaviors of the author, even those similar to "madness" and "metamorphosis", are incredibly and unconditionally accepted by us. We not only don't blame the author, but also look at it with appreciation.
Emotionally, we recognize the author's irrational consciousness and behavior, feel completely acceptable for his abnormal psychology and behavior, and also recognize this "misplaced" "identity", but how to treat and explain this behavior from a literary perspective?
Mr. Lu Junhua, a famous literary psychologist in China, once made an in-depth analysis of this phenomenon: "We must admit that lyricism is moral and aesthetic, and we must also admit that lyricism must be spontaneous and free, that is, for the sake of expression. People often don't know why or ask why when expressing. Emotion moves outward from the center, and' dancing' shows the spontaneity of lyricism ... When lyricism, he always expresses himself unconsciously and cannot reflect on his feelings at that time. Once he consciously or reflects on his expression, lyric activities will stop immediately. The more completely unconscious, the more abnormal, the more fully expressed; And the more fully expressed, the more abnormal and unconscious ... In artistic creation, the unconsciousness of emotional activities means the complete or certain loss of self-awareness. The loss of self-awareness is the unity of subject and object, or that people and I are not divided, and things are wrong. " [2] Mr. Lu Junhua's analysis is not detailed, specific and profound. This was the case when the author of I Want to Be a Dad created it. In a state of complete madness, he can't control his feelings. All my love for my father is unconsciously expressed incisively and vividly, and my poems are also written heartily.
Poetry is described in vague language. The author hardly uses many other artistic techniques to decorate his poems, and uses the language of daily life in his poems. The author completely uses a purely emotional thing to influence the author's mood and the reader's mood:
If someone bullies him
I don't care.
Non-rolled sleeves
Give the dog a good beating
And this kind of prosaic emotion is also the emotion of poetry. "Poetry is the language expression of spiritual purification and rhythmic emotion" [3], which is the essence of poetry and pays attention to "truth, goodness, beauty and utmost affection". Gross once pointed out: "There is absolutely no feeling of poetry in the world, but once it is expressed in aesthetic form for aesthetic purposes, there is absolutely no feeling that aesthetics cannot be used as poetic materials." [4] Gorky also pointed out: "Real poetry is often a poem of the soul, often a song of the soul. Even if it is slightly philosophical, it is always ashamed of things that specialize in truth. " [5] Lu Ping, a modern poetry critic in China, also said: "Poetry expresses the connotation of ideas with emotion and image." [6] It is in this case that the author's deep "fatherly love" has been brewed and sublimated, which constitutes an excellent poem. Let's see:
I went back to my hometown after work on National Day.
Father mingled with the children at the head of the village.
Stubbornly waiting for me
My father's attitude towards me is becoming more and more like a child.
But much better than when I was a child.
It's touching to be old and loving.
The author used a metaphor in his poem:
Father is old.
Stand opposite
It's like a little sinking of the foundation.
main wall
This is the author's real experience of life and his father's later life. His father, at the end of his life, can no longer stand the ups and downs of any years. No matter he used to be all-powerful and indomitable, now his father is over half a year old and has disappeared into the loess. It is inevitable to protect and care for his father.
Of course, there is a generation gap and a gap between father and son.
I talk to my father.
Father always nods.
I can't understand what I mean at the moment.
He grinned at me.
The inconvenience of this kind of communication is caused by the times and years, not the emotional obstacle between father and son. The communication between father and son has not stopped or been abolished. This is a rare and precious emotion!
If the father and son are compared to the sky and the earth, then this obvious "dislocation relationship" constitutes the greatest feature of this poem. Because of this "dislocation" relationship, what the author calls "abnormal psychology" appears. "Abnormal condition" is the concrete manifestation of "dislocation", which is the premise and psychological basis of "abnormal condition".
The sky and the earth, the earth and the sky are just like the blood relationship between father and son, and the maintenance of this blood relationship embodies one of the purest and most beautiful emotions of human beings-the inheritance and development, reproduction and development of human civilization.