The mood diary 1 day ... is very big.
Clouds are floating around, cows are walking aimlessly on the vast green grassland, and the crisp and euphemistic calls of young eagles seem to be all over the blue sky.
A group of shepherd children, leading sheepdogs, trotted briskly with grass in their mouths. Maybe the lambs don't understand these children, but they know it's right to follow their mother. Walking, running ... It will be evening soon. At this time, the sky is getting dark, and the faint yellow halo sets off a harmonious atmosphere. Shepherd's children sat on the grassland, watching the sun slowly swallowed up by Mother Earth from their sight, and finally the rest of the sun was taken underground.
Then it was a long night, and the children were lying on the grassland because they knew the moon was coming. Maybe it's just a nap, and the sky is bright again. The cold wind at this time did not disturb this group of naive teenagers to appreciate the beauty of heaven and earth. The stars set off the bright moon, and the lights were everywhere. There seems to be no seriousness in the city. These children are not bound by the rules of the city-go to bed early. Because they can see more unique country life.
This is the beauty of simplicity, elegance and modesty. Its beauty is natural, its beauty is pure, and its beauty intoxicates sheep and children!
The second chapter of the mood diary "Tick-tock, Tick-tock" is the most sincere voice in the world. The sound of rain touched my heart bit by bit.
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It has been raining for several days, and my soft thoughts drifted to a few years ago. ...
This is also a few weeks of rain. Chatting online is tired, the wind is soft and listless. Suddenly saw a message I sent: dog tail flower, do you know? I'm going to transfer. It's a man-eating flower, and suddenly my heart is empty. This girl, who always looks like a saboteur at ordinary times, will cause us a lot of trouble, but she suddenly said she was leaving, which was really hard to bear. I asked myself: Are you sad? I only got a silent answer. Later, I asked several other friends. They are also very silent and don't talk to each other. Suddenly, I feel that a very important position in my heart is blank. ...
It was the birthday of the man-eating flower, and everyone went, but they were silent and embarrassed. The man-eating flower reluctantly smiled: "What! I'm leaving. Why the long face? Finally, when I spend my birthday with you, I must be happy ... give me the cake! Did you hear that! " Rose slowly raised her head: "Yes! Be happy on the last birthday of the man-eating flower ... "We looked at the man-eating flower and shoveled the salty cake. ...
The man-eating flower left, and the eight of us were together, saying that we would never part, but the next one to leave us was Rose. ...
It was also a rainy day when we said goodbye to the rose. I remember we joked with her and said, "Look, you've been crying for days." We talked a lot. Finally, when Rose really wanted to leave, she hugged her and said, "I don't want you to leave. You left, and so did the cannibal flower. Why are we separated? " Our tears suddenly fell down. ...
I thought: maybe it's over. But this time it's chrysanthemum ...
Chrysanthemum's parents want to transfer their jobs, so the whole family will move out. Chrysanthemum didn't tell us where she was going, just smiled and said to us, let's live a good life. Bai Yutang and Chrysanthemum are the most compatible, but they don't talk to each other. It suddenly occurred to me that Chrysanthemum and I used to study together, and our literary level improved. Now think about it, I don't know how precious it is. It didn't rain that day, but it was gloomy and depressing.
Finally, * * flowers also said goodbye to us.
* * When Hua said goodbye to us, we didn't show too much sadness, just nodded lightly. The sun was bright that day, which stung our eyes. ...
Four good friends, all gone, and the remaining five of us said that we must cherish our present friendship.
On the day of the senior high school entrance examination, we each walked into the examination room and calmly dealt with the examination until the end of the examination. ...
During the holiday, we went to KFC together ... and then went home separately.
I didn't expect this parting to belong to me ...
I'm going to transfer, that's what I told the four of them. When they heard this, there was something in their eyes that I could not understand. Finally, Lily whispered, "Are you leaving us, too? Didn't you say you couldn't separate? " Suddenly I feel as if there is something called helplessness hovering around me. Is the cannibal flower' Rose' Chrysanthemum in the same mood as when I left?
The moment I turned to leave, I suddenly remembered to play with them with a smile. I failed to seize such precious time. ...
I seem to see a meteor flying by. Are they tears that bless me?
I love you forever! If you look up and see a meteor, it's my blessing.
As a result, it may not be what you expected. However, I want to ask: Is this the case?
Silence, right? Look at your face, yes, and it's better than you expected. You don't want to say the word "good" because of feelings.
It doesn't matter, I don't mind. Don't admire in your heart, I just did what I had to do. It's simple. People can do it with a little brain.
It's my turn to do it, and you just saw it. Don't be surprised, don't be surprised. An ordinary method, an ordinary thing.
I'm doing it and thinking about it.
If I do exactly as you say, I will be exhausted. Because you didn't do it yourself, what you said you were doing can only be used as a reference here. I started the "machine" and expanded my imagination. Please don't mind my "unauthorized" action.
I can't help it I never want to catch up with you, and I won't ignore you. I just want to finish this complicated task in a simple way. Mainly because I don't want to be too tired, and I don't want to save some costs with my boss, so I made this "bad policy". Nothing else, that's all.
Don't care too much about the process, do you? You just need results. The result is good and the boss is satisfied.
The boss is satisfied, I am the one who works, and the credit belongs to everyone. You should be happy!
I'm thinking, and I'm doing it.
Don't look at me like that, I will be unnatural, nervous, blocked, and the planned steps will be disrupted.
Don't be afraid of me playing. Actually, I didn't play, my brain was "sharpening". Will it delay cutting wood if the knife is sharpened quickly?
I know you have a flexible mind. But make sure you're not the only one with a flexible mind. Even, in some respects, others may be more "refined" than you.
Although I am not the "master", I also want to give full play to my subjective initiative and make a modest contribution to the prosperity and development of the company. This is worth promoting, right?
Make a plan before you do it, and improve it in the process to make the plan more efficient and easier. Is it wrong?
You should be able to understand these. Of course, it doesn't matter if you don't understand. Think it over before you understand. I'm sure you'll understand eventually.
Sticking to the rules and obeying orders is tantamount to standing still. Human progress and social progress.
Step by step is flexibility. If you only know how to do it, you will be exhausted; Just thinking about it will starve to death.
So, I am doing and thinking; So, I'm thinking, doing. It's my usual style to want to combine with others.
Don't take it lightly. I also know that the result is only a little faster and less, but I have improved a little anyway.
Still unhappy? Then I can't help it. I can only say: it doesn't matter if you are unhappy alone, I am happy and everyone is happy. Worrying too much will make me tired and affect my work, so I'm too lazy to worry too much.
Give me some shoes to wear? All right! I also remind you: hurry to see how many "little shoes" you have in stock, and take them out and put them on others as soon as possible. Otherwise, there will be no chance in the future, and I will regret it.
In college, I majored in social management of sociology. On the recommendation of my teacher, I read the book Corner Society, which is a "required reading for sociology". For the first time, I learned all kinds of things carefully and patiently in a small corner.
Accustomed to the bustling neon of the city, do we care what is staged in the small corner? If you look, you will find another world. This book inspired me a lot. I want to talk about my understanding and gains from three aspects.
Practice is respect for truth.
After reading the society on the street corner and the author's writing process, I am more convinced that any truth comes from practice, and the conclusions drawn without practice are just nonsense.
During the period from 1936 to 1940, White made an in-depth study of an Italian slum in the north of Boston. Previous studies have always regarded slums as problem areas and considered them to be disorderly and loose. White personally discussed its internal structure, activities and social relations, thus citing the social organization structure of the community itself and its interaction.
White's survey is not as short and casual as a street questionnaire, but has a time span to better integrate and understand this social group. Secondly, White gave a detailed description of the specific figures in the corner society "Konawo", such as Doc and Chick, as well as specific groups, such as Norton Gang and Aphrodite Club. This seemingly novel saving is actually the result of White's own social experience in the streets and lanes. This meticulous, patient, dedicated and realistic spirit is really touching and admirable.
This reminds me of another person who pursues truth in practice-Ma Yinchu, who learned about his life some time ago. The old scholar who wrote The New Population Theory doesn't know how many places he has been personally, how many newspaper materials he has researched and how many population problems he has studied! It was in the process of practice that he realized the seriousness of the population problem and insisted on his own ideas more and more. Those "many children are blessed" on paper are already vulnerable to the conclusions drawn in practice.
And history has proved that the concept of "field research" is the most important academic contribution of Street Corner Society, and this research method is also called "participatory research method" in anthropology.
In fact, participatory research methods are not accepted by many scholars. Researchers must spend some time to gain the trust and recognition of researchers before they can go deep into their lives. More importantly, participating in research is never a temporary achievement, and it needs unremitting persistence.
In contrast, the fabricated data without participating in the investigation will always be invalid, the theory on paper will always be superficial, and the behavior of jumping to conclusions with a little knowledge will always be a stain on the academic field!
Second, pay attention to those "street corners"
Every street corner is an important part of society. We should pay more attention to informal groups.
So we need to choose the right attitude. For informal groups, we can neither adopt a high-handed policy nor let it drift, but we should correctly guide them to play an active role.
I once saw the investigation and analysis of gangs in a district of Changsha, Hunan by the Institute of Social Studies of Nanjing Agricultural University on the Internet. I agree with one sentence: these spontaneously formed street corner groups with weak political binding force are a kind of "gray groups", which are often composed of groups on the edge of the city, and their existence is objective. My understanding is that if guided correctly, this small group may form an excellent culture to promote society, and "gray" will become "bright". However, if left unchecked, small groups are likely to be divorced from society and even run counter to social development, and "gray" will turn into "black". Competition with formal groups hinders the realization of normal activities and goals.
Researchers pay attention to the street corner society, but the correct and powerful guidance must also rely on the government.
It is mentioned in the book that Doc once relied on his family to provide food and shelter, but since the federal relief program began, he has been able to participate in public utilities. And unemployed, he is likely to become an idle punk! It can be seen that the government's principles and policies will guide a person or even a group to choose the right direction. The book also says: Conaway's male college students have risen above the street corner youth because of their higher education, and they strive to become professionals and move to the society. This coincides with the view of "strengthening the positive education of gray groups". Leaders should not only start with hard policy indicators, but also start with education.
In fact, leading political and ideological construction is also the function of the government. The objective existence of street society poses a great test to the government. Perhaps this can better promote our government to keep its word and match its words with deeds.
Social groups need equality.
The idea that "all men are created equal" came into being during the Renaissance and the Enlightenment, but it will take a long time to realize it. The section "Bowling and Social Status" in the book clearly shows the close relationship between social status, recognition and play level. The book says, "some people are expected to get good grades, even if they get low grades, they are considered unfortunate;" Some followers get high marks, which is also considered to be the luck and difficulty of the boss. "
Not only street corner society, but also many places. The official second generation, the rich second generation, sometimes acts savagely towards ordinary people. They dare not show their talents in front of their superiors in order to be officials. They are humble and unprincipled, and take flattery as a rising step. In fact, they are belittling themselves!
Including the attitude of society towards prosperous areas and gray areas, should be treated equally, because they are important components of society and there is no inevitable difference between high and low.
Many times, we misinterpret "equality". Equality does not mean that everyone has the same living standard and ideological realm, but is more inclined to obtain equal rights in the most essential human rights and dignity. This is exactly what we need to improve.
Look at the corner, we still have too much to pay attention to.
Night falls, silently covering the whole city of Sanya, brightly lit. Street lights, advertising lights, car lights ... red, yellow and green ... decorate the city with colorful colors, seductively wink at the world, and only a few stars quietly emit a faint light in the deep night sky. ...
"Go dancing?" "No" "Singing?" "no" "go to tea?" "no!" So what do you want to do? My good friend took pains to ask me, and I shook my head again and again. "I don't want to go out to play today," I said to my friend, staring at the stars in the sky. "I have a desire to stay indoors."
There will always be an unusual night, and I strongly want to avoid the noisy crowd. I'm afraid that one day I won't find myself.
When the other roommates get dressed and go out, the whole space is mine. The window should be opened. Let the breeze blow in slowly, and the door should be locked. Don't let the daredevil break in. The room is very quiet, only the ticking of the alarm clock, and the music and songs in the street outside will float in, but that will only add a long and beautiful feeling. I can't turn on the radio myself. Concerts that are too clear interfere with my inner peace like water.
The ancients said, "A scholar who doesn't study for three days looks disgusting." I bought a lot of books, but I didn't have much time to read them carefully. I often fall into all kinds of entertainment involuntarily, and now evening is a good time to read books. Some books in the world can't be read in broad daylight. Only in the silent night, after putting aside all troubles, can you see and hear the author's words, tears and laughter. That kind of beautiful feeling, word by word, is not found in karaoke bars and dance halls, and staying indoors is also the greatest pleasure.
Time is mine and space is mine. This simple possession makes me feel better than princesses and princes. I lay in bed in the most comfortable position, opened a favorite book and soon walked into the situation in the book. I felt all the joys and sorrows in the book with my stretched mind and absorbed the essence of the text condensed by the author's painstaking efforts. At this time, there is no noise in the world, only the wind is quietly kissing my hair. Outside the window, the stars in the night still glow silently and weakly. ...
Time flows happily between pages, and the field of life is moistened bit by bit. This quiet night has an unusual beauty, and I love it.
I made an appointment with my friends to go to Xuanwu Lake at ten o'clock and go out to take the subway. There are also many people who don't want to have a big weekend. They packed up as soon as they got on the bus! Finally, I squeezed into an empty position where the two cars met and stood down. Opposite me are two beautiful women, students who should be in their early 20 s and have not graduated or just graduated. They're all beautiful and dressed in fashion! It seems that they should be strangers, because since I got on the bus, they were basically immersed in their mobile phones and didn't hear any communication from them! What should I do after driving for a long time? I also took out my mobile phone and watched it!
After several stops on the subway, there are more and more people. Fortunately, my territory is fairly well-off! When the subway arrived at Zhong Ling Street, three people came up together, all wearing thick cotton-padded jackets, looking bloated. The man who entered the door first, thin and over 40 years old, held a box in one hand and a big bag in the other. The two men behind him are a fat man in his forties with a big belly, and a man in his sixties with a gray beard and a long beard. One of them is holding a crutch, and the other is riding on Mazar. It turns out that the last two are blind …
As soon as they came in, they occupied the entrance position, and people at the door kept pacing in, and some people whispered while covering their noses! My territory has also been invaded, and my bag can only be held in my arms …
Look at their clothes carefully, cotton-padded jackets are all made by hand, the cuffs are black and cotton is still exposed, and the old man is wearing a motorcycle hat. I saw my grandfather wear it when I was very young, but it is hard to see this style now. They should be beggars or buskers, I guess …
All eyes were on these three people, and the two beautiful women opposite me also looked up at these people, but one of them took one look and continued to play with his mobile phone, when another girl suddenly stood up and said to the blind old man, come and sit with me. Hearing this, the three people thanked each other! The thin man came up with the old man, and the old man turned and sat down, but how did he know that there was another girl sitting next to him? He only heard a bang, and the erhu behind him knocked off the girl's mobile phone! The mobile phone slipped under my feet. It's Apple plus. I saw the black screen … the girl picked it up and turned it on, but it didn't turn it on! ... the thin man's face is red. I'm sorry! The girl hasn't spoken for a long time … I thought it was over, and how many people would pay for it! People around you are also aware of Suosuo, as if waiting for a good show!
After a while, I only heard the girl say it's okay. I guess it's a poor power contact. I'll take a look at it later …
At this moment, the whole carriage suddenly quieted down …
Sometimes I make things clear, and then I don't know if it's appropriate to use confused words. I found myself like this.
Writing here, I clearly remember some things, so I realized my own problems in this regard. In the past, I was confused. I never went back to read what was written in my notebook, nor did I review it. I always feel that I have written it, made it clear, and it will be OK! I just leave it alone. This is really a big problem, big problem, really!
That's why I'm often confused about what I should have understood: I didn't eat it thoroughly! So, what should we do?
At this time, I'm not sure if I'm right when I say I want to know. I'm not sure if I was sure before. Now I have questions. Really doubt what you believe.
Why don't I continue to be sure? What has puzzled my heart? What makes my heart dim?
What did I forget? What did I miss? What is stagnant? What did you slack off? What's bothering me What am I afraid of?
I don't believe in myself, I'm afraid I'll cheat myself, because I will do such a thing! Therefore, I am afraid that my words are not true, because I am talking to myself and I don't want to be cheated.
So although I said at the back of some articles that I must read that article again in the future, it is beneficial. I still doubt myself. I'm not sure whether that statement is true or not, because I know I had some in my heart at that time.
At this time, I want to say a word, my words, the tone in my words, are you deceiving yourself? Are you kidding someone? Or perfunctory? How impressive! Ask yourself what you did.
Am I disgusted that God can't cook, and I want to show off my prestige for eight years in front of him? I really lack the humility of Christ.
Many times what is said and written is exaggerated hypocrisy! My confession and repentance are not thorough enough, and the language has brought me great misunderstanding! Always feel good about yourself! I don't realize what's wrong with my life, and I'm still wondering more and more. I don't know what's going on.
My writing space, unreal and without foundation, can't exist forever.
I didn't send my writing. What I talked about, what I talked about, my vision, my experience and my knowledge all show that I am too young and need deeper desires and pursuits.
Therefore, words have been helping me live more realistically, instead of floating in mid-air and falling to the ground.
In the future, we should study hard, be honest and true, continue to refuel and work hard!
Mood Diary Chapter 8 The beautiful Dianjiang River is a paradise for flowers, and peony is the most beautiful flower there.
Today, my mother and aunt and I went to Dianjiang, and we embarked on the road to Dianjiang with great expectation. I am very happy on the road. Although it takes two hours by car, I am very happy at the thought of peonies everywhere. Two hours later, we all arrived at the back hill. The tour guide said there were no flowers in the front hill, but there might be flowers in the back hill. We walked up the back hill, but I couldn't find a peony anywhere, and my mood suddenly disappeared. Walking, I found some peony flowers, but they are all lines, and I am not in the mood. We went up the mountain along the road, but we didn't see any peony, so we were naturally in a bad mood. Later, after going down the mountain, I felt quite good. Sometimes I often have no time to exercise. At least this time, we exercised and felt much better.
The next scenic spot is Changshou Ancient Town. In the last unit, we talked about the ancient town of Lijiang in the text. I also like to visit the ancient town. There are also many bridges in the ancient town: single-hole bridge, double-hole bridge and multi-hole bridge. The name of another double-hole bridge is: Yufeng Bridge. Time was a little hasty, so we went to the specialty store, bought some local products and went home like this. Although we didn't see the peony, we were still very happy because we exercised and visited the ancient town.
Without peony, ancient town and other beautiful flowers, I will be satisfied.
9. Have I grown up? Maybe. I'm really old. Compared with people my age, some of them already have children, even if they don't, at least they talked about one person. Growing up is really annoying. This man asked if he had a girlfriend, and that man asked if he had a girlfriend. Maybe ... can't you ask something else besides these? I don't know if I have to have a girlfriend at my age. However, I know what it means to get married between a man and a woman!
Today's society is no longer the words of parents who have been there, and they rarely get married. But what do modern people take those leftover men and women for? Most of them are gossip, most of them are incompetent and unattractive, and some of them have caused their psychological pressure.
Parents want their children to live well and happily, so the requirements for the other half … leftover men and women come from this …
I don't rule out that in such an economy-oriented society, more people value money and reputation. Look at the real estate, look at the family and look at the background. China is an ancient country, a country of etiquette, and a land of virtue and politics. What else can we know about history?
Now I have to say, my Lord, please rest assured that your children are very good and excellent. They know what they are doing ... My Lord, please let them decide their own path ... You are from a poor family, and whatever you need and what your children want will give you a satisfactory answer.
When I grow up, will I be like my parents hope?
Until the fields grow,
Work hard and hope to succeed.
What's the point of suffering?
Poverty inherits the wind!