Married for 55 years, together for less than 2 years, reunited after 4 1 year. Why did she leave alone sadly?

Zhuo Wenjun, a talented woman in the Han Dynasty, wrote a sentence in "Ballad of the White Head": I hope to get the heart of one person and never leave the white head. In the vast sea of people, it is not easy for two people who love each other to meet, and it is even more difficult to be together, especially in the chaotic Republic of China. No one can predict which will come first, tomorrow or the accident. Can you imagine? A pair of old ladies who have been married for 55 years have been together for less than 2 years. After being separated for 465,438+0 years, they met again. They should hug each other tightly and tell each other what they feel. However, the wife turned around and left alone in tears. What happened during the separation?

19 18, master of Chinese studies Nan was born in Wenzhou, Zhejiang. Nanjia is a big local family. His father, Nan Yangzhou, has been fighting for the family since he was 12 years old. He just pulled the declining Nan family back from the cliff and developed into a big family full of vitality. When Nan Huai Jin was a child, he didn't like studying. /kloc-graduated from primary school at the age of 0/3, with the lowest grade in the class. He only got an associate degree. In a rage, his father asked him to learn wood carving to gain a skill.

However, nan huaijin said he wouldn't go. He would rather teach himself at home than go to a carpenter to learn his craft. Seeing his stubbornness, my father stopped trying to persuade him, but after all, he was very kind to Nan, so he specially invited a knowledgeable teacher, Ye Gongfu, hoping that he could work harder in his studies. 1935, 17-year-old Nan married her cousin and soon gave birth to a child named "Nan Shunquan".

In fact, Nan is not interested in this marriage because it was given to him by his father when he was 10 years old. He doesn't want to marry his cousin, and her cousin doesn't want to marry her husband. The little guy they call Bean is three years younger than himself. After his son was born, Nan thought that his "mission" had been completed, so he immediately went to Zhejiang to study martial arts, leaving a person to raise the children and take care of his parents. The following year, nan huaijin went home in the summer vacation, and his wife Wang Cuifeng became pregnant again and gave birth to her second son, Nan Xiaoshun.

In this way, Nan Huai Jin and his wife can only meet once in a while. A few years later, they were together for less than two years. 1937 when War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression broke out, 20-year-old nan was admitted to the political class of the Central Military Academy. After graduation, he has been a political instructor. 1942, nan huaijin felt that he was enough as an instructor, so he entered Lingyin Temple, met Wang Qingfeng, a fencing master of Qingcheng School, and began to learn fencing.

A year later, Nan joined the camp of studying Buddhism, and he has been closed to the outside world ever since. In a word, it is very rare for South Africa to form its own unique theoretical system in the blending of Buddhism, Taoism and Confucianism. However, Nan Huai Jin left his wife at home. In a sense, he was ashamed that his wife had waited for him for many years. 1949, Nan was invited to give lectures in Taiwan Province, but for various reasons, he was forced to stay in Taiwan Province and never returned to his hometown for decades.

When Nan first arrived in Taiwan Province, he met a Jilin girl named Yang. They fell in love for a long time and finally got married. After regaining his freedom, Nan did not go back to his hometown to visit relatives, but settled in Hong Kong. It was not until her mother died in 1990 that nan huaijin remembered her original wife Wang Cuifeng. After she was taken to Hong Kong, she found that they hadn't seen each other for 4 1 year. Seeing Yang around Nan, I suddenly understood everything. She didn't say much, but left alone, leaving only tears in the corner of her eyes.