Today is the weekend, so I borrowed some books from the old people in Nanshan. In the Nanshan home for the elderly, which is full of yellow canna flowers, we have tea and chat together. I told the old man in Nanshan about my recent unsatisfactory situation. The old man in Nanshan pointed to the sunset and sighed: Life always has ups and downs. When you are down and out, these four old sayings are the secret of counterattack. You should remember them and make good use of them. So, what are the four old sayings of Nanshan old man that can make people counterattack?
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The first old saying: human feelings are as thin as paper, and things are as new as chess.
The old man in Nanshan said that when a person is down and out, he will feel the taste of human feelings more deeply. Yes, the ancients said: the poor don't ask in downtown, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. Actually, what is this sentence? Human feelings are as thin as paper A vivid interpretation of ... A person is down and out, and friends around him, even some of our relatives, are afraid of being implicated, so they adopt an attitude of avoiding us. What's more, they will point fingers behind our backs and think that we have done something terrible to get this end. In the face of such misunderstanding and blow, we are naturally very sad, but we should also remember? Human feelings are as thin as paper The second half sentence: The world is like a chess game. Things are ups and downs, and things are vicissitudes. Thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi? Life always has too many ups and downs. When it develops, we should be calm. When we are down and out, as long as we don't give up, then with our efforts, we will certainly be able to achieve the counterattack after being down and out.
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The second old saying: If there is a good house, there must be Qing Yu; If you accumulate a bad house, there will be more disasters.
The old man in Nanshan said that the ancients said: If there is a good home, there must be Qing Yu; If you accumulate a bad house, there will be more disasters. What does this sentence mean? This sentence actually tells us to do good deeds and accumulate virtue: because a family with accumulated virtue will certainly have more blessings that it can't enjoy and can leave to its children and grandchildren; Those who don't accumulate good deeds will have enough disasters that they can't bear and leave them to their descendants. When we are down and out, if there are venerable old people at home, then it is easy for our family to get more help from everyone and let us tide over the difficulties slowly. When we are down and out, we should know how to be kind to others, save our strength and avoid conflicts with others, so as not to cause our strength to be suppressed unexpectedly. Life has its ups and downs. When you are rich, you should do more good deeds. In times of adversity, we should know how to protect ourselves, be kind to others and do more good deeds, which is one of the secrets to realize the counterattack in life.
The third old adage: The success or failure of a lifetime is related to a friend's virtue, so don't be careless.
The old man in Nanshan said that the ancients said: the success or failure of a lifetime is related to the merits and demerits of friends, and we should not be careless. Choosing friends is the most important thing in life. Whether a person's life is successful or not is closely related to whether the friends he makes are virtuous, excellent and noble, so he can't help but be cautious in choosing friends. Yes, people often tell us that bad choice of friends will lead to endless troubles? On the road of life, if we make friends with friends, then our life will inevitably fall into unexpected disasters. Especially when we are down and out, a good friend can give us a glass of good wine to remind us and give us a hand. Bad friends? And then what? But you can only kick us in the back. Therefore, life has ups and downs. When we are developed, we should make more mentors and friends. When we are down and out, we should remember this old adage and be more careful when making friends.
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The fourth old saying: you can't travel thousands of miles without accumulating steps; If you don't accumulate small streams, you won't be a river.
The old man in Nanshan said that there is no success, and you can succeed casually. A person can reach the peak of his career, which must be related to his own efforts and life accumulation. When a person is down and out, at this time, we will face many difficulties and obstacles. At this time, we should know more? If you don't accumulate steps, you will be thousands of miles away; If you don't accumulate a small stream, you can't become a river The truth. On the road of life, we have to pay more hardships and efforts than others. However, as long as we know how to persist and move forward step by step, then we will certainly achieve the goal of making a comeback in life. Therefore, life always has ups and downs. When it is developed, we should understand? Keep the money? When we are down and out, we should understand? Many a mickle makes a mickle? This is the root of our counterattack.