Discussion on Outlook on Life —— What kind of person do I want to be?

I am a person who doesn't love life very much. I only love myself.

Because of this, I just want to be a successful person when most people around me want to be a happy person, a kind person, a gentle person and a valuable person. Success is here, and I define it as the successful completion of my mission as a person. As for the rest, I depend on happiness.

It sounds selfish, even a little outrageous.

After all, since childhood, everyone will learn from Grandpa Mao's articles in textbooks, determined to be a noble person, a pure person, and a person who is free from vulgar tastes and beneficial to the people.

I'm not that noble, I just want to be a successful and diversified person. I love my dark side as much as my bright side.

? Of course, kindness, beauty and gentleness, which I also like, are not enough to be my goal. I am not kind for kindness, but happy for happiness. This is just one of many parts of a complete person. Personally, I think this is a congenital thing, and at most it can be modified and improved.

? When I first came into contact with philosophy, I thought about the meaning of life many times and what kind of goal I should go to. Perhaps it was because I was too young, and I was "possessed" when I thought about it.

? At that time, I only thought that people would leave when they were alive, so I felt that life was meaningless and gave up on myself.

? Although I still don't understand why the creator made us, it only has a short flowering period of dozens and hundreds of years. I prefer to regard human existence and iteration as a sense of ritual now. Eternal ceremony.

? Therefore, in this massive ceremony, the most important thing is the process, what we have experienced, not who we are defined as.

? There are so many people crossing the river in the world. What kind of person you want to be, and aiming at it, means that you have to be classified in a narrow space like many people, scribble the scope with one word, and obliterate your own particularity.

? This sounds boring to me. Of course, there will be many people who admire and yearn for it. As mentioned earlier, human beings are diverse.

? For me, I want to be a "divergent", and the interweaving of light and shade is my background color. ?

? Today, I still love myself and keep exploring new fields on the road to becoming a successful person. I am fascinated by the combination of science and aesthetics, I am addicted to floral art and poetry, and so on. I will be fascinated by new things in the future. This is not because I love them, but because this matter itself makes me happy. If one day it doesn't make me feel comfortable, I won't stay here anymore.

? This is certainly not love.

? Of course, if I want to be a successful person, I will remain kind and enterprising, as well as many excellent qualities, but I will never take these as my ultimate goal in life. These words, which sound vivid and beautiful, are only suitable to be placed in the right place, delineated and measured, so that generate can shine its greatest light.

? Becoming a successful person is always my ultimate goal. Everyone has what he wants to be, and every thought deserves to be respected. Life is a journey. We have a responsibility to get rid of it. I hope we can achieve the same goal through different routes.