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Walking in the hustle and bustle of the world and experiencing the ebb and flow of life, years have engraved vicissitudes not only on people's faces, but also in people's hearts.
I have gone through the youth of "just classmates and teenagers, in the prime of life" and the youth of "who am I in today's world?" . Inadvertently, I came to the autumn of life, where I was not confused and felt my fate.
Although we can't be calm in peace, people have become a lot heavier and calmer, less agitated emotionally and more calm, less arrogant and more peaceful in expression, less fantasy and more reality in life, less rounded edges and corners, less publicity and more introverted personality. Suddenly, I realized that peace is the best state of life.
This calmness is the atmosphere and mood after suffering and vicissitudes, and it is also the calmness and calmness after ups and downs. This kind of calmness is the calmness and self-sufficiency of "there is great beauty in heaven and earth without saying anything", the detachment and peace of "being indifferent and quiet", and the open-mindedness and detachment of "looking back at the bleak place, there is no rain or shine"; It is free and easy to "pick chrysanthemums under the east fence and see Nanshan leisurely"; This is the calm and Zen of "I will walk until the water checks my path, and then sit and watch the rising clouds".
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It is manifested as an attitude, winning without arrogance, losing with grace, not judging heroes by success or failure, listening to destiny as much as possible, and being at ease;
Showed as a kind of demeanor, relaxed, tepid, friendly and gentle, perseverance. Do to others what you don't want them to do to you;
It is a kind of self-cultivation, kind and generous, tolerant and generous, open-minded and honest and restrained. Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with things;
Expressed as a kind of strength, facing the complexity and noise of the outside world, calmly and persistently. As the saying goes, "it is still tenacious and is the wind in the southeast and northwest."
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Calm is not indifference, but observing the glitz of the world coldly and keeping a quiet and peaceful life alone. Don't be arrogant when you are proud, and don't be depressed when you are frustrated. It is a calm and calm determination cultivated in the experience of life;
Calm is not weakness, but an open-minded state, which is the embodiment of calm, mature and self-confidence. As the saying goes, "the benevolent is not worried, the wise is not confused, and the brave is not afraid";
Being calm is not stupid, it is the awakening after watching all the vicissitudes of life and the calm in my heart, but it is the interpretation that even being smart is stupid. It is a great wisdom that I cherish to watch others busy and chase from the other side.
Calm is an ability. Calm is a kind of accumulation. Calm people know how to filter out troubles. As the saying goes, nine times out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory, in other words, there are only eleven or two things that are satisfactory, while calm people will "always think one thing or two, but not eight or nine", and their eyes are more on the world scenery and the beauty of life.
In fact, people don't need too many. Although not as good as Yan Hui, the simple life is the most interesting. "The benevolent Leshan Mountain is picturesque, and the wise enjoy endless water. A glass of wine is leisurely, and a cup of tea is dull. " In the end, if you come naked, you have to walk naked and take nothing with you.
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It's not easy for people to come to the world once. Don't be too hard on yourself. You should learn to enjoy life, don't expect things that don't belong to you, and don't have to do things that you can't do. Some desires can be suppressed, some disputes can be compromised, some people can be alienated, some things can be abandoned, and some words can be disdained. ...
If it's worth it, strive for it. If you don't deserve it, just look and think. There's no need to go to so much trouble. I'm lucky, not my life.
Of course, calmness is not pursuing nothing, being passive and deliberately indulgent, or being self-enclosed and narcissistic. Calm people care more about inner wealth. No matter whether you are busy or idle, you should learn knowledge, and you can't be proficient in piano, chess, painting and calligraphy, nor can you be knowledgeable. They just want to enrich their connotation, be more refined and less philistine, learn to build a rich and noble spiritual world, and make their lives more poetic and warm.
Jiang Lin, Shadow Moon Week 47, Chapter 2, Class 3, total 140.
A senior high school English teacher, who asks for leave to write and translate, can't be a beautiful literary youth, but he can also express his views in his own private plot and bring a few children of relatives and friends after school. This is what many teachers want to do, from primary school to senior high school. I'm already satisfied!