Analysis: ?"What is based on emotion and what is stopped is based on etiquette" is Confucius's idea.
It is okay to fall in love, but it cannot go beyond the boundaries of etiquette and law, that is, you cannot have sex. The "stop" here does not mean to stop the relationship, but means to stop within the scope allowed by etiquette and law. Don't do things that go beyond etiquette just because of love
From the preface to Mao's poems in "The Book of Songs".
The original text is as follows:
Therefore, the change of wind comes from emotion, but ends with etiquette and justice. It stems from emotions, which is the nature of the people; it stems from etiquette and justice, which is the beauty of the previous kings.
Analysis:
"What starts with emotion, ends with etiquette" expresses a kind of holiness, responsibility and responsibility. After savoring this sentence, the revelation it brings to me is: men respect themselves and women love themselves. The principle is very simple, but it is very difficult to actually do it! "What starts with emotion ends with etiquette" is a theoretical thing, but in the real emotional world, it is quite difficult to combine theory with practice. It is okay to fall in love, but it cannot go beyond the boundaries of etiquette and law, that is, you cannot have sex. Stop here does not mean to stop the relationship, but to stop when it reaches the scope allowed by etiquette and law. You cannot do things that go beyond etiquette and law just because of love. . Confucius advocated "pleasure but not pornography".
Introduction to the work:
The Book of Songs is a collection of poems produced at the end of China's slave society. It is the beginning of ancient Chinese poetry and the earliest poetry collection. It collected 305 ancient poems from the 11th century BC to the 6th century BC, and 6 "Sheng Poems" with only titles but no verses, reflecting the social outlook of about 500 years from the early Western Zhou Dynasty to the middle of the Spring and Autumn Period. ?
The author of "The Book of Songs" is unknown. It is said that it was collected by Yin Jifu and compiled by Confucius. At first it was only called "Shi" or "Three Hundred Poems". By the Western Han Dynasty, it was revered as a Confucian classic and was called "The Book of Songs". The Book of Songs is compiled into three categories: "Wind", "Ya" and "Song". "Wind" is a ballad from various places in the Zhou Dynasty; "Ya" is a formal song of the Zhou people, and is divided into "Xiaoya" and "Daya"; Song", "Song of Lu" and "Song of Shang". ?
The Book of Songs is rich in content, reflecting labor and love, war and corvee, oppression and resistance, customs and marriage, ancestor worship and banquets, and even celestial phenomena, landforms, animals, plants and other aspects. A mirror of modern social life.