Because there are too many!
In my opinion, it is normal to give you anything.
First of all, we should analyze the girl's personality.
She's the one who told you she was taken away.
You also don't give up!
Girls are just one word-chase!
Chase!
Girls like men with courage!
The degree of chasing proves how deep your love is!
Don't think so much about text messages!
Resourceful! It's still necessary to cheat!
Pay attention to tactics!
Ha ha! ~~~~
The following is a very useful article for you!
Ten ways to chase girls
If you are a master, you don't need to watch it.
1, it is easier to be moved by girls than by them. Girls like to be cared for, not controlled.
2, sweet talk with girls is more useful than expensive items.
3. Boys are girls' wallets, but not everything. Don't be stingy, but don't let her think that you just want to think of you when she has no money.
If the girl you like is very popular, don't always say to her, "Honey, don't talk to boys."
People say that men in love dare to promise anything, but as you are now, don't make too many impossible promises, saying that they will last forever, but don't go too far.
People also say that women in love dare not ask for anything, so boys should pay attention to buying things for girls they like, not only the price, but more importantly, she likes them.
Women are emotional animals.
People are emotional animals, especially women. Don't think what I said seems to mean that men are rational animals, or that reason is more dominant. I never thought men were rational. Most stupid things are done by men, hurting innocent people. In this respect, women are actually more admirable than men. People can be divided into living people and working people. People in life are actually the most real, while people in work add a lot of hypocrisy, even hypocrisy. Men are more inclined to work, and work is indeed rational, but rationality will inevitably suppress nature and be more utilitarian. Of course, some people work out of interest, in order to explore some unclear things, but that has nothing to do with life, and it can also be said that it is something outside.
Women are emotional animals, which means talking less about rationality and less about problems or doctrines. Of course, if a wife or fellow friend likes to talk about this, that's another matter. But if you want to chase a girl as your future girlfriend or even wife, then talk less. Don't sulk, just say "Alas, the people of China have suffered" when we meet, and then talk about a lot of freedom, democracy, agriculture, countryside and farmers. What do you want? Want to show your sympathy? Do you want to prove to yourself that talented people are well educated? This has nothing to do with love. Love is emotional. I think it's okay to use these sour and controversial things to trick girls. Emotional animals should be moved by emotional things, which is "grasping" in our words. Grasping depends on the palm of your hand, not the mysterious thing of compassion. What's the use of pretending to be a thinker? I think it's no use for thinkers to catch girls with "thoughts". It's all congealed fat, clothes, slaves (I'm your slave and so on), whips. If we say, alas, my ideal is freedom and democracy, let's fight for freedom together. Girls can reply to you completely: well, go find your freedom.
Don't think that you are brilliant and accomplished (such as having a professional title and publishing a book) can become a weight for chasing girls. That's naive Girls don't marry books or titles. Excellence is good, but the key is whether two people are suitable or not. Two words, is "feeling". People have no feelings for you, and it's useless for you to be a cow. Some people may say, how do Yu Jie and his wife explain? I said, Yu Jie is Yu Jie. Can you compare with Yu Jie? Yu Jie should be the best among this generation of young people. Maybe 10 years later, you will be ten times better than him, but now you can admit it. In addition, Yu Jie is lucky, which I think is the most important thing.
Don't think that girls like to make some trinkets, and you can't stand talking to you loudly. Bear with it, it's a primitive impulse. Two things are inevitable. First, they love beauty. Psychology has been tested, and a mirror has been built in the street with a camera behind it. As it turns out, most women swaggered over to take pictures, then posed and got dressed. A larger number of men pretend to be disdainful, but in fact, they all secretly take a look, find out that they are not dressed up at the fastest speed, and then decorate them when others are not paying attention. Results The proportion of men peeking at the mirror is much higher than that of women. What does this mean? I won't talk about social morality and evaluation criteria, at least it shows that women are more real than men. Second, return to childhood. Psychological research shows that the most comfortable state of people is the baby state. Everyone subconsciously wants to be a child, protected by others, and willing to shrink back or bend over when sleeping (just like in the mother's womb). To some extent, sound and anger are also memories of childhood. Of course, I hate being angry in public, but when a girl is alone with you, you should be happy. At least she thinks you can protect her. Men seem to be suppressed by external social and moral constraints. It is both a man's glory and a man's sorrow. I have seen many male patients who are in pain in the hospital, either calling their mothers or moaning grievances, which are more childish than children. When the physical pain is greater than the social moral pain, people will eventually return to their nature.
Some people always say that women are vain, but I object. Vanity needs to be "shown off", and women are easily "envied" and "jealous", but what about men? I won't talk about it.
Having said that, how can you chase a girl with "sensibility"? Poetry is a corner forgotten by modern people, and it is indeed a shame of the times. If you can't write a good poem, don't write a few sour words, hoping to impress girls. Poetry is the patent of genius. If you think you are not a genius, you'd better avoid it. (I will talk about poetry later, so I won't say much here. What about the love letter? Love letters are not easy either. I can't write love letters. I haven't read other people's love letters, so I won't say it if I don't know. Let's make fun of girls. Tell me something interesting in your life, such as the naivety and absurdity of college. You must try to make girls laugh. The part of girls' brain that dominates "laughter" is more developed than that of men, and it seems to be in the temporal lobe. A little excitement can make them happy. You know, men know how to create humor, while women know how to appreciate humor. If a girl is in a happy mood, her chatterbox will open and she will tell you more. Don't feel bored with trivial things in your head. Life is trivial. Women's sensibility is also reflected here. She pays more attention to details than big problems. Always talk about the country and the nation is too empty, or talk about individuals. This is liberalism.
It is better to send girls something inexpensive from time to time. Don't think it is foolish to give expensive things. Although good girls like to buy clothes and trinkets, they actually know how to save more than men. I believe my own brother won't pursue a girl who likes extravagance and waste. ) If she takes an expensive item that sells her arms and thighs, the girl may be moved, but it will make her very uneasy. She will feel that she owes you something, and that invisible emotional pressure may turn a good thing into a bad thing.
Emotion should be romantic. Life is boring, you should know how to create freshness. The romance here is not roses, beaches and candlelight, but freshness. Please forgive my wordiness. Compared with happiness, the candlelight at Rose Beach is 108,000 miles worse. You have to relax, and then relax, so that girls feel relaxed when they are with you, as if all the constraints are gone. This is the best state. Social morality is actually quite strict with women. If she feels that all these messy rules are gone when she is with you, then you are almost successful. How to relax? Be a villain and a scoundrel. Don't pretend to be deep or something, which makes people think you are a thinker. It is often said that girls like bad boys. This is just an exaggeration. Who wants to find the bad guys? What it really means is that girls like boys who are a little aggressive or hooligan. Laughter and scolding are the most lethal. Of course, a girl is occasionally mixed with a little so-called thought-he is not a gangster and will like you more.
Of course, the most important problem is that love is something that can be met but not sought (this sentence is really old-fashioned). Maybe you will ask, can't meet, is it to keep me waiting? No, it's better to be sour again, with a lyric: even if it is an agreement in a previous life, you should look for it with your heart. You can't find your other half online, or it's very difficult, unless you are too awesome, and girls are quite smart. You must find it in your life. As I said, people in life are more real, even more real than people in the network. Because the network has left you too much imagination, when you meet a lover in the network, there will be a big gap between imagination and reality, and that sense of loss may completely dispel your good wishes ... If you think it is too difficult to find a suitable life, I can only say that you are too harsh.
So, what kind of girl are you looking for? Be sure to find a smart and aura person, so that when you are with her, there will be many sparks worth remembering. Don't think I have to find someone who agrees with me. My point of view can be adjusted, but I can't cultivate intelligence and aura. This is natural. Smart and aura girls can better understand your intentions or ideas and are better at arguing with you about certain issues. Even if you have different opinions, you can find problems that you are not aware of. Of course, health and beauty are also important. But in my opinion, they can only rank third and fourth, far less important than intelligence and aura.
I have said so much, don't call me an old hand. First, I am good at psychology. Second, many conclusions were gradually drawn after I found a girlfriend.
First, what kind of first impression should I leave on mm (time: I just started to contact mm)
1, I think the most important thing is to let mm see your self-motivated.
The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't be "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should make mm feel that you are a self-motivated person.
Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell mm that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream.
2. Be confident and responsible.
Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.
It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.
Not too formal, but not too casual.
Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed.
Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.
Step 4 look mature
A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.
Second, how to further contact mm (time: the stage of starting to chase)
1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.
Think about it. Most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat, Andy Lau or kevin costner). Good feelings need to be realized through constant understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.
Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you rush directly to have sex, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you come out resolutely from the beginning, you will basically be bored back immediately.
Step 2 start with a low profile
First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a "good friend". Those with taste can also ask the other party to be a "confidante" or something. In short, don't say "chasing you".
Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then there is less chance for a girl to "refuse" you-how can you refuse if you don't chase her? !
This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days. You should communicate fully and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air.
Don't be too impatient in the process of communication.
Relax and don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years).
Staying with people all day, naturally you won't think you are good. If you are indifferent for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence.
Also, don't take out the ambition of "you don't want to marry" It is not good for the price to drop too low. Sometimes you can play a little trick.
4. Create opportunities appropriately.
I said before, don't turn things into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity.
You can collect information and find ways to turn waiting for rabbits into encounters; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite someone to do something with you.
In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can consult your predecessors.
5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.
Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.
As the saying goes, "something for nothing". You are putting pressure on others by giving them something like this. People will feel indebted to you, so they will find ways to repay you. If they can't, they will find a way not to associate with you, so they won't always owe you a favor.
If you want to show your sincerity, please invite girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat or an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people, not taken home.
Third, what is a "girlfriend"?
1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.
You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". On a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" held her hand; In "Willow Shoot on the Moon", you suddenly attack and kiss her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend.
I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" "
So, don't rush to pierce enough paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.
2. What is "confession"?
As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say that he is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".
3. Have you ever had to confess?
Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while.
At this time, confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side was forced to release the "winning hand". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.
4. Don't export the word "love" easily.
I often see a "bold confession" in the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility.
A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.
Fourth, civilized love cannot be forced.
1, not every mm can catch up.
A good girl will always be chased by many people, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. There will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the principle of chasing mm, you can't catch up with either twin.
Look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who has never graduated from primary school is kind to you, earning 600 yuan a month and buying you 700 yuan as a gift (overdraft), and willing to be a cow and a horse for you, you will not fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you must feel bored.
So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.
2. Chasing mm is a serious social activity.
Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MMS are snobs (few). If you are not convinced, you can prove with facts that "she was blind at that time". Never mistake others for yourself.
Finally, don't be cynical in front of MM, cynicism sometimes means "you are a loser".
Lesson one:
Of course, the first thing to know is the girl's mobile phone number.
Secondly, you should be interested in her.
Send a short message: "I was very happy to chat with you last time." Can I invite you out to chat again? "
Note: If the girl agrees, the place she is looking for is a quiet bar, so don't go to the restaurant or D for the time being.
Lesson two:
Don't forget to send a short message when you get home from the date: nice talking to you and looking forward to seeing you again. Good night to you.
Let her know that you are a sweet person.
The next day, you can also send her an interesting message, such as:
1. The chimpanzee accidentally stepped on the stool pulled by the gibbon. After the gibbon cleaned it gently and carefully, they fell in love. When asked how they got together, the chimpanzee said with emotion: ape dung! It's all ape shit!
I am a bean, and I fell down. I am very discouraged. What can make me watch the kite? -You. There is such a thing as "pig encouraging beans".
On the birthday of the giant panda, someone asked him what his wishes were. The giant panda said: I have two wishes in my life. One is to find a Chinese doctor to get rid of my dark circles, and the other is to take a color photo.
……
Let her know that you are a humorous person.
Note: Never send pornographic jokes.
Lesson three:
When you get up in the morning, send her a message:
Good morning! The early bird catches the worm. How many did it catch today?
I remember a MM answered me like this:
The early worm is eaten by birds, hehe, I am more like a worm.
Answer: la la la. The late bird catches the worm. I eat, I eat, I eat. Wow, what a big beauty bug! Just right, full. Stay for lunch.
Note: it is a beautiful woman. Girls are vain. Usually, you can send a message like this:
1, I think what you are wearing today is very special and cute.
2. Seeing your beautiful skirt today will make my eyes fall. ~! ~
……
Don't be stingy with your description of beauty, be as beautiful as you want.
Lesson four:
You'll get familiar with it after a while, and it's your turn to play tricks. In ancient times, Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty tried his best to bring R litchi to Xi 'an in order to make Princess Bo smile. Now use your text message to please the girl you like.
1, suggest playing tricks: If there is an afterlife, let's be mice, love each other silly, live silly, and simply snuggle together silly. When the mountain is closed by snow and ice, we will nest in the warm haystack, I will hold you and feed you rat poison.
2. It's not bad to send an English short message: Hey, what are you doing now? Close your eyes, I will be by your side and miss you day and night!
3. Warm greetings: Are you busy? Nothing, I just want to tell you that I miss you in a way that doesn't bother you. I hope that when you receive my message, you will have a smile on your lips and let your friends around you know that you are happy.
4, teasing, deepening the impression: I said: "You are a pig." You said, "I am a pig." From then on, I called you "pig monster", and finally one day you couldn't stand it and shouted at me in public: "I'm not a pig."
5, or the implied trick is effective: Listen, I want to chase you! I thought you were! It is you that I have been looking for! I will seize this opportunity! I must catch up with you! Dead fly, I'll shoot you! )
6. The advantage of texting is that you can say things that you usually dare not say in person. Even if you are so sour and spiteful, girls like sweet talk and care about others:
If one day, you feel tired, as long as you turn around, my blessing will be by your side, no matter how far away, no matter how many years, this blessing will turn into a blue star, flashing in the morning, flashing in the sunset, flashing in every inch of your life.
Know what I'm doing? Give you five choices: A: I miss you, B: I miss you very much, C: I miss you very much, D: I can't live without you, E: All of the above.
Lesson five:
This lesson is about the quantity and quality of texting:
1, the quantity is small. Girls shouldn't like boys who are full of mothers and fathers. Are you tired of chattering around all the time (catching up is another matter)?
2. Don't always send short messages copied online. Use your own thinking. Since you like her, use your brain and send text messages with your heart.
3, occasionally fishing for three days and drying the net for two days, so I am addicted to it. After repeated violent SMS attacks, I suddenly stopped texting for a day or two. When your message becomes a part of a girl's life, she will wonder why you didn't send me a message today. When she sends you a text message, no matter what she says, you're halfway there.
After giving you enough SMS care, the first message a girl sends you is often a complaint, such as "I'm bored to death" and "I'm about to collapse". Hey, hey, what are you waiting for? Girls are most likely to succeed when they need help most. Please encourage her quickly:
In fact, the sky is blue and the clouds will eventually disperse; In fact, the sea is not wide, and this shore is connected with the other; In fact, tears are sweet, when your heart has a wish; In fact, I hope you are happy every day.
You should stick to the direction of progress. No matter what happens, I will be with you. I hope to see a strong me and a strong you! ! !
It is necessary to give her a call after sending a text message.
Lesson 6
Care about the weather, care about mm Send a weather forecast to your MM every day:
The lowest temperature tomorrow 1 degree, and the highest temperature 13 degree. Let me tell you that caring about the weather means caring about you. Don't forget to add an extra dress. (XX, it's yourself)
Do not type the contents in parentheses in a text message. Don't copy mechanically in online short messages. Turn other people's things into your own. That is the highest state!