To people who love each other but can't be together.

Love, like a bright star on the horizon, is dazzling, fascinating and fascinating. For love, everyone has a longing and longing. I long for someone who really loves me. I can soar in the ocean of love and feel the sweetness and romance of love. Spending a lifetime with someone you love seems to be everyone's best expectation. That kind of life will be interesting and colorful. Even if life is dull and full of love, life will be touching, satisfying and happy. But not all love can have a perfect ending, and it can be as beautiful as expected. In the world, there are always too many things that go against your wishes and you can't do whatever you want. As Zhang Ailing said, "I thought love could fill the regret of life. However, it is love that creates more regrets. " Love, this fantasy is beautiful, but in reality it is the regret of many people. There is a kind of love that can't be together. I love someone very much, but for various reasons, I can't protect them in the form of being around each other. I can only hide my love in my heart and endure the pain and suffering I can't love. No matter who you love, they don't love you; Or you love each other, but you have to part because of reality, which will be the regret of love and bring indelible helplessness and pain. Fate comes and goes. It's all fate. Buddha said: Fate comes and goes, which is an act of God; Deep margin and shallow margin are fate. It is a kind of fate that two people can meet and fall in love from the vast sea of people, and it is destined to be affectionate in this life. But not all predestinations can last a lifetime. There is a kind of fate, called "fate". It is destiny takes a hand to meet each other secretly, but there is no chance to be together for a lifetime. This life can only be a passer-by for each other's life, not holding hands. Such "inseparable fate" is an inescapable fate. Whether you are willing to face it or not, whether you are willing to accept it or not, it is hard to change the ending of not being together. Fate has come and gone, deep and shallow, all of which are fate, providence and fate. There is a kind of love called not being together. We love each other very much, but we can't continue to be together, or even have no chance to be together at all. I can only bury my love silently in my heart and endure the helplessness of love. Whether it is fate or shallow fate, it is doomed that we can't be together in this life. No matter how much we love each other, we can only be happy. If you love but can't, you will learn to let go of persistence. This is a persistent spirit, which is certainly worthy of recognition. But excessive persistence will become a kind of stubbornness, and eventually it will be mired in the quagmire. It is important to persist in loving someone, but when love is not enough, you should still know how to let go and let go. People who can't be together, even if they love each other deeply, don't be persistent. Because that persistence is meaningless and can't reverse the ending. Excessive attachment to feelings will only make you more miserable and even ruin your life. People who can't be together should let go, give up completely from the heart, stop dreaming and expecting, and accept the reality rationally. Let go of those who love but can't, and walk out of love without ending, which is chic and transparent. It's not that hard to let go after all. As long as you understand, you can let go. This is a heartfelt abandonment. Only by letting go can we free ourselves from pain and despair and live a good life with hope and passion instead of confusion and hesitation. For the rest of my life, Zhang Ailing once said, "It takes only two things to forget someone, time and new love." New love is not so easy to get. After all, it is not easy to be tempted by one person. On the other hand, time is a good medicine to cure mental trauma. As long as the time is long enough, you can forget someone and let go of someone, even if you love them deeply. Time can dilute everything and make people forget. When you love someone deeply, but you can't be together, just give everything to time, let time take away all the pain and heal the scars in your heart. For the rest of my life, the most important thing is never to be affectionate without suffering, but to know how to please myself and make myself happy. In the face of people who can't be together, when they are deeply immersed in feelings with no ending, they should learn to let go, let go, and stay true should be good for themselves. Live high is the most important thing in one's life. Spend more time on enriching yourself and improving yourself, and don't dwell on the love you can't have, so time will pass quickly and it will not be so painful. Falling in love, but not being together, is a kind of helplessness, but I have to face the reality. Pain seems to be a feeling that everyone will experience, and it is an inevitable bad experience in one's life. But it is precisely because of the pain that the taste of life can be truly tasted and a complete life can be considered. Love is not allowed, although it will hurt, but for a person, it will make people grow up and become a better self. Love is not allowed, it should be regarded as an emotional "disaster". You don't need to be stuck in it all your life. If you have suffered, you should put it down. For the rest of your life, you still have to live hard, don't love and lose yourself, and be decadent. For people who love each other but can't be together. Two lovers who love each other deeply but can't be husband and wife, and can't get close to each other in this life! Buddha said: If you love someone deeply, if you can't be together, it's because your lover who owed emotional debts in his last life will come to you to repay him in this life. So, let you meet, let you fall in love, in the process of falling in love until you pay off all your debts, and then leave quietly, let you try the pain of love and miss the taste of sleepless nights. I love deeply, I can't get it, I can't see it, I want to contact, I'm afraid of being disturbed, I don't contact and I miss it. I'm sorry to be tortured by this feeling, and I regret it ... I shouldn't meet and fall in love, I shouldn't be so devoted, I shouldn't forget who I am, and I should also maintain that love without ending. Deep love can't depend on each other, deep affection can't grow old together, helpless fate, helpless oneself, can only pin their hopes on the next life, hoping to meet a lover who loves deeply but can't walk together in the next life, so that the next life can make up for the regrets in this life, or hope that they will never meet in the next life. There is no love without meeting, and there is no emotional entanglement; If you don't meet, there will be no heartbeat and no heartache. Because in this life, I have tasted enough of this deep love, but I can't accompany it. Only acacia misses that bitter taste, which is too bitter and astringent. As long as we don't meet in the next life, we won't be together, and we won't continue the heartbreaking pain in the next life. The taste of pain is too painful to bear. So in the next life, don't meet again. It's not that I shrink back, but that I understand that love between husband and wife can't be done. No matter how beautiful it is, no matter how hard you try, it can only blossom and bear no fruit. In the next life, don't meet again, because it's hard to let go of this unforgettable feeling and get out of this scarred love sea in this life ... no one can understand the taste of life, and no one can know how painful life is except himself. In the next life, let's not meet again. Because I don't want to repeat the love and pain in this life in the next life; In the next life, let's not meet again, because I can't bear the painful thoughts and torture any more. In the next life, as long as I don't meet you, I don't have to worry about meeting you, falling in love with you, and finally I can't help but miss you ... for someone who loves you deeply but can't be together. There is a kind of love, obviously deep, but it really can't be together for life. This kind of love is not that love itself is not beautiful enough, but that both people who love each other have families, or one of them has a family. This is what is often said about extramarital affairs, but such feelings make two people deeply attracted and can't stop. They are all working hard for this relationship and working hard together. Feelings must be true, but the cruelty of reality also exists objectively. When two people are in love, love is like a hot potato. I can't throw it away, but it hurts when I hold it, and my heart hurts. 1, feelings definitely exist, and no one can deny it. It takes two to tango. When two people fall in love, they echo each other from afar, and one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer. This is a matter for two people. Even if it goes against common sense, it is the decision of two people. Often laughed at by people, even nailed to the shame column in ancient times, some extreme things happened. However, no matter how you look at extramarital affairs, feelings are objective and still beautiful. At least it is beautiful in the hearts of two people who love each other. It may seem childish, but when you fall in love, you are all adults. What is love and what are its consequences. Perhaps, such feelings may last for many years, may be a flash in the pan, may be scattered without holding hands, or may be really together later. But later, we will find that-in fact, when we meet true love, it is always a short encounter when people reach middle age. Because when we were young, we didn't have a deep understanding of love, because "what we can't get is always the most beautiful", and because of the pressure of real life, we longed for someone to really walk into our hearts, so we had unexpected emotional touches and outlined more beautiful reverie. 2, such feelings, no one can tell right or wrong, don't blame anyone, don't complain about life. No one can tell what feelings really are. Marriage is a contract, but people often violate it; Extramarital affairs are a feeling, but there are always people who stubbornly insist. Who is right and who is wrong, I don't know. There is nothing wrong with loving someone. The starting point is to yearn for the beauty of love. Sticking to marriage is moral ethics; Soul calls for extramarital affairs! Love can never be explained by common sense. If you really love someone, don't complain. It's all your decision, not who binds your consciousness. Don't complain about fate, fate is because you fell in love later. If you don't fall in love with someone, then more people meet and pass by. 3. If you can be rational and calm, that would be great! When you fall in love with someone, you are always carried away by love, even "a moth to a fire". Few people can stay awake and rational. Especially in extramarital affairs, it is difficult to fall in love with someone, it is even harder to let go of a relationship, and it is even harder to forget someone. Because of the beauty of love, no one wants to let go But what can you do if you don't let go? There are really few people who keep extramarital affairs all their lives. Most people walk away and disappear as time goes by. Sometimes, we can't believe in ourselves. We can let go of a relationship, but time proves everything! Also, extramarital affairs, there is always guilt for the family, and there are times when it is uncomfortable. No one can ignore it. These are two sides of human nature, one is responsibility and responsibility, and the other is love without hesitation. When we don't have an affair, we can comfort anyone who has an affair around us and tell the truth calmly and generously. However, if you have an affair yourself, you just find out now that you can't even convince yourself of these "big truths"! Therefore, if you have an extramarital affair, you can remain rational and learn to be calm. This is the greatest "goodness", at least it will not make people around you scarred. Therefore, love can't be killed with a stick. You should always think from multiple angles, don't blame anyone, don't "curse the street", and hope to understand more people.