The world has been asking us to be like this, to be like this. In everyone's eyes, we all look different. Some people see your tenderness, some people see your kindness, some people see your efforts, and some people only see your fun.
This is the world. You may be different in everyone's eyes Even the family can't see all of you. In fact, only yourself is the mirror of your life. You can see your own hardships and your own reasons.
But many times in life, our own mirrors are often covered with years of dust, which makes us unable to see ourselves clearly, and sometimes even get lost, but in the end, we will finally see what we want, see who we really are, and strive to be ourselves.
No matter what we do in this life, we are just ourselves. Doing what we should do and becoming what we want to be is the meaning of our efforts.
People, originally with their heads in the sky and feet on the ground, have Lang Lang Gan Kun and Wan Li rivers and mountains in their hearts. Freedom and love, distance and poetry.
However, life is rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, so many times, in order to carry the rice, oil and salt of life, we have to bend down, lower our heads and move forward slowly.
But all roads lead to Rome, all roads lead to Rome, and in the end there is only one local law, and that is our own heart. In the end, we will follow our hearts and see our hearts.
Indeed, it is not easy to be born.
It's just that many difficulties in our life are due to life. We should live as others expect and live as ourselves. However, we can't have both. If we want to meet other people's expectations, we will always fail ourselves. If we only be ourselves, we will live up to the expectations of others.
Perhaps many times, because we don't want to disappoint others, we would rather wronged ourselves. It may also be because we dare not disappoint others, so we try to keep up with the world and many demands on us.
Osamu Dazai is a sensitive and fragile person by nature. He doesn't like to cater to others, but life requires him to cater to others everywhere. As he said, all my pain is because I can't meet all the expectations of others.
I'm sorry I was born human. I'm sorry that I can only be myself in the end, but I can't do what the world requires.
Everyone in the world is never for anyone, but for himself. Even if you ask others and expect others, it is for yourself.
Whether reading history or novels, I am most afraid of three things:
I am afraid that cultural people will succumb to the power of money;
Second, I am afraid that the hero will cheat for the hero;
Third, I am afraid that people will lose themselves in the environment!
Qin Gui was talented, and Cai Jing was talented, but what they left to history was not fragrance, but an eternal legacy. As long as many people mention them, they will always think of traitors and traitors, which is a kind of defection of literati.
It is true that everyone has the right to choose what kind of person he wants to be, but in the end, we just choose to be ourselves, not to be an accessory of something, and not to pin ourselves on something.
Whether it is Qin Gui or Cai Jing, I don't know whether their choice is right or wrong (because history can't be commented, history can only be used for reference, and it can only make people constantly reflect). But in the end, they forget their integrity as a person for money and power.
They finally succumbed to the power of money and became the mud legs of money and power!
Every time I see Cai Jing's calligraphy, I feel beautiful. However, his heart changed and he became a traitor. Qin Gui knelt in front of the statue of Yue Fei for a thousand years, bent over.
It is not only they who succumb to money and eventually work for it, but also countless people who have lost their sincerity.
Every time I think about it, my heart is jammed. I feel that I have no culture. I only read a few years and know a few words, but I am tired of the submission of this kind of cultural person. Just like every time I watch martial arts, I always feel a little sad when I see the hero cheated by the villain.
Everyone is trying to change their lives. Educated people are human beings, and they also need means of subsistence and daily necessities, but a gentleman loves money and takes it wisely.
I am not angry about people's situation, nor do I live in chains, but one should do something. In any case, you can't lose the nature of standing!
Most people agree with the vane of hard work. What most people oppose is the misunderstanding and quagmire of this society.
My friend is now in a pharmaceutical company, holding a high commission and sitting in the position of supervisor. He said, I have not been defeated by reality, and I can't continue to face this reality!
He has a girlfriend who has talked for several years, and now she is old enough to get married. The woman's family requires a house in the city, at least a public car!
He is a penholder and has no choice but to sell medicine.
Looking at his situation, I always feel that life is sometimes too ruthless, only looking at the results, never looking at any process, only looking at your credit, never considering your hard work!
There are many situations like him, and many people have become what they once hated most! Many people are slowly becoming what they hate!
People will be changed by the environment, but some people will eventually change the environment.
When I watched the film Tianqu, my heart shook violently.
Huang Dafa, the village party secretary of a poor mountain village, took the lead in digging canals, which enabled the villagers to use water and get rid of poverty. For ten years, it took time and effort every time, but it still failed. As long as it rains heavily, the channel they worked so hard to build will be swallowed up by the scourge. They worked so hard to dig a hole in the mountain, and finally the water didn't come!
However, Huang Dafa did not give up. He decided to study water conservancy knowledge, so he went to the county water conservancy bureau to study. A man in his twenties who doesn't even know a few words goes to learn water conservancy, and no one wants to teach him.
The little gentleman said, I can't teach you. You want to learn water conservancy if your score is less than 20 points?
He smiled and replied, I'm just studying, aren't I?
After learning that, he wanted to continue digging ditches, but the government's subsidy funds were not enough, and he needed to raise 10000 yuan by himself, almost every 200 yuan. 200 yuan is a huge sum of money to that poor village.
His old friends and neighbors can say, it's not that I don't believe you, but have you calculated that you can still give 200 yuan to each family?
He said, I Huang Dafa didn't have that skill. I worked as a branch secretary for half my life and didn't make everyone rich, but I quit this matter!
For the money, he took out the coffin prepared at home and prepared to sell it, but his wife stopped him. For the villagers, the coffin is the house after death, which is more important than many things. Finally, my daughter took out the bride price money and got 200 yuan!
Huang Dafa's family is also full of difficulties and problems. My son has gone out to work and my daughter is ill! Coupled with the lack of villagers' support, all this was difficult, but he did not give up. He said that this time, with knowledge and technology and the support of the state, we will certainly be able to do it.
He overcame many difficulties, called back his son who was working and took him to work.
Finally, the villagers were moved and decided to roll up their sleeves and work together.
Trenching is still going on. He asked his son to go to the farthest place, and he went to the most dangerous place himself!
He made a hole in the most dangerous place, and the bad news of his daughter came from home. He ran home desperately, but his daughter left without him!
Finally, the canal was dug and the village gradually became rich.
He ran to his daughter's grave and cried!
It suddenly occurred to me that this man lives in peace. Tired as he is, he has no regrets. Finally, he looked at the watery terraces and felt beautiful. The sunset in the mountain village is also beautiful.
The passage through the cliff is not only water, but also a kind of hope, a person's hope and a group of people's hope!
At that moment, I felt that people are human because of their own persistence, and also because of this desperate tolerance and infinite love for mankind!
Some people say that the biggest disease in the world is poverty! But I think the biggest disease in the world is not poverty, but people's attitude towards poverty. The greatest destruction is not death, but when you let yourself go to the abyss!
And the greatest eternity is the embodiment of life value and the flash of life meaning!
How powerful mankind is. When he thinks he is himself, the whole world will make way for him. When he persists, he will certainly learn something from it.
Yes, greatness is a career, and sublimity is a character. Maybe we did our best, and in the end we were just ordinary, but our hearts were beautiful and rich because of our efforts. Our life is perfect because we become ourselves.
There is a saying in the ancient Greek temple: Be yourself. Socrates practiced this sentence all his life. At the end of his life, he also said, I have done what I should do all my life and am becoming myself.
However, people are so weak that they are hungry without a meal. In this contradictory world, the truest appearance of live high requires not only efforts, but also choices, and more importantly, our own understanding of ourselves.
I once wrote an article called "A person's cognition determines his life". What efforts will you make for his life in your heart?
It can be hard to be born a man. We have worked hard all our lives, not to change the world, but not to be changed by the world.
We work hard all our lives just to be ourselves. There are many ways to define success in this world, and everyone may have different standards and views on success.
But there is a kind of success, that is, a person becomes what he wants to be, and a person is who he really is. Living in the way you like is success.